I really don't know what to do with marriage.

So marriage can still be like this. I really feel miserable when I see your wedding procedure. I really don't know how I got married after 80. I know my husband's family is not poor, but I have never talked to him about the cost of marriage, so I don't care how much money they have. In their village, we should be one of the best people who didn't invite a wedding banquet or give her any bride price. Maybe this is a precedent. His family didn't marry me a penny. Don't get me wrong, there are not many old-school people like me in 2 1 century. I can only blame myself for being naive, thinking that there is bread where there is love. As long as two people can work hard, life will be beautiful. But after marriage, they will buy a house upside down, treat the family and treat the public. In short, I borrowed tens of thousands of dollars together with the money for buying a house, and my husband finally left. A few days after my husband left, I got seriously ill and had to pay the hospitalization deposit. The two of us added up to less than 200 yuan, and I almost met God. Fortunately, my colleague didn't say anything. He gave me 2000 yuan for first aid and called a car to take me to the hospital (at least 100 yuan in my car was paid by someone else). My mother also came from my hometown, and even my grandmother asked her to bring money to treat me, but some people in his family said that any illness was nothing, so they put some infusion bottles there and needed to be hospitalized. That's how it started. I have been married for less than a year. Although I feel very painful every time I think about it, I didn't expect to get divorced.

After giving birth to a child, she is called a "daughter-in-law who doesn't spend money to marry." I don't want to call her mom, and she shouldn't call her mom. " My lungs are going to explode. The main reason is that she doesn't want to leave her hometown to help us take care of the children, but we owe so much money that we can't afford anyone to take care of it. After months of hard work, we begged our parents to take care of them for nearly a year. My parents took their children to work again. My mother's place of work is nearly an hour away from where she lives. She takes my children in the wind and rain every day. Last June, my mother was ill and couldn't take care of them. The reason is that we have no money to ask her to take care of them. While his mother is alone at home all day, others only work and go to school once a week. Good and bad, the child stayed at his house for a month and finally found out. Going home and taking a bath, I saw that the child grew a lot of things like peas, including primary stage, mature stage and old dead skin. In addition to old age and death, other stages will itch, and children will always scratch. Once scratched, water will infect other places and grow new peas. We took it to the hospital to see a doctor and bought some potions to bathe the children, but it took nearly 4 to 5 months before it was cured by the "acyclovir glue" introduced by the doctor friend. I am angry that I have grown so much in his house in a month and didn't tell my husband and wife, otherwise it wouldn't get longer and longer if I took it out early. Now every time I go back to his house, my marriage and parenting process are the same! I get angry every time I think about it, but the days have passed. I hope my loyalty and sincerity can touch the sky, so that we can have bread when we have love. As long as two people can work hard, life will be beautiful.