People are all interested, what do you think?

Lead: Story description: A netizen borrowed 1, yuan from his parents at the beginning of the year. She planned to return it to her parents at the end of the year. Unexpectedly, his parents called many times a month ago to urge her to return the money for urgent use (for the reason of buying a car), but the netizen had to pay it back, but she was sad that she didn't go home for the New Year! What do you think of this?

What do you think about "everyone has an interest relationship, including parents?" This question, Xiao Bian compiled the answers from users from multiple sources for everyone to understand more comprehensively.

1. The following opinions were praised by 22 people and discussed in 11 exchanges:

After reading the description of this incident, the author feels that "not a family, not entering a house". If the message that parents send to their children is "only the interest relationship between people", the child's reaction to parents' behavior will be sadness after "so it is". Don't worry, just hear me out. The pure interest relationship is the price relationship, that is, the equivalent exchange. But parents need to spend a lot of effort and effort to give birth and raise their children. As a child, how much do you think these efforts and efforts are worth? Can you measure them by price? Therefore, the interest relationship between parents and children is the relatives who depend on each other's lives. It does not mean that children must be justified in borrowing 1, yuan, or that parents' urging (with all due respect, it seems that family ties are not harmonious) must be an act of "forgetting righteousness at the expense of profit". Would it be a little narrow-minded to think like this? The author helps this netizen to make a move. It is more beneficial for both sides to rationally analyze the family relationship structure with parents as soon as possible. For example, parents think that money is very important, and the benefits between parents and children outweigh the feelings. That is very simple. The way you repay your parents' kindness is through financial payment within your ability. In layman's terms, it is to give money. After all, it's a fact that they gave birth to you. It's not the right thing for a child to do if you don't go home to visit your parents for a mere 1 thousand dollars. Live a down-to-earth life, learn more skills to earn money, and let your purse swell. For adults, self-reliance begins with having independent economic ability. The above is for reference only, thank you for reading.

2. Wonderful answer:

I saw that your situation is a little special. I don't mean that all parents in the world will do this, and we can't generalize. We can't kill a boat with one bamboo pole. Thousands of people have thousands of hearts, and the world is full of wonders. When the forest is big, there are all kinds of birds, including parents, relatives and friends. Although the reality of today's society is no longer realistic, everything is based on. If you are in trouble, they should give you a hand to tide over the difficulties. It is no big deal to buy a car. Everything is important. It is the best policy to solve the most urgent and urgent things first. Buying a car can be suspended, not waiting to drive. If a family is in trouble, everyone should face it together and share it with each other. This is also the main reason for the harmony of most families, not a family. You still have a father and son in battle, and your relatives are always relatives. Blood is thicker than water, breaking bones and tendons, and you can never give up. Most families help each other and care for each other. You have me and I have you. You raise me young, I raise you old, and parents are selfless and dedicated to their children. Parents are flaunting it. Don't be disrespectful for the old, bring up bad children, and learn for three years. As a child, you shouldn't share their common sense. You should be forgiving, be generous, and don't have to compete with your parents. You must forgive a little mistake for a while. It's not easy for your parents to endure anything. There is no fire mountain that you can't cross, and the family is harmonious and harmonious, even if you are bitter and poor.

3. The following opinions were praised by 13 people, and there were 17 exchanges and discussions:

The relationship between people all boils down to the interest relationship, which is inevitably biased. In all kinds of social interpersonal relationships, there are indeed many people who are driven by interests, especially in the business dealings and capital exchanges of various enterprises, and it is not uncommon for them to turn their faces for interests in the exchanges between relatives and friends. The world is bustling, and all are famous. " From the time their children get married and start a career to the time their grandchildren (nephews) are born, parents can be said to have endless hearts, endless responsibilities, no regrets and bounden duties. Secondly, couples who have true love as the basis of marriage are selfless for love and do not ask for anything in return. Because their emotional foundation is soul mates and their spirit is supreme, they will not go too far in pursuit of things outside their bodies, and will not cause unnecessary quarrels over money. Instead, they will share weal and woe and live a harmonious and happy life. Some of them even give their money selflessly. Fourth, people with compassion and kindness take helping others as an unshirkable responsibility. They actively participate in all kinds of charity donation activities, donate money and materials to people in areas where serious natural disasters have occurred, donate money and materials to people in difficulty who have never met, and some even help people in need and save their lives by donating blood, organs and hematopoietic stem cells for free. All these are enough to show that there is truth in the world. Therefore, there is no only interest relationship between people, and we should fully understand this. I sincerely hope that each of us will start from ourselves and offer a little love to others, so that the golden sunshine of love can spread all over the world and warm the world.

4. Wonderful answer:

People have an itchy relationship, whether you are good or not! You are good for me to ask you for help, and I am good for you to ask me for help, but when you ask me for help, I will ask you for help at the same time. If you can't do it, I can't do it at the same time! Let's talk about it later! This is the relationship between people today! Also called interest relationship. Otherwise, nothing can be done! The chaos of life on the journey is indeed difficult. When you spend your life in chaos, you must learn how to make use of the relationship between people, that is,' be a man first, then do things'! How to use your life? Make more friends and become good friends among friends, so that you can do everything well. Friends will help you. Of course, there are also difficulties among friends. Similarly, you should be enthusiastic about helping, and don't do the' kick down the ladder' thing. After helping you, you will never know him again. There are too many such social friends! This is the relationship between' changing hands and itching' and mutual use! Open your mind, see through, between people, that's it. When you are good, you are a friend, but you are nothing! Finally, say a word; The journey of life depends on your own struggle-one is your happiest!

5. Wonderful answer:

The fundamental problem in life is life and death. How simple life and death are, heaven and earth are in harmony with everything, where there is life, there must be death, and when there is death, it will return to heaven and earth. Why do people get married and have children? Heaven and earth are all things, or they are boring, but the fact is that there are all things. Men are masculine and women are feminine. The combination of yin and yang naturally gives birth to children, and there are endless children and grandchildren. Since parents have raised their children, the children borrow money from their parents. As for when, it is only the children who want to go back for the New Year. Water is changeable, so it is normal for parents to use money in a hurry. As children, we should think more about the elderly and help our parents as much as possible. Instead of thinking that I borrowed money and originally planned to go back for the New Year, my parents are eager to use money to urge me to be unhappy and can't open it. I'm so sad that I don't go back for the New Year, so I chose to abandon my family. It is said that children who leave home are lonely, while children who abandon home are like vagrants, how sad they are. If the child is the child's parents in the future, how can similar things happen? People are watching, but they still have to love their families and close relatives. Those who don't love others are contrary to morality.