There is only one reason why the blind date doesn't return your message.

A boy confided to me that he recently met a blind date girl under the introduction of relatives.

Because I had a good impression on the girl at the first meeting, I thought about developing with her and seeing if they could develop into lovers, and finally I really got married.

With such a mood, after the first meeting, he has been actively looking for various topics and sending messages to girls, hoping to enhance mutual understanding through such interaction.

He is very enthusiastic, but the girl is different from him, but she looks very cold. At first, she would be perfunctory occasionally, then she got busy, and then she didn't reply to his message directly.

Facing the neglect of girls, he said that he was at a loss and didn't know what girls really meant, but there was nothing he didn't understand. There is no other reason why the blind date doesn't return the information, but she doesn't like it and doesn't want to develop.

People who are interested in you will not reply to you.

Whenever you don't understand what others really mean, you can actually think about yourself.

When someone you like sends you a message, you will always look happy and reply in time, but when someone who is not interested in you sends you a message, you will be too lazy to take a reason.

Your attitude towards others varies from person to person, and others treat you differently.

Blind date, you don't want to miss a person who is interested in you, a blind date who is interested in you, and he doesn't want to miss you. In your contact, she may not have your initiative, but she will certainly cater to your initiative.

Whenever she receives your message, she will reply to you seriously. During your chat, she won't just wait for you to take the initiative to find a topic. While grasping your topic, she will also find some topics to keep the topic going.

If I don't reply to your message, I'm rejecting you.

In fact, the world of adults is not so complicated, there is no need to always guess.

People who like you will be a little more enthusiastic about you, and people who don't like you will naturally give you the cold shoulder, but people who really don't take you seriously and don't want to get involved with you will of course ignore you.

So when you just meet a talent and there is not much overlap, then she will ignore you, so there is nothing to doubt. She just draws a line with you and doesn't want you to step into her world.

No reply is an answer, and no response is a refusal. She didn't reply to you, in fact, she hoped that this cold treatment would make you retreat, stop having any hope for her and stop disturbing her life.

For you, she is the person you want to develop. Sorry, for her, you are not the other half she wants.

She didn't say it directly, but she was saving your face.

When she doesn't tell you directly and just doesn't reply to your message, you may suspect that she is not interested in you, but at the same time, I believe you still don't want to admit it so much, and you will think that as long as she doesn't tell you clearly, you still have a chance.

If you have such a mentality and always take the initiative to her, then it will not be her sudden enthusiasm. I'm afraid she will tell you directly that she doesn't like you.

The person you are dating, she doesn't tell you directly, she's not testing you, she doesn't want to see how long you insist, but she thinks it would be too embarrassing to refuse you directly, and she doesn't want to make the scene so ugly.

Deep down, she feels that as long as she doesn't reply to you, then after two or three times, you will actually understand what she means, then stop thinking and disappear directly.

When she is like this, you really don't need to have unnecessary illusions. You must make her understand.

In blind date, if the blind date introduced to you by others will come to you enthusiastically and respond to you positively, then there is no doubt that you have a chance and you can pursue it with confidence.

But if others don't pay much attention to you or even reply to your message, even if you are satisfied, you'd better take back your mind.

Feelings are between two people. If the other person doesn't respond to you, it's no use trying again.

You don't have to like your blind date if you don't like it. In the face of her indifference, you just leave smartly.

One day, you will meet someone who has a crush on her, and she has a crush on you. That person will be the rest of your life

Text/Tan Meng