A female colleague introduced her to a partner, and after a year of dating, she frequently posted private photos. What happened next?

A man surnamed Zhang from Dingyuan, Anhui Province, woke up after a year of online dating with the "partner" introduced by his female colleague, lamenting that he had been deceived.

It is understood that one of Zhang’s married female colleagues, Wang, took the initiative to mention to him that she had a very beautiful female classmate who could be introduced to him as his girlfriend.

With the help of Wang, Zhang became friends with a woman with the online name "Poetry and Distance". At that time, the netizen sent him a photo. The woman in the photo looked like Very beautiful, the two chatted very enthusiastically online, and their relationship quickly heated up.

There is just one thing. Whenever Zhang mentions videos or meetings, female netizens will shirk them in every possible way. In order to dispel Zhang’s suspicion, female netizens frequently took the initiative to send Zhang many private photos without showing her face. At the same time, the female netizen repeatedly asked Zhang to send her red envelopes on the pretext of seeing a doctor.

Soon, the two had been dating online for a year. Zhang sent a red envelope worth more than 10,000 yuan to the female netizen, but he never saw the netizen in person, which gradually made him suspicious. Go to the police station to report the crime. After the police learned about the situation, they immediately launched an investigation.

The results of the investigation soon surfaced, but they were shocking and completely shattered Zhang’s dream. It turned out that the female netizen was actually the female colleague Wang herself.

Wang found other people’s photos from the Internet and sent them to Zhang, and made him mistakenly believe that the girl in the photo was the person introduced to him. Those private photos were all Wang’s selfies, and she committed the crime. The motive is just to cheat and spend some money.

Coincidentally, a man in Hubei was defrauded of money in a similar way. The man was anxious because he was still single in his thirties, so he asked his male colleague and fellow villager Deng to help introduce his girlfriend.

Deng first introduced a girl to the man, but not long after the relationship, the two broke up. At the man's request again, Deng introduced another girl to him. The man chatted online and learned that the girl was young and beautiful. Her home was in Hubei and her workplace was in Shenzhen. The two soon fell in love.

The girl often sent ambiguous text messages to the man, and took the initiative to talk about marriage and introduced her relatives to him, which made the man excited and convinced. During their online relationship, the girl repeatedly borrowed money from the man for various reasons, with a total amount of up to 310,000. However, the other party suddenly disappeared. The man finally realized that he had been cheated and called the police.

After investigation, the police discovered that the man’s online girlfriend was actually his male colleague Deng. Deng had previously lost all his savings due to gambling. It happened that the man asked him to help introduce a partner, so he came up with the idea of ????pretending to be his girlfriend to cheat money.

It can be seen from these two cases that the two deceived men blindly believed in their so-called online girlfriends based on their trust in their colleagues.

In the author’s opinion, everyone should treat blind dates introduced by acquaintances with caution, and you should not trust them just because you know each other. After all, you and the introducer have different standards and starting points, so it is extremely difficult to trust them. May not be appropriate.

Moreover, you must lower your expectations for your blind date appropriately. You cannot expect others to introduce you to perfect beauties and handsome guys as soon as they come up. When dealing with a blind date, keep your eyes open.

In addition, transportation is now convenient, many people live in far-flung places, and the Internet has built a fast and convenient platform for everyone. It is also possible for everyone to exchange photos and chat online.

However, it should be noted that if you have the idea of ??online dating, or if the two parties are about to have financial transactions, you must have met them in real life to have sufficient understanding and trust. In the above two cases, it is very undesirable to trust someone so much by just chatting online without meeting in person.

There are endless online dating scams, so don’t think that they won’t fall on you.