Why do some people say not to contact people you like every day?

As the saying goes, "getting on the pole is not a business." This means that if a businessman is too eager to sell his goods to customers, it will appear that his things are very cheap.

Although this provides convenient service for customers to a great extent, it is not easy to appreciate and may be rejected.

Feelings are the same, like a person, and do not take the initiative to contact every day.

Contact a person you like every day, will it be ignored by the other person?

Although loving someone sometimes requires restraint and initiative to get more "chances of winning", we must grasp the degree at this time.

If you are in a hurry to contact someone every day, it is a manifestation of "inferiority", which gives people an impression of "not expensive" like "buttering up" others.

People will think that you will be ignored if you contact Ta every day and take the initiative to find Ta.

Contact a person you like every day, and you will expose your heart.

Although you have to say it bravely if you love someone, countless facts tell us that in the emotional world, those who love first and those who love much and deeply are doomed to be those who love lowly.

Even if you love someone very much, don't contact someone every day, which is equivalent to revealing your heart to the other party without reservation.

The other person happens to be as affectionate as you, but if Ta doesn't love you so much, she knows your heart very well. At this time, it must be oneself who is hurt emotionally.

Contacting a person you like every day will cause the pressure that the other person lacks free space.

Although you like someone, you should deepen your understanding and enhance your impression through communication and interaction.

However, if you contact this person every day before you are quite sure of the other person's mind, it may make the other person feel that his free space has been taken away, which may be a great pressure for Ta, thus causing disgust to this relationship.

In this case, it is not only not conducive to the further development of feelings, but also may have the opposite effect.

"Those who can't get it will never be restless, and those who are favored will be fearless."

In feelings, only by keeping a proper distance can we feel the beauty of independence.

No matter how much you love, don't be too obvious. No matter how much you miss it, you should restrain yourself from contacting every day.

Only in this way can we keep ourselves fresh in each other's hearts and be cherished.

If you like someone, you can't help but want to be together every day. If you haven't seen Sanqiu for a day, you will usually find that you have just fallen in love, and love at first sight is more common. When love lasts for a while and the enthusiasm fades, you may not feel that way.

At this time, if one party is still attached to the other party, chasing each other by SMS WeChat every day will make the other party feel that they are not free and have a feeling of wanting to escape.

Therefore, in love, we should still have reservations, keep a proper distance from our lover and give each other some space.

I once had my first love, and it was love at first sight, because both sides were first love. At that time, when the weather was hottest, I really didn't see Sanqiu all day. Strangely, as soon as I left him, I didn't remember what he looked like, except that he was a handsome boy.

I miss him as soon as I leave, and sometimes I can't sleep and eat at night. I remember that once he and his mother went to see his brother in the army for about half a month. During that time, everyone who missed him lost more than ten kilograms. I wonder if love is like this.

I am one year older than him. I just started working, and he was still a senior. If he wasn't still in college, we might have got married, because we are both in a hurry to get married and fall in love. Both parents have met, and both are suitable. Maybe contact is too frequent. At that time, he basically had no classes in senior three, and he picked me up almost every day after work.

Because of frequent contacts, the two sides gradually have contradictions. I used to be willful in front of him, and he was very tolerant of me. Then he wouldn't let me, quarreled with me, and then disappeared. When we were in love for a year, once he didn't contact me for half a month.

He didn't know he was cheating until someone saw him with a girl. And the girl was introduced by her mother, and this relationship ended in vain.

From the vigorous beginning, I can't wait to stick together all the time, and finally we broke up for a whole year.

I thought about it many times afterwards. If we hadn't met so often, kept a little distance in the process of love, didn't stick together every day, and consumed all our enthusiasm prematurely, we might not have this ending.

After that relationship broke up, it hit me hard. I can't get out of the shadow of that relationship for several years, and the boy who fell in love for the first time didn't end up with the girl who later, but we all know that time has passed and neither side can go back.

Later, I married away from home, left my sad hometown, married my husband now, and he also had his own lover. There is no intersection between us anymore, but there will always be such a person in my heart, and I will never forget it.

Therefore, if you love someone, you must give them some space and keep a proper distance. If you hold it too tightly, they will feel pressure, and the final result will be counterproductive.

Ned—

When you fall in love with someone, you will always worry about him. When you are apart, you will miss him. If you can't wait for his news one day, your heart will be empty. You will always stare at your mobile phone, and you can't help but contact him actively, even if it's nothing, just listening to his voice, and you feel very at ease inexplicably.

In fact, even if you love another person in your heart, don't contact him every day.

1, don't let your love become a burden to each other.

Frequent contact between lovers can really deepen understanding and enhance feelings, but we should also try to leave enough free space for each other.

After all, love is not the whole of life. Everyone has their own things to do. If daily contact takes up other people's work or rest time, it will not only not enhance feelings, but also bring trouble and trouble to people.

Feelings need space to breathe freely. If you hold on too tightly, not only you will be tired, but also the other person will be tired. It is better to relax properly.

Don't love too much, don't let your love become a burden to the person you love, leave some time and opportunities for the other person to contact you actively, and you will definitely gain a different love experience.

Don't let your love become each other's habit.

When I first started working, I shared a room with a girl for a while. Every night, she will video chat with her boyfriend in different places, but every time she invites each other.

Once, she suddenly said that she wanted her boyfriend to take the initiative to find her once, so when two people chatted every day, she refrained from sending a video request, but after waiting for one night, the other party still did not move. She was a little sad that day, and she kept sleeping with her mobile phone in her hand.

For the next two days, her boyfriend didn't take the initiative to find her. On the fourth day, she finally couldn't help but send a video request to her boyfriend. After the other party connected, she asked, "Why didn't you contact me for several days?"

Her boyfriend was playing a game, and she didn't find her tone was bad. He said naturally, "Don't you contact me first every time?"

Two people had a quarrel that day, and the other party said that she was too melodramatic and ended the video call angrily.

Later, they broke up. My roommate said he didn't want his love to become someone else's habit. To tell the truth, such love made her feel very tired.

Every day to take the initiative to contact a person, will let the other side take you love him as a habit and take everything you do for granted. It doesn't matter if he does nothing. Anyway, you are here and your love will always be there.

Don't let yourself love too much, love too quickly, and slow down the pace of your love. Sometimes, you need to stop and wait to see each other's performance.

3. If you love someone again, you should keep something for yourself.

In fact, it is very simple to contact one person every day. As long as you pick up your hands and move your fingers, you can finish it, and you can also express your concern, convey greetings and express your thoughts.

But why do you have to do such a simple thing alone?

If the distance between you and your lover is 100 step, please don't walk the whole distance alone. Even if you approach him 99 steps, you should leave the remaining distance to the other party.

Although, that step is very simple, just lift your feet.

However, why did you take ninety-nine steps, but the other person didn't even lift his feet? Is he unwilling to lift, or are you sure you will finish this step?

Love is always a matter for two people, and both sides need to contribute their distance to each other. If you do it alone, the emotional balance will definitely tilt.

When you are kind to others, remember to leave yourself a little good, love another person and leave yourself a little love. What you keep is not only love, but also a freshness in this relationship, a dignity you left yourself in love.

Half-blooming, slightly drunk, just right. Girl, if you love someone again, don't contact him every day.

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Everything should be measured. After that, the feelings of both sides will slowly wear away. If you don't realize your problem, things will only get worse and worse until no one cares about you in the end.

It's very happy to contact the person you like every day, but you should think about whether the other person likes you too and is willing to contact and chat with you every day. If the other person just likes you, they can talk together, but not every day. The other party also has their own things to do. It is impossible to be so free every day. Maybe when you contact him, the other party happens to have something to do. It's boring to contact him like this every day. We should have our own space. As long as we have a good relationship and how long we don't contact, our feelings will remain. Another situation is that the other party just treats you as an ordinary friend and doesn't care about you at all. Your frequent contact will only make the other person hate you more and ignore you, which will worsen the relationship between the two sides, so you must consider the relationship between the two people before you act. Everything has a gradual process, right?

I always like to come straight to the point and answer questions directly. "Why do people say not to contact people they like every day?" How could I have such an idea? Let me analyze it from the following aspects:

First, I am afraid that daily contact will produce dependence. I think it's better to have my own home, otherwise people who like it will definitely catch up. If you have a family, you can like others. Maybe, you are unhappy, maybe, lonely. In short, it is human nature, and you can't judge right from wrong. You can handle it yourself, but I think it's better to say hello every day, at least to comfort yourself mentally. It is not distance that makes beauty.

Second, I am afraid that I will contact you every day. If I know too much, I will lose my curiosity and break up with you. Curiosity is easy to satisfy, satisfaction is easy to impulse, impulse and regret, and finally goodbye.

Third, the most terrible thing is that after dependence, you can't live without each other, and the consequences are very serious. Either make a clean break and return to the family, or two people reunite, but most of these combinations will not be happy.

As for whether to contact each other every day and master it by myself, I like to follow my feelings.

Many times we think that love can be true love, but it is not. As soon as the love period is over, all the enthusiasm fades, and chatting every day will get tired sooner or later.

Me too. I once liked a girl. She is very beautiful, so many people pursue her. Somehow, I'm with her. At that time, we talked about everything and basically stuck together every day. She depends on me in life and I depend on her in spirit.

After a year and a half together, she began to have a bad temper. We always quarrel over trifles. Slowly, she has several male girlfriends. I didn't care at that time, but once she went to dinner with her boyfriend, and her boyfriend confessed to her, and then they got together. We will be the past.

So in order to prolong the love period, it is necessary to keep a little reserved during the love period. If you haven't confessed, you should seize the opportunity to chat and keep a little mystery occasionally. Don't let her know that you are actually a conservative boy, which will make her feel more secure.

The person who said this must have had the experience of overheating his face and sticking to his cold ass.

People tend to be proud. If two people get along, there is always one party who takes the initiative to contact, then it will become a habit after a long time. Active or the same person, passive has been suffering.

Some things, the tighter you hold them, the easier it is to slip away, and the same is true of feelings. The person who takes the initiative to contact each other every day must care more about each other than the other. Another person takes it for granted because it is easy to get, and even less cherishes it.

I believe that people who say not to contact their relatives every day are based on these considerations.

First, contact every day is easy to lose freshness.

Contact every day, will there be endless words every day? In fact, the topic between two people is finished in a month at most. Can't find the topic. What do two people do when they are in contact?

After watching the dialog for a long time, I choked and said, "Did you eat?"

Second, people who contact every day may not cherish it.

It is a common fault that most things that are easy to get will not be cherished. You don't need the other person to miss you, and you can get your love without the other person's initiative. It is easy for people to be proud and think that you want to be him, and then you have the capital to work.

Third, daily contact will make people feel that you are too idle.

Rational people don't regard love as the whole of life and revolve around one person every day. They think there are many important things worth doing besides love. For example, work, such as maintaining your own circle and so on.

If you stick together every day, you may feel that you need TA at first. After a long time, you will wonder, "Don't you have to work?"

In fact, there is no clear rule about how long you like to contact a person. The premise is that the feelings of both sides must be paid in two directions, and the feelings that come and go can flow forever. If only one of them is working hard, then no matter how active you are, it is difficult to taste the sweet fruit of love.

Don't contact the person you like every day. I don't know what this idea is. Are you afraid that if you are too active, the other person will not pay attention to you and will become more and more indifferent and dislike you? It's not impossible, but it should be analyzed in detail.

If you like each other,

Needless to say, this is the luckiest thing. I like you, and it happens that you also like me. Two people who like each other don't care who takes the initiative and who pays more. They want to be inseparable all the time. If you don't see Sanqiu for a day, you will be worried if you don't contact him for a day. Where can I not contact? Once you don't contact, you may get lovesickness.

If it's just unrequited love

If it's just intentional ruthlessness, then it's useless for you to contact, and the more you contact, the more entangled you are. "I wanted to concentrate on the bright moon, which shines on the ditch." Just because you like it doesn't mean that ta likes you, especially if ta has someone he likes. Your infatuation will only become a burden to ta, which will add psychological pressure to ta and make people disgusted. So, if you like it unilaterally, forget it. There is no need to contact again.

If ta is a little tempted

If you like ta very much, and under your passionate confession and fierce attack, ta is ready to surrender, then you must continue to work hard and never stop playing games that are missing something. Feelings are most afraid of suffering. Originally, ta has been a little touched, but because of your indifference, ta can't feel whether it is true or not, and it may gradually fade away.

To sum up, if you really like someone and the other person doesn't hate you, I don't think you should play any routines. The true feelings are uncontrollable, and you don't follow the routine. Two people who like each other have endless topics. How can they not like each other's interruptions? Being disturbed by the person you like is also a kind of happiness, which shows that he has you in his heart.

It is not normal to keep in touch with the person you like every day, which shows that you have personal ulterior motives and secrets. Like a person, there are also bottom lines and principles. If you are moderate, no one will gossip, especially colleagues and friends of the opposite sex. You should cherish friendship and never cross the line. The advantages and disadvantages of frequent contact can be imagined. Both men and women have worldly desires. If both men and women have families, for example, one of them is on a business trip, and the other is half joking and half seducing. Too much communication will produce a wonderful feeling, which will be tempting after a long time. Therefore, it is very important to keep a certain distance from this friendship. The metaphor of a horse losing its front hoof is that if you don't lift your feet, it will bring danger. thank you

Some people say it's disgusting, but I don't agree. Let me briefly talk about my personal opinion-people you like will be very happy, happy and happy together, even if they just chat and do simple things, they will not be tired. Get along well and be tolerant and understanding. Think of each other, respect each other and support each other. Is the happiest thing. Finally, I want to say a few words of blessing. I wish all lovers will be well, and lovers can hold hands and grow old together. * * * Join hands and live a happy life! ! ! ! ! !