How to treat friends who are gradually alienated?

1. It's better to forget each other than to be in the Jianghu. People's life is divided into different stages, and we all grow up in different stages. So is making friends. At different stages, you will make different friends. Friends with similar values can live longer. I will never forget what a friend said to his other half, "Do you know how many friends I have since I was a child? Why am I so good with him? " Because our values are the most similar. "Even if we look different, or in the eyes of outsiders, in fact, our ideas are the closest. So our friendship is the most stable and the longest. If, because of the same idea, you become no longer close and drift away, then you can't find a suitable way to get along and seek common ground while reserving differences, that's all.

If you think it's worth saving, please try to make some changes. Many people tend to take a casual attitude towards the friendship that is drifting away. Just like looking for a partner, there are always people with the idea that "the next one will be better". In fact, maybe what you have now is the most suitable for you. I always believe that every relationship, whether parents, lovers or friends, needs to be paid and managed. Just letting nature take its course won't help you solve the problem. Perhaps, just because of a little friction and no communication, you have alienated your relationship; Maybe between you, just because you have to accomplish different goals, you have to work, he has to get married, and there is no time to be together. These are not problems. It's hard to find bosom friends in life. If he is your valued friend, please adjust your plan for him, spare some time for him, and set aside some energy to manage your relationship carefully. Even a lifelong confidant can produce a perfect tacit understanding through constant running-in.

Even if you are really no longer friends, please leave room for each other. Maybe one day, your friends are really estranged from you, and then you are no longer friends. Please remember those wonderful things between you. Don't be unkind to your former friends, because you can't deny those common memories. No one's life is perfect. "Leave a line in everything and see you later." Who knows, you'll never get back to good condition again?