How can parents and teachers cooperate effectively?

"Teacher, my child actually stole money from home to buy an iPad."

"Teacher, my child sells money with the iphone at home."

"Teacher, my children have run away from home again, and they can't go to school these days, and they are still mixed with gangsters in society."

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With the development of communication network and the upgrade of social software, the relationship between teachers and students is closer, and there are more and more contacts with students' parents.

Schools have also played a convenient role in this respect. For example, the scope of homework will be announced in the group, so that parents can help urge their children to complete their homework. For example, parents can call their parents and ask them to help their children go home from school to recite some knowledge points, ancient prose and mathematical formulas. The school will announce the results of important exams (as scheduled) in emails or text messages, which is conducive to the communication between parents and children and to the common education between schools and parents.

A WeChat account, a deduction account and a phone number can also help parents find teachers. But it is not so simple for parents to find a teacher.

In most cases, if children's parents can't control their children well and subdue them, how dignified can teachers be in the eyes of children, especially those who have already entered junior high school?

For example, you can refer to Mango Taiwan's Metamorphosis. Most urban heroes are rebellious. Parents don't know how to discipline their children, and some children even fight with their parents. Just like Chen Xinying's development (transformation) in a certain period was more successful. At first, his personality became irritable because of his parents' divorce. Mom cooked a good table, but he didn't eat it, so he ordered takeout and locked himself in his room to eat. Mother invited him to go out for dinner. He cursed each other, slammed the door hard, and even punched his mother when he was emotional.

From the analysis, we all say that children lack a warm growing environment, parents do not set a good example for their children, and parents lack communication with their children. Some parents are not good at words, some parents are divorced and lack attention to their children.

There is a Japanese drama about a middle school teacher with a gangster background who leads a group of students with a lot of gangsters to the right direction, provided that the middle school teacher happens to have a gangster background and can learn martial arts. The reality is that our teacher is just a weak scholar? Or an educator who tirelessly teaches others. They face a whole class of students, some of whom have their own children. They just set an example and impart knowledge and experience when students are at school.

Family education still requires parents to reflect on themselves, and it takes someone to tie the bell to solve the problem.