Why do more and more people hate sending blessings in groups?

Early in the morning, I was awakened by firecrackers outside the window. Open WeChat and see the New Year greetings from friends in the early morning, "Happy New Year to the book".

The short five words make me feel extremely warm.

San Mao said: "Knowing each other is the normal state of life. If you can talk occasionally, but your hearts are still gentle, you are good friends.

Although we are usually busy with our own lives and ignore each other's contact, it is very precious to send blessings to each other through WeChat on holidays.

However, with the popularity of smart phones, this simple and sincere blessing has changed.

More and more people began to send blessings with WeChat. It seems that it takes a lot of thought to edit large paragraphs with fancy expression packs, but in fact, this kind of blessing is sent in groups, which makes the people who receive the information feel like chewing wax.

The Spring Festival is a festival for family reunion. Many vagrants go home after a busy year, and finally take a day or two to reunite with their families and share a good time.

However, during this time, all kinds of massive blessings flooded the screen of mobile phones. If you block interference, you are afraid of missing vital information. If you reply, you will find that a lot of information is the same, which affects your mood.

It is better not to send perfunctory group blessings.

During the Spring Festival, it is a good opportunity for relatives and friends to exchange blessings and pass on holiday celebrations.

Whether you are in frequent contact, infrequent contact, close before, or distant now, you can use the Spring Festival to find a time to catch up after dinner.

At this moment of celebration, everyone hopes to receive blessings from relatives and friends, and at the same time, they will send some greetings to their friends.

However, in order to be lazy and save trouble, some people are too lazy to send New Year greetings one by one, so they copy and paste a paragraph from the Internet and send it to all friends in the address book through WeChat.

It's really convenient and fast to send messages by WeChat group, but the person who receives the message may not be able to perceive your thoughts.

Imagine that you turn on your mobile phone and find that different friends send the same wishes through WeChat, and some friends don't even change their names when forwarding them.

Some friends have only met once. They have never contacted each other by adding a WeChat. What's more, they didn't even comment. They don't know who each other is. What's the point of receiving such a blessing?

The blessing of the New Year lies in essence, not in abundance.

I received a New Year greeting from my friend and wanted to edit a passage. I found that my language was very scarce at this time.

It turns out that grandiose words are easy to say, but touching words are difficult to write.

Since I was a child, I have written many articles, and the most praised ones are gorgeous words and beautiful language.

When I was a student, I was always complacent when I heard such words. I'm not happy to hear such words again now.

Because writing an article is praised as "good writing" or "good literary talent", it may not be a compliment, or it may be flashy content.

Before, some people said that the article I wrote was beautiful to read, but after reading it, people couldn't remember the content, just like drinking a cup of boiling water, which was boring.

After I knew my own shortcomings, I began to try to change my writing style, instead of pursuing gorgeous language, I began to accumulate materials from the little things in my life.

I like simple language more and more and yearn for a simple and simple lifestyle.

My friend told me that my idea is like an old lady in her sixties and seventies, which is not in line with her actual age, but I think "I always think it is gorgeous and the road is simple".

As Bai said.

"When people reach a certain age, they must learn to do subtraction.

Because you are not suitable for everything, what you should do is suitable for you. "