How to inform those who return home after marriage?

1. How to write the wedding invitation?

The writing of banquet invitations is generally as follows: use the full name, not the nickname or abbreviation of the name; Write the order of family members clearly; The word "harmony" should appear; Write the date, week and time clearly; The year does not have to appear on the reply post; Attach the location and time sequence of the wedding banquet in one corner of the invitation or attach another page to the card. This is a common format. Of course, in order to attract business, some hotels will print some return visit invitations in a unified format in advance and provide them to guests free of charge.

The reply is usually sent in the name of the parents, and the signature is the name of the parents. Inviting in the name of elders will be especially sincere and respectful.

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2. The process of getting married and returning home

According to the wedding custom and etiquette in China, after three days of marriage, the bride will go home with the groom with many gifts, which is also called "going home in three days".

This is a kind of etiquette in China. The bride's parents attach great importance to the etiquette of returning home for three days, which is an important event for the bride's whole family. Therefore, when the bride returns to China for three days, she should prepare gifts and try to leave a good impression on her father-in-law.

The gift should be prepared in advance. Gifts must be something that the bride's parents like. Return the gift in fashion. To return to your parents' home, you must arrive at your parents' home between 10. The bride and groom should greet the elderly first, the groom should be renamed as parents, and show kindness and enthusiasm to relatives, friends and neighbors.

When the whole family has dinner, the bride and groom should sit aside and raise their glasses to thank everyone for their wishes for their wedding. Don't rush home after dinner, talk to your parents for a while or have some entertainment with your family. Go home before sunset around 4 pm and invite the elderly and brothers and sisters to your home.

3. What about the wedding reception? What about the wedding reception?

What about the return banquet?

First, let's learn about Federal-Mogul. Huimen: commonly known as "mothering", which means going home to visit parents after marriage, is a marriage custom of Han nationality. That is, on the third, sixth, seventh, ninth, tenth or full moon after marriage, the son-in-law goes back to her mother's house with the bride to pay New Year greetings to her parents and relatives. This is the last ceremony of marriage.

Huimenyan theme

The back door banquet, also known as the thank-you banquet, must reflect "thanks". But who to thank and how to thank are different according to the changes of the times. Ancient people respected heaven and earth, so the proportion of gratitude in banquets was very important. Now, thanks at the back door banquet are mainly for the bride's parents and guests. Although it is not difficult for a daughter to meet her parents after marriage, her gratitude and love for her parents will not be less than in ancient times.

Huimen banquet time

As far as time is concerned, the banquet in Michelle Chen 19 on July 22nd, and the banquet in Ruby Lin on August 2nd, 3 1 2008 are all three days after the wedding. But Shen Teng's wedding was held 12 days after the wedding, which was not within the above time. Is there something wrong?

In fact, the time requirement of the back door banquet is not as strict as that of the ancient ceremony. It is of course best to be able to finish it within the required time. If you don't want to rush, you can finish it in one month. Of course, there are also some reasons, because of work factors or too far apart, it takes more than a month to hold a back door banquet. As long as both husband and wife and their parents (especially the bride's parents) reach an agreement.

Who should be invited to the back door banquet?

Because the mother-in-law banquet is the first time for a married daughter to return to her family, of course, the elders and relatives of the bride's family should be invited first. Of course, if some relatives and friends can't attend your wedding because of time and distance, you can also invite them to your back door banquet.

Huimen banquet style

Because it is a tradition of Chinese wedding customs, many newcomers will choose Chinese-style back door banquet. Shen Teng's back-door banquet also included pandas from Sichuan, the bride's hometown, which was very creative and thoughtful. But if your wedding is Chinese, you'd better choose a western-style banquet. In this way, one China and one West can better reflect the beauty of differences.

In addition, in the wedding process, many brides will give up their wedding dreams to achieve a perfect wedding in order to take care of the views of their elders, so when returning to the banquet, they can also choose the style that the bride likes to make up for their little regrets.

The dress for the back door banquet

Because the formal wedding has been held, the dress for the back door banquet is not as casual as the wedding. Although Ruby Lin has prepared three sets of round-the-door banquet dresses, if you are afraid of trouble, it is ok to prepare only one set of simple dresses. In addition, the back door banquet can really put away those big trailing wedding dresses, simple dresses, cheongsam and the like.

Return banquet process

To tell the truth, many of the back-door banquet processes seen in Du Niang are written about wedding processes, which makes many newcomers stupid and unclear about weddings and back-door banquets. In fact, we just need to remember which processes are not available in the back door banquet and which ones need to be emphasized.

These processes are unnecessary: exchanging tokens, making a glass of wine, worshipping the church and so on. Because these processes symbolize a lifelong commitment and have been completed at the wedding, there is no need to repeat them here.

The back door banquet can have these processes: champagne ceremony, cake ceremony, kissing, small games and other festive and lively contents can be reflected again in the back door ceremony. Of course, if you want to be more interesting, you can choose some lively opening, such as singing love songs.

In addition, the newlyweds who have got the wedding video, it is best to play your wedding video at the back door banquet. On the one hand, they can enjoy Xiu Xiu's love, and more importantly, they can let friends who didn't attend your wedding feel a once-in-a-lifetime feast.

The ancients believed that the wedding was officially completed when the banquet was over. From then on, two people, even two families, really joined together. Some people say that everyone is so busy, so let's skip the back door banquet. But sometimes life really needs more sense of ceremony to teach us to remember the beauty of being respected, loved and cared for!