My predecessor wishes you happiness. How should I reply?

It is difficult to treat people equally in communication. If your ex sends you a blessing message, then your relationship may continue. In this case, if you can mention the source and purpose of this short message in your reply, it will greatly increase the intimacy of your relationship with your ex, and also make the other party feel that you are friends with him, thus reducing the other party's dislike and harm to you. So what does it mean to wish your predecessor back and forth? What would you say?

1, not returning is the default breakup.

When we break up, we don't really want to get back together, but we want to get back together but don't know how to do it. At this time, you need to learn to save each other in the shortest time, instead of choosing this relationship as a gift from the beginning. It's easy for the other person to think that you don't love him. Instead of getting back together, he chose to break up by default. In fact, such behavior also shows that your position in his heart is not important. In this way, your ex is not allowed to send messages to yourself, because the other party can't really understand your real thoughts. Moreover, breaking up will make both sides uncomfortable and have some negative impressions on each other. Once this emotion is accumulated, it is easy for the other party to regard you as an enemy.

2, take the initiative to confess everything and strive for reunification.

In fact, as long as you say what you really think and your ex wants to get back together, maybe he won't even think about when to call you back. If you want to make it right, you'd better tell him what you think first, and tell him clearly that you won't get entangled in getting back together. If you want to save your predecessor, you need to prove that you are a sincere person, and you also need to show that you are a person with principles and a bottom line. Only in this way can we better attract the attention of our predecessors. In fact, no matter what kind of breakup, it needs to be recovered through appropriate methods. If you blindly save it, it is easy for the two people after breaking up to go further and further, and it is not a good thing to go further and further in the end. The correct method of recovery can help you avoid many unnecessary breakups.

I will let you go when I get back together.

This kind of reply is the most direct and effective, indicating that your relationship no longer exists and can't be entangled, but this kind of reply is also confusing to some extent. This kind of reply can often make your predecessor get involved with you, but when you chat with your predecessor, your behavior makes your predecessor feel that you are not paying attention to him, but entangled with you, trying to push you away, or even having the opposite attitude, which is not good for your future development. At this time, if he is still dead set on you, there is no need to pester him again. He can say what he really thinks, or he wants to get back together with you, but he still wants to be together again. After all, not everyone can be together, and now that we have broken up, it still hurts our feelings for each other. Therefore, we must make some psychological preparations, don't decide to get back together with each other because of impulse, and don't destroy the feelings between two people because of impulse. This kind of reply will only bring you a lot of uncertainty in the future, which is likely to hurt the feelings between two people and lead to cracks between them.