If the dinner is successful, your life will be close to success. How to organize?

Some people don't like to sit next to the leader and always pick the position farthest from the leader. Such people are either too timid or have ghosts in their hearts. ...

Every entrepreneur has his own way of getting to know people. Although every entrepreneur has his own coup, it is nothing more than seeing the big from the small. As one of the most common ways of interpersonal communication, "dinner" is of course the best place for entrepreneurs to know people and employ people.

Rock Hsu, the chairman of Jinrenbao Group, has a knack for knowing people. He believes that to become the general manager of the group, you must know how to lead troops and take care of them. And how to see if a general manager has this trait, he thinks it can be observed from the dinner table.

Rock Hsu said that when he eats with employees, he will observe their eating behavior. For example, when eight people go to dinner, there happens to be a dish with eight pieces of meat. At this time, if an employee only cares about himself and keeps eating the food in front of him, he forgets that others haven't eaten it yet. In Rock Hsu's eyes, how did this employee behave? The answer is: this kind of person, no matter how strong his ability is, can only be the vice president at most, but not the general manager. He has no concept of sharing. He said that he would observe a person from the details, because this time is the least disguised.

Li Ka-shing likes to get to know people by choosing seats. If anyone likes to sit next to the leader when eating, he thinks that this person is too active and may have bad intentions; However, some people just don't like sitting next to the leader and always pick the position farthest from the leader. Such a person is either too timid or has a ghost in his heart, and he doesn't like it.

But Wang Shi pays great attention to what he eats. In his early years, a boss who wanted to cooperate with him invited him to dinner. The man said that the monkey is very smart. If people eat its brain, it will make up for it. So, the boss invited a monkey and hit it on the head with a hammer. With a scream, the monkey died and his head was smashed open. Only the boss picked up the spoon and ate the monkey's brain juice. Wang Shi was shocked by the cruelty of this man. Looking at this heartless man, he decided that it was extremely dangerous to cooperate with him and didn't cooperate with him. Later, when the boss was cooperating with others, he really ran away with the money.

Dong Mingzhu of Gree Group is very concerned about eating. She doesn't like girls who don't pay attention to their image when eating. For example, when they see baked sweet potatoes on the road, they buy them and eat them. Others eat, bite into pieces, and then throw up on the table. She will shake her head when she sees it. She doesn't value people who don't pay attention to their image.

Pan Shiyi once wanted to choose a financial officer, but he originally took a fancy to a young man. However, during a meal, he found that the young man saw brand-name cigarettes on the table and took the initiative to give them to everyone. But because many people don't smoke, he smokes one by one until there is still a lot left after dinner, and then puts the remaining cigarettes in his pocket and takes them away. In this way, Pan Shiyi denied this person.

Cao, the glass king, likes people who are sober when eating. In the early years, there was a recruitment, and four young people were excellent, which made it difficult for him to decide, so he invited four people to eat jiaozi. While eating, he talked and laughed with everyone. After dinner, he asked four people how many jiaozi they ate. Three of them said they didn't know, and only one said they ate 32. So, this person was hired.

Ma Yun likes to watch people drink at the dinner table: "I can't drink, but I am so strong. As a result, I blushed after three drinks, started dancing, and then I was drunk and ugly. I will not reuse such people; I can drink very much, but I pretend that I can't drink, and I try my best to persuade others to drink until I see others drunk and fall to the ground. Such people are insidious and cunning, and I will not reuse them; The kind that you can drink, do what you can, don't persuade others to drink, don't instigate, do whatever you want, and use it with confidence. "

From the beginning of ordering food, there is an ambush, which is usually used to describe the dinner in the mall. In fact, dinner in life should not be underestimated. When men and women began to associate, restaurants became their first battlefield. Quiet in chaos, ambush in silence, easy to observe, hidden observation. A meal is enough for him and her to expose the values of 1/3. Ordering usually starts with the lady. Since it is a battlefield, ordering food is like exploring fire: women look at the menu and men look out of the window-in fact, they look at the menu. At this time, women must not order cheap food. Cheap doesn't mean that she is virtuous and kind, but that she doesn't understand his world. Of course you can't order expensive dishes. The most taboo point "casually", he didn't hear easygoing from this sentence but found her indecisive.

She must choose the one with moderate price, seemingly exquisite, a little poetic and beautiful appearance. Men long for a graceful person sitting opposite them. Ordering food can really tell a perfect or fleeting beginning, and can also predict the follow-up of flowering or dying halfway. Please be careful.

It is said that the word "rice" was invented by people in the Song Dynasty and has a history of thousands of years. Song people connected "rice" and "bureau" into a whole, full of mystery. For businessmen, eating is a serious social game. When Wang talked about the cooperation between Huayi Brothers and Ma Yun and Jiang Nanchun, he always downplayed it: "Needless to say, it is a matter of having dinner and drinking tea together."

Dinner has always played an important role in social activities. A circle of people have the opportunity to sit in the restaurant. Don't say anything in advance, eat first, so there is no snobbery. A feeling of "being one of our own" makes us suddenly closer than usual, and it doesn't hurt our face if we don't drink. In pushing a cup for a change, many things that can't be done in the office will be easily done when the wine is hot and the ears are hot. What is the meaning of dinner? Eating is a small matter, going out is a big thing. A person has many dinners, which means several subtext: he is a person with many friends; He is an important person; He is a popular person; He is a successful man. No one takes you to play, which is more terrible than unemployment, lovelorn and blindness, which means that you have become an abandoned child and an outsider in society.

In China, there is one thing that two strange men can get familiar with quickly, and that is drinking.

Immature men will drink too much in front of anyone, including their wives, and if they are not careful, they will tell the truth after drinking, and the outcome will be miserable; A mature man will never drink too much in front of his wife, so as to keep his mouth shut and never see the secrets in his heart.

Shanghai men are exquisite but informal. Eating with many people, sitting with him are his leaders, friends and strangers. He accidentally knocked over the cup and spilled wine on his leg. He calmly wiped it with a paper towel and gently asked the young lady to change the cup without any embarrassment. Because he knew he didn't have that many viewers at all. Leading friends and strangers are drinking and chatting. No one will pay attention to this accident. He doesn't have to feel humiliated or ask for trouble.

By drinking, we can learn something: many people overestimate themselves and always think that they will have a large audience, but in fact you are only their own audience. Life is a dinner party. The number of times you can sit at the top of a banquet is limited, and most of the time you are just a supporting role. You can only take care of yourself and learn to enjoy it. This is the best policy in life.

Those who can toast rely on language art, those who can fight wine rely on guerrilla techniques, those who pretend to be drunk are good at tricks, and those who are not drunk will certainly defend themselves.

It is really a pleasure to make an appointment one day in advance. Half a day in advance is a companion. It's a catch-up to invite you after all the dishes are served.

One meal a week is a normal person, one meal a day is a celebrity, three meals a day is a social butterfly, and one meal a day is a dish.

If you are invited, you are called Frank; if you are invited three times, you are called putting on airs. Please don't call it principle, please ask for a meal.

Hidden rules of dinner: eating is a small matter, going out is a big thing. A meal, you see through others, and others see through you. In the eyes of the host, all the people attending the dinner party were naked. ...