What should I do if my wife is sick and my husband doesn't care, but still says ugly words?

Faced with this situation, you can try the following methods to deal with it:

1. Communication: Communicate sincerely with your husband and let him know your feelings and concerns. Tell his wife that she is ill and needs care and attention, hoping that he can pay attention and support.

2. Listening: Understand your husband's thoughts and feelings, and listen to his explanations and opinions. Help him understand his responsibilities and obligations and work with him to find suitable solutions.

3. Ask for help: If the husband can't change his behavior, he can seek outside help and support, such as asking for help from family, friends or professional institutions.

4. Self-protection: If your husband's behavior has had a negative impact on your physical and mental health, you need to take timely action to protect yourself. For example, seeking psychological counseling or seeking legal aid.

5. Stick to your position and values, and safeguard your rights and dignity. At the same time, we should try our best to solve the problem through consultation and cooperation with our husbands.

These methods may take some time and effort, but they can help you build a healthier and more positive relationship and make your marriage happier.