Why didn't the ambiguous man return your message?

1, the sense of demand is exposed prematurely.

Some girls, once they like a boy, will try their best to be nice to him. When a boy goes to play basketball, follow him and help him with towels and water. Boys get up early to go to class, and she buys breakfast to help him occupy a seat in advance; When a boy is sick, she cooks love porridge and buys medicine for him in the dormitory downstairs: as long as the boy asks her out, she will definitely refuse anything and be on call. This "necessary performance" not only makes boys feel too stressed, but also makes boys feel that they have no desire to conquer.

2. Enter the "role" prematurely.

Many times, under ambiguous circumstances, girls will unconsciously turn themselves into each other's "girlfriends". Although the two have not formally established their love relationship, they began to exercise their girlfriend rights prematurely. When boys are with other girls, they lose their temper. If children don't reply to text messages, they will ask what they are doing. You know, this kind of behavior beyond the relationship level will not only make the boy put pressure on your future relationship, but also make him resist you. When boys feel pressure and conflict about you and your relationship, they naturally don't want to continue to be ambiguous about you.

Step into the "friendship zone".

Many times, both boys and girls will interact with other objects when they are in contact with one person. But this is definitely not a fuss, but "making the best choice among the known choices." So when a man's attitude towards you drops sharply, it's probably because you fell into his last choice. When you are having an affair with a boy and can't surpass the sense of dependence and excitement brought by other girls, the boy will choose other girls who can satisfy him. When he chooses a specific object, he will automatically keep his distance from other ambiguous objects, put them in the friendship zone, and then stop taking the initiative to them.

4. Causing cognitive bias.

Why do men suddenly give you the cold shoulder? In fact, many times, when we fall in love with someone for the first time, we fall in love with our imaginary "ideal lover". In the initial contact with him, you showed a beautiful picture, but in the process of getting in touch with you gradually, the other party realized that the gap between you in reality and the person who first impressed him was too big. You will be very frustrated and feel that you are not the person he liked at first. Therefore, when dealing with the opposite sex, don't try too hard at the beginning, but be too perfect, so the gap between you and reality is too big. Instead of letting the other person suddenly fall from the cloud to the bottom, let the other person slowly discover your advantages, because Jingjing likes you.