Why do some friends drift apart?

Why do some friends drift away?

As time goes by, there is also a slight generation gap with old friends.

In the evening, I am walking alone on this trail with countless unfamiliar faces. Ask yourself: Why have former friends become such strangers? Didn't he once say at a party: "Don't let distance pull away the hand of longing, don't let time dilute the wine of true love"? It seems easy to express it with your mouth, but how easy is it to keep it in your heart? I wonder: Is it the fault of the person or the fault of the matter? The answer is unknown.

My classmates in junior high school and my friends in high school are still the same people. The laughter and laughter of the past are gone. Why have we become so strange now? I still remember that when Zhang Yi and I started school, he sat in front of me because I had the same name as him. I named him Zhang Sheng, and he named me Zhang Sheng. We used to stay up all night together. , were arrested together. We share the blessings and share the hardships. How do you feel now? For me, that is just a luxury wish.

I still remember. Xiaoli and I. Xiaoli and I were in junior high school. We are in the same class and high school in the same school. In the past, when we were in a bad mood at night, in order to comfort each other, we would call each other until the phone was in arrears. Now, when we meet online, we may only say "um, ah, oh, oh, oh" , yes." These are the words!

I still remember. Huang Feng and I used to talk about everything. If something happened, I was the first to think of it. But now, think about it Do they all feel ridiculous? Although sometimes we can still talk and laugh, I always feel that something is missing.

I wanted to write some words about my friends a long time ago, simple and simple words. Because friends are so simple and unpretentious.

There is a kind of friend who is the first person who thinks of you when he succeeds or encounters misfortune. When he succeeds, no matter where you are, he will share the joy of success with you. When he tells you about it with relish, don't think that he is showing off himself, but that he treats you as a friend, and he thinks that he His success is half yours, so his happiness should also be half yours. When he encounters misfortune, even if you can't do anything, a phone call or a text message to you may be his tranquilizer.

There is such a kind of friend, someone who will advise you politely when you make a mistake. He won't tell you directly because he knows it will hurt your self-esteem, and he won't pretend not to know because he is afraid that you will make the same mistake again and again. He is like your mentor, like a directional sign you see when you are confused. There is a kind of friend who encourages you when you lack self-confidence. He always has enough reasons for you to face difficulties, and he always gives you the courage to accept challenges.

There is such a kind of friend, the one who gives you countless advice when you go on a long journey for the first time. When you are alone outside, there are people who will greet you. He is like your relative. He may not be in constant contact, but he is always concerned about you. He may not be tired of being together all the time, but he always remembers to say hello.

Friends, what exactly are friends? A friend is the warmth that you can feel even if you don’t say anything; a friend is a heart that can tolerate you no matter how things change; a friend is a heart that can tolerate you no matter how the world changes; a friend is the heart that can tolerate you even if you are hurt by separation or alone. The feeling of fullness.

Do you have such a friend around you? If so, please cherish it, maybe it will be the most precious asset in our lifetime.

I remember too much. I feel speechless in the world.

If you think about it carefully, it is actually not surprising, because our respective environments have changed. We have lost *** In the same living environment, the friendship in the past could not help but become a victim.

Because of the distance, we opened the hand of missing each other; because of time, the wine of our friendship was diluted. Time and distance are the culprits!

Life is like one banquet after another, we are all constantly meeting and separating. My friends, maybe we will never meet again in this life, but please believe that as long as I still have this warm memory, I will always miss you.