The most touching letter to an extramarital lover

Dear: I am finally starting to write this letter, and I really don’t know where to start. It has been a full year since the day we got together. Time flies so fast. This may be the twelve months that I feel have passed the fastest in my life, and it is also the twelve months that I have missed the most for a woman. moon. I once thought that I had passed the ups and downs of relationships, the age of vigorous and life-or-death love, until I met you. I still remember that I asked you "Do you feel like you are in love?" At that time, I seemed to have found the feeling of my first love. I felt that you were my first love. When we said the same words and did the same things at the same time, it felt really strange. It's amazing. When we are together, we often speak a language that only the two of us understand, returning to our own sweet world. I like being with you very much. I occasionally bully you, sometimes I am bullied by you, and even say some rude words. Don’t think that I treat everyone like this. These are unique to you. When we are together, I am completely immersed in belonging. In the world between the two of us, I enjoy the happiness you bring to me. This feeling is something I'm looking forward to. When I'm not with you, I will miss you and all the things we did together. There are too many beautiful and sweet memories between us. You make me feel very happy. Your hot and innocent love really melts me. Sometimes I really think about staying with you forever, being tired of being together all the time, and just following you for the rest of my life... But... There are some things I should tell you. Maybe you don't want to hear or see it, but I still hope to calm down and finish reading this letter. Although I was happy when we were together, I also felt guilty and self-blame. A strong sense of guilt kept weighing heavily on me. For example, when I'm with you, I can do it once or twice, but I feel guilty for always saying panic, and it's also full of loopholes. I'm not a liar, and I think I'm quite upright. I felt very uncomfortable every time I said panic. Gradually, my mind became very confused, and I often forgot some things. Sometimes I would wake up suddenly in the middle of the night... I gradually felt that every time I said panic, I would be seen through, at least. It's doubtful, I don't know if I feel like I'm too neurotic, but there is one thing that I really didn't do very well in what I was supposed to do. This family is different from ordinary families. I should do more than ordinary people. I should take responsibility for what I choose and be responsible for my own decisions. You probably don’t understand what I’m talking about. It’s really hard for me to say this, but I can tell you that one person’s strength is not enough. It requires the efforts of many people. I know that it will be a lifelong responsibility, and I When you make a resolute choice, you should not have any thoughts of backing down. I once told you to give me three years, but now it is not a matter of three years. There are many, many things that bother me... Every time I mention your future family, my heart twists like a knife. Whenever I think about it, I can't accept it. I cannot accept your using the same words, the same actions, the same... to treat another person. I feel heartbroken every time I think about it. I always feel that you have been mine from the beginning and belong entirely to me. No one can infringe or occupy it... But I also hope that you can be happy. If I can't give you these, I have no right to deprive you of what you should have. happiness and joy, I feel that I have disrupted your life, study, family, and really interfered with your life... I can't make any mistakes anymore, we can't live the same life as before, I have to do what I should do things, stay where I should be. Don’t let a single leaf obscure your bright future. Let us each return to the original track and continue walking our own path. Even though we are extremely reluctant to leave you, and we don’t want to lose this happiness, we really can’t go on any longer. Don't blame me for being cruel. When I wrote this letter, my eyes were filled with tears and my heart was bleeding... Thank you for letting me have a rainbow in the sky and making my life full of color. I will remember our sweet days. , every place we have been, every delicious dish you took me to eat, your innocent and cute smile... I will remember all of these, and they will all be my memories forever. This love these days is the most unforgettable in my life, and you are someone I will never forget. I hope we can be friends. Maybe you don’t even want to be friends, and I don’t expect that... We have no fate in this life. We must remember our agreement in the next life. Don’t forget that there is still someone waiting for you at that time. Waiting to marry you. I hope you can find your own joy and happiness in the days without me.

The most touching letter to an extramarital lover 2 Dear: We met on May 3, 2006, and I have been very fond of you. After a period of dating, I have discovered more and more of your goodness. When you said that that day When you texted me and told me that you fell in love with me, I felt happy and melancholy at the same time. I had already fallen in love with you at that time. I listened to your words and thought about it a lot. I knew that if we were together, we would definitely meet each other. I have experienced some things that ordinary people cannot encounter, but I can't control myself. In addition, I have never felt your kindness to me. I am very attached to your kindness to me, which makes me feel that I am the most beautiful person in the world. Happy person, I gradually fell in love with you uncontrollably. After I fell in love with you, I behaved very crazy towards you. I did not allow you to have contact with other men. I was also very sensitive to you, as long as you were a little negligent. I will feel very unhappy. You should also know that this is a sign of my love for you. My time is basically spent on you. Whenever I have a chance, I will run to you. I feel that you are the most beautiful place. I want the feeling of home, and I can say that I care deeply for you. I have withstood the pressure from all aspects, and I don’t care what others think of me. I will bring you to meet my friends and colleagues. This is what I want to say to you. Be fair to you. In fact, I understand your situation very well. It’s not easy for you to be with me. You think a lot in your mind every day. The most important thing is that you don’t feel safe. I understand it very well, so I am very careful about what I say to you, just because I’m afraid. Which words will hurt you? Your unhappiness will directly affect me. I will feel guilty. Sometimes you say that I am unhappy with you and don’t care about you. I think you are not telling the truth. I believe you. You can feel that I am good to you. You just want me to comfort you and make you feel more secure. In fact, I really wanted to comfort you at that time, but I was afraid that my comfort would only have a temporary effect. So I won't say it. Now let’s talk about my situation and thoughts. I married my wife without feelings. I have thought about many things, including being with you. I know that I will be very happy if I am with you, but As my mother said, after all, changing a wife is not as easy as changing a product. If you are not satisfied with a product, you can return it, don’t use it, or buy a better one immediately, but this kind of thing involves the whole life and Regarding the social impact, I am a very face-conscious person, and I must consider my children. I am also working hard. As you said, I have a lucky mentality. I hope that it will not affect all aspects of the situation. I can be with you as I wish, but it's difficult and I'm in pain. I said that day that you were cruel to me and asked me to choose now. Really, what can I do? I really want to choose you, but I can't give you this promise. If I give you a promise now, you will have For a sense of security, you will trust me 100%, but by then, if I fail to fulfill my promise, I think the harm I will cause you is completely imaginable. I cannot hurt you, you are a good girl, I am starting I told you this when we were dating. I know you said that if I can't give you a promise, you will leave me, but I really can't be selfish and ignore you and give you a promise at will to satisfy me that I can continue to be with you, and I have to be responsible for you. In fact, your idea is correct. For your own sake, you should let me decide and give you a promise, so I don't blame you, really. I wish you happiness.