Best friend and ex

"Yan, my ex is divorced."

"Oh, congratulations."

"His mother and ex-wife came to the company and said I was a fox."

"... none of your business? Haven't you been in touch for a long time? "

"Yes, there is no connection at all, but the reason why he divorced is that he still loves me."

"Jumping XO** Street is none of your business."

"Yes, it's none of my business! I am so angry! XO * * * XO * * (greetings to ancestors are omitted here) "

02

My best friend and her ex have been in love for ten years, from college to the workplace. My girlfriend's rookie in the workplace went to a strong woman in the workplace, and her predecessor also went from IT wage earners to entrepreneurial bosses.

Girlfriend along the way, although there is no prominent background, but not all the way. However, step by step, conscientiously, towards their own ideals. Busy work, but also a small achievement, although the object is not particularly handsome, but it seems that there is nothing to be picky.

When I was in my mid-twenties, my three aunts and six grandmothers began to urge me to get married and have children early, intentionally or unintentionally. My girlfriend's predecessor had just started a business, and he was so busy that he worked overtime day and night. The name boss sounds good, but it is not easy to do. The predecessor said that it would be postponed for two years. My best friend also wants to say that his career has just started, and it hurts to watch it day and night. Relax. Anyway, we have been together for so many years, not bad for a while.

Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, wait, etc.

But my parents are very anxious, and they are almost 30. It seems that there is no news of marriage yet. My best friend thinks it's not bad to delay for so many years. It has always been a burden. The predecessor also expressed understanding.

My ex-wife was brought up by a single mother. I heard that my mother suffered a lot when she was growing up. Therefore, my predecessor was particularly obedient to my mother.

When I was in love, my girlfriend also said that my ex was very filial to my mother. Don't be too bad to my parents in the future.

But it was at this time that my ex-mother suddenly gave an ultimatum and broke up without getting married. Don't waste everyone's time.

It stands to reason that if the ex-mother doesn't accept what the husband and wife talk about, it should be comforted by the ex-mother and have a good talk. However, the predecessor retreated at this time, and the best friend could only face the prospective mother-in-law personally.

It's really hard to say After so many years of love, it's not so easy to say it's over, not to mention that a woman in her late 30 s can't accept it. Under all kinds of pressure, girlfriends can only give in and they can get married. If they get married, they can have no children first. You can't supervise this. Let's have a baby.

03

I don't know if anyone has counted how many couples fell down just before marriage.

My best friend contributed his strength to this data.

In the words of my best friend, I found out at that moment that I had no idea about the man who had been in love for ten years. A man who is usually opinionated, responsible, reasonable and obedient to his boyfriend turns out to be a mother who is completely afraid to tell her opinions.

As long as there is any disagreement between the best friend and the prospective mother-in-law, no matter who the reason is, the boyfriend either doesn't bite or directly hides behind the best friend.

As for the prospective mother-in-law, you have to ask yourself big and small issues, no matter when and where, whether the phone is always on, and whether your girlfriend is free or not, you have to show up. To put it mildly, you have asked your opinion. Don't call me a mother-in-law.

However, my girlfriend has to work, and it is also in the sprint period. They will be criticized when they don't answer the phone in the meeting all day. If they don't answer the phone before they get married, what is the state of talking when they get married? Or, now that you're married, I'll help you choose a new bed, and you won't take a vacation to visit. The company won't collapse without you. ...

This is a two-way street, and my best friend really can't stand it.

Break up, break up, this life can't go on.

04

Arguably, talk about this breakup, or it's over. Still struggling.

In the words of girlfriends, don't say that you have feelings for a person, even for a dog and a cat for ten years. Therefore, when his predecessor said that he would not break up, his best friend also relented.

Let's take a step back and postpone the wedding, but don't break up. Let's calm down. My boyfriend will tell his mother that my best friend will go first.

05

In June+10 in 5438, the weather was changeable in Southeast Asian islands. One moment it's stormy, the next it's sunny. Soon, you can see the rainbow hanging high.

On the beach, the sea breeze is gentle, and watching the sun jump into the sea, any troubles will become insignificant.

Ten days' journey, my best friend also figured it out. After buying a house, almost all relatives and friends know that they are going to marry that person, and they are not young. It is impossible to find another person to fall in love for ten years. In addition to the mother-in-law is not easy to get along with, her husband really loves himself, and she actually can't bear it. Besides, she does not live with her mother-in-law after marriage. No one can guarantee that the next mother-in-law will get along well. Even if the mother-in-law is easy to get along with, it is useless for her husband not to love himself.

Go back, pour a cup of tea, lower your head, admit your mistake, and live on.

06

"Yan, he said he was married and introduced a woman to his mother. They have known each other for a month. "

"What is this? Didn't we agree to calm down for three months? Why did you suddenly get married? Are you okay? Where are you now? "

"I'm in the bar of the martyrs cemetery. Come and stay with me. I'm the only one crying here. The boss has been here several times and cared about me. "

"I'll be right over. Don't scare me. You can sit in your seat and cry and eat whatever you want. Don't take it too hard. I'll check out. "

07

I have seen many movies and many TV plays, but I have never seen such a scene.

It turned out that when my best friend was blowing the sea breeze in Southeast Asia and figured everything out, my ex also arranged a blind date with my mother, and then she got married in a flash. What was originally intended to be used to marry my best friend doesn't even need to be prepared again. Just change the hostess.

My best friend held me in the bar and cried all night that day, and then she went on a business trip with her suitcase.

A year later, I heard that my ex became a father.

Under the introduction of a friend, my best friend met her current husband, talked for about a year, and then entered the marriage. Husband is disobedient to his best friend, but they discuss everything and are in harmony. My parents-in-law are very kind. Even if I have any suggestions for my girlfriends, or if my girlfriends have any suggestions for my parents-in-law, my husband takes the initiative to act as a bridge. Even if I live with my parents-in-law, there is no big conflict.

08

In fact, too many people have been in love, and there is no fate. When they got married, they were all fine. The story ends and a new story begins.

But there are always people who like to make eggs. So there was the opening scene. The ex-mother dragged her ex-daughter-in-law to her best friend's company, saying that she was a fox and seduced someone else's husband when she got married.

Then I was directly reported to the police by my best friend's boss. Please go to the public security bureau. When my predecessor went to the public security bureau to lead people, my best friend pointed at her predecessor in the public security bureau. I heard that her predecessor was also rude.

09

Yan, do you know? When I scolded him there, I suddenly felt that my previous grievances were gone.

For ten years, I really don't know him at all. In fact, I never thought I would marry someone else before I knew he was married. Even it's time to break up. Later, I thought about it countless times. If I had put up with it, would I still have children with him now?

However, it is only now that I find out that, in fact, whether I broke up at that time or not, he and I couldn't get to the end. The most different thing is that it's just me and him who are divorced now.

365 days of extreme challenge day, the third day of writing training.