Giving birth to a child is a happy event, and visiting your mother is also taboo. Who can't visit mother?

Every place has different customs and everyone has different ideas. In some places, there are many sayings about visiting pregnant women, and the older generation attaches great importance to these, which is the same as confinement.

Although many young people pay attention to scientific parenting now, we are guests after all. In case the mother and her family are unhappy, the original kindness will turn into a mistake.

Some places say you can't bring keys, and people who come here should bring a bag of milk. Try to abide by this harmless old tradition so as not to make the maternal family feel offended.

If the mother has some minor ailments, the elderly usually blame those who don't obey the taboos. Therefore, it is better to say one thing than one thing. It is best to inform the mother or her family in advance before going, and ask about the local customs.

The common customs are as follows: 1. Pregnant women can't come home.

This statement is basically universal in the whole country and belongs to the most extensive custom. Some people say that they are afraid that the newborn's crying will scare the fetus, which is not good for pregnant people. Some people say that they are afraid that pregnant women will take away the mother's milk and it is difficult to give milk. In short, this is not a good statement.

Scientifically speaking, pregnant women are really not suitable for visiting pregnant women. First, the hospital is crowded and noisy, and it is easy to bump into pregnant women. Secondly, pregnant women are prone to mood swings when they see the pain of childbirth.

Third, pregnant women will inevitably be happy to see their babies and want to hug them, but there is still one in their bellies. If the fetus is unstable, it is easy to miscarry when holding heavy objects. For the safety of pregnant women, don't visit the parturient.

2.？ Men can't come to the door.

In many places, foreign men are unwelcome, and in some places, even fathers can't. It is said that women's delivery rooms are gloomy and men's masculinity is disgusting, but this is not scientific. Nowadays, considering that it is inevitable for women to breast-feed topless and it is inconvenient for men, men are not allowed to enter the house. At the same time, men speak loudly and do things lightly, which is easy to scare the baby.

Besides these traditional sayings, there are some real taboos that we should pay attention to. Try not to take the children to visit the parturient.

Children's childish words are reckless. If they say something like ugly baby, it will make people unhappy. In addition, if the child is noisy, it is easy to disturb the mother's rest. It's not good if you hurt your mother and baby out of curiosity.

2.？ Come back every few days.

Giving birth to a child is the weakest time. At this time, my mother was actually afraid of being disturbed. Besides, the child is crying and has no time to entertain guests. If it's not a special case, it's best to wait for my mother to go home for a few days before visiting.

3.？ Be careful what you say.

At this time, the mother has just experienced a death in her life, and some words are best left unsaid. The baby is so ugly Why haven't you milked yet? Eat more and don't be hungry until the baby has another baby. Okay？ Words? Those who say these words belong to those who have no eyes to look at their children, which will only increase the disgust of the pregnant women.

Visiting the puerpera is out of concern, but we should also take care of the puerpera's emotions and don't do impolite things.