What to do with the children after remarriage?

All social relationships are the redistribution of various resources, especially second marriages. People who have only been hurt once are better at balancing interests than love.

The woman is thinking: Can she give her child something better? Can you give me something better? The man thinks: How can she help me?

And in such a relationship that is mostly based on interests and not much love and wealth, children seem to have become a burden. When dating or falling in love, no matter how good-looking the woman is or how wealthy she is , will be "pointed off" by the other party.

Of course, the same goes for changing genders. After all, these two words, stepfather and stepmother, are more or less colored in the eyes of the public, but the woman is more of an "education", and the man is more of a "education". "nurture".

Because of the relationship between interests, it is naturally easy to measure the cost and return. Just like doing business, once it is labeled as a "loss", not many people are willing to "invest", and this is also The reason why having children is a "burden" for remarriage is because it is a cooperative relationship without love.

Not long ago, I saw the new slogan of the Civil Affairs Bureau on the Internet. The copy at the end is: I know that my father is someone else’s father, and my mother has become someone else’s mother...

The two words "remarriage" cover not only two people, two families, but also a child's life. The love gained in childhood is the source of courage and self-confidence to fight the world in the future. Even adults cannot adapt to a new life so quickly. environment, let alone children?

Getting married is actually very easy. When you are good enough or the conditions for choosing a partner are backward compatible, you will not be able to find the "right person". But without love, there is no warmth in a family relationship.