Just have one child, okay?

It is impossible to say whether it is good to have only one child because everyone considers different issues. Depends on what you think.

In ancient times, we China people had three kinds of unfilial behaviors, none of which was the biggest. Therefore, China people attach great importance to children's inheritance. If they have no children, they will be bullied. Although in enlightened modern times, most people still attach great importance to having children. After all, even if there are no descendants, it will not be regarded as unfilial. However, some people still have this idea, and they should also consider what to do when they are old. China people's habit is to have children to support the elderly.

Now that the second child has been released, everyone can have two children, and some people are beginning to wonder whether it is better to have one or two.

The advantage of having a child is that the burden is small, and all the resources in the family are given to this child, which is more beneficial to the growth of the child. However, I am afraid that my children are not as lonely as my brothers and sisters. When I grow up, there will be great pressure to support four old people, and my children will have no brothers and sisters to help them when they encounter problems a hundred years later.

In the past, the national policy allowed only one child. Later, many people lost their orphans, and parents simply could not accept the fact of losing their children. This is why some people consider having a second child.

If you are worried about these problems, you can have a second child. After all, the state allows the birth of a second child.

Having two children Although the children have a companion, parents don't have to worry about the above problems. However, raising two children is very stressful, unlike before, it is good to be able to eat and grow up. Now that the child has started the money-burning mode as soon as he is born, parents will try their best to give the child a good one. What's more, there are mortgages, car loans, living expenses and so on. If you want a second child, you should also think carefully.

With the rapid development of society, people's thoughts are also changing. Being childless is no longer regarded as unfilial, and it is not a question of having several children to support the elderly. After all, children were under great pressure at that time, but did they have enough capital to support themselves when they were young? Even now, there are many Dink families who enjoy life alone, and they are more free without children. This is also good, because if you have a child, you must be responsible for it to the end. If you can't do it, you can't have children.

If you like children and have the ability to raise them and give them a warm and loving family, you can of course have a second child.