Case studies that successfully influenced others

Cases of successful influence on others

Cases of successful influence on others. There is no shortage of successful people in this world. For many people, the deeds of successful people are those that can have an impact on themselves. It has a certain influence, and many people will read relevant cases. Here are the cases that have successfully influenced others. Cases that have successfully influenced others 1

An old Chinese saying: "Don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you." That's it. Don't force others to do things you can't do.

The best and most effective way for a person to influence others is to use his own actions to influence others. I remember that I was in the UK three years ago. When I was studying abroad, I worked in a Chinese restaurant in my spare time. It was a hot pot restaurant owned by a Sichuanese. When I first started working, I helped the chef prepare dishes. As soon as the order came, I started to prepare each dish. Growing ingredients.

I was clumsy in the first week. I was not interested in cooking and had no experience, so I always made the wrong meals and was constantly scolded by the chef. But the boss was very enthusiastic. , he always comes to help me prepare meals when the kitchen is busiest. Although he is old and has bad knees, his every move makes me feel that he is a very hard-working and patient person. He is very good to new employees. He was very patient and willing to teach me all the necessary skills step by step.

After a week, the process and details of every action of the boss were firmly remembered in my mind. In his work, the boss never yelled, but used his actions to lead the new students. He knew that yelling could not make the apprentices learn how to prepare meals. He could only teach them patiently and let the employees try. Make mistakes.

What’s more important is that this Sichuan restaurant owner taught me through his actions that we need to be diligent and sincere, and we need to be careful and patient in doing things. Everyone knows this simple truth, but. When a person uses his or her actions to influence you, a person's feelings and the extent of the impact are different.

Therefore, don't do to others what you don't want others to do to you. If you are an influential person, use your actions to influence others. 2 Cases of Successfully Influencing Others

Wang Xizhi started practicing calligraphy from dawn to dusk when he was 7 years old. When he was 11 years old, he wanted to go to his father's school. I found some copybooks in my room and continued practicing my calligraphy. I found several books on my father's pillow, so I picked up the top one and took a look. It was a book called "On Writing", which was about teaching people how to use their pen when writing. As soon as he opened the book, he couldn't help but start recording the skills of writing. He couldn't put it down and unknowingly took the book out of his father's room to read. He got up early every day to write and practice in the dark. After a while, he looked at his handwriting and saw some changes.

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One day, Wang Xizhi was discovered by his father when he was reading "Bi Lun". When his father Wang Kuang saw that the book his son was reading so engrossed was actually his own collection of "Bi Lun", he asked in surprise: "Can you understand such a profound book?" Wang Xizhi replied: "You can't understand the book unless you read it. Although he only knows a little about it, he can still be educated." After hearing this, his father gave "Bi Lun" to Wang Xizhi. After receiving the book, he practiced more diligently, more seriously, and more devotedly.

One time during lunch, the bookboy brought his favorite mashed garlic and steamed buns. He urged him to eat them several times, but he didn’t even raise his head to look at it. He concentrated on reading the copybook and practicing calligraphy. . The book boy finally had to ask his mother to persuade him to eat. When his mother came to the study, she saw Xizhi holding a piece of steamed bun stained with ink in his hand and putting it into his mouth, making his mouth full of black.

It turns out that when Xizhi was eating the steamed buns, his eyes were still looking at the characters and he was thinking about how to write the characters. As a result, he mistakenly ate the ink as minced garlic. When her mother saw this scene, she couldn't help but smile and said, "Xizhi, today's garlic paste is so fragrant!"

It was precisely because of decades of practicing calligraphy that Wang Xizhi became a great calligrapher. Case 3 of successfully influencing others

If you don’t believe in your own will, you will never be a general.

During the Spring and Autumn Period and the Warring States Period, a father and his son went to war. The father has become a general, and the son is just a pawn.

Another blast of horns sounded and war drums thundered. My father solemnly held up a quiver with an arrow in it. The father solemnly said to his son: "This is the treasured arrow of the family. It has infinite power when you carry it with you, but you must never draw it out." It was an extremely exquisite quiver, made of thick cowhide and inlaid with faintly shining copper. Next, look at the exposed arrow tail. You can tell at a glance that it is made from the finest peacock feathers.

The son's brows were filled with joy, and he greedily speculated on the shape of the arrow shaft and arrowhead. The sound of arrows seemed to be whizzing past his ears, and the enemy's commander broke off his horse and died in response. Sure enough, the son armed with treasured arrows was brave and invincible. When Ming Jin's horn sounded to withdraw his troops, his son could no longer hold back the pride of victory and completely abandoned his father's instructions. His strong desire drove him to pull out his treasured arrow with a single call, trying to see what happened. Suddenly he was stunned. A broken arrow, a broken arrow in the quiver.

I have been fighting with only a broken arrow! The son was so frightened that he broke out in a cold sweat, as if the house had suddenly lost its pillars and his will suddenly collapsed.

The result is self-evident, his son died tragically in the rebellion.

After brushing aside the misty smoke, my father picked up the broken arrow and spat heavily: "If you don't believe in your own will, you will never be a general."

Win the victory How stupid it is to pin your defeat on a precious arrow, and how dangerous it is when a person gives the core and handle of his life to others! For example, place your hopes on your children; place your happiness on your husband; place your livelihood security on your work unit...

Warm reminder:

You are an arrow, if you want It is tough, if you want it to be sharp, if you want it to be able to pierce through the poplars with hundreds of steps, hit every shot, sharpen it, the only one who can save it is yourself.