Raising children for old age is parents' biggest joke. Do you agree with this view?

In the concept that has been circulated in China for thousands of years, raising children to prevent old age has always been a tradition. However, there are countless incidents in which children refuse to provide for the aged. Everyone thinks it is unfilial to be a child. Raising children for old age? It is the biggest joke of parents. So what? Pension? It has also become a topic of great concern in the current society.

Some come from media marketing numbers? Chicken soup? Will say that children are independent individuals, not parents' accessories. Parents can't hold it? Raising children for old age? The old idea of having children.

Some also moved out articles by famous writers to persuade and persuade children to avoid giving their parents emotional demands.

Some people say, this era, isn't it? Raising children for old age? , but? Helping the elderly and preventing the young? .

Of course, I don't agree with the above views and raising children to prevent old age. This problem is like a balance, which is often difficult to control and achieve balance. In the face of life, both children and parents will have to happen. We can only consider the solution from the perspective of things. We are now in a fast-paced development era. When children grow up and step into the society, they will have their own lives, and there are many things to face and bear. In an economical and efficient society, the biggest contradiction between children and parents is how to coordinate the problem of providing for the aged. Many times, it is not that children are unfilial, but that the situation they face is not allowed and they have to choose to give up.

From the parents' point of view, they are capable in their later years and can help their children when they need help. If a child is unable or unwilling, there should be no objection. Old people should have a perfect plan for their later life. You can't be extremely demanding or dependent on children. You must give freely, learn to let go, and don't be a drag and burden on children. In fact, it is the best way to solve contradictions.

The most important thing for the elderly is to be responsible for themselves, live in the present and be content! As children, parents should enjoy their old age as much as possible.