Why Zhang Ziyi fell in love with Wang Feng?

Every time my mother sees Zhang Ziyi, she always asks, "What does Zhang Ziyi see in Wang Feng?"

At the end, I sighed, "How wonderful Xiao Sa is, how did it break up?" I can't turn over the old almanac that still stays in the last century, and I have a sense of regret for missing my son-in-law.

Compared with Wang Feng, leather pants and a broken-hearted rock fan, mothers are worried that this is not a proper man.

There is a popular "rumor of prodigal son" in Tik Tok. One of the lyrics is "The prodigal son has no money to eat out", and "money" is similar to "love". Every time I hear it, I hear "the prodigal son goes to the restaurant mercilessly." I think this sentence is very suitable to describe Wang Feng.

Wang Feng has this kind of temperament, "the prodigal son is heartless, and the drunkard's intention is not to drink, but to pretend sincerely and look at the flowers". He is an evening lover, giving you strong emotional experience, but breaking your heart. Such a public impression, the daughter falls in love with him, the mother should consider it, let alone marry him.

It's amazing that two people with complicated love histories are so in love now.

So today, let's study why Zhang Ziyi fell in love with Wang Feng, which is a historical problem that has puzzled people who eat melons for many years.

The timeline of Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng's affair is chaotic.

September 20 13, Wang Feng was still sharing property with his ex-wife. On August 30th, he was photographed by Zhuo Wei, the first paparazzi, having a tryst at the Zhang Ziyi Hotel.

At that time, everyone remembered that Zhang Ziyi was still in love with Sa Beining.

Zhuo Wei, the first paparazzi in the entertainment circle, also arranged a love timeline for Wang Feng, Zhang Ziyi and Sa Beining.

On March 20 13, Wang Feng unilaterally filed for divorce. I met Zhang Ziyi around May. On July 8th, Sa Beining and Zhang Ziyi Weibo interacted for the last time. In mid-July, Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng watched Eason Chan's concert together. On August 30th, Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng Hotel held a secret meeting. /kloc-In September of 0/6, the division of property between Wang Feng and his ex-wife ended.

Chronology of Zhang Wang compiled by Zhuo Wei

20 13 July13, Wang Ziyi, Hongkong, concert site.

20 13 On July 8th, Zhang Ziyi and Sa Beining interacted for the last time in Weibo.

On July 20 12, Sa Beining went to Guangdong to visit Zhang Ziyi's class, and his love affair was exposed.

According to Zhuo Wei's inference, Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng fell in love in July 20 13. Zhuo Wei thinks that Zhang Ziyi's breakup with Sa Beining is related to Zhang Mu's opposition and Zhang Ziyi's attitude of riding a donkey and watching a horse.

But in Zhang Ziyi, Wang Feng, September 20 13, the two still denied their relationship. 165438 10, Wang Feng confessed to Ziyi at the Shanghai concert. Zhang Ziyi was moved to tears.

On February 7th, 20 15, Wang Feng proposed to Zhang Ziyi successfully.

This pair was not favored by passers-by, media and family at that time.

In the eyes of passers-by, Wang Feng is deceiving love rat. In the eyes of female writers, Brother Wang needs treatment. In the eyes of this old artist, Wang Feng is a realist. "Never admit the secret love affair with the female assistant, and immediately announce the love affair with the favored one. Oh, love, love is also realistic. "

However, there is a saying that according to the specific archaeological time, each heir of Wang Feng met after breaking up with his predecessor or filing for divorce. However, the time before and after the appointment is too close, and there is no emotional window, which will also make the people who eat melons think that Wang Feng is scum and make people feel that he is cheating.

Family members are also very emotional about the relationship between Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng.

Zhang Ziyi didn't even dare to mention Wang Feng's name at home, because his parents thought the diaphragm. Zhang Ziyi and Wang Feng were sneaking around like thieves when they were dating at their house. At that time, Zhang Ziyi's parents lived in the Dapinglou upstairs in Zhang Ziyi, and they would meet downstairs.

On the day Wang Feng proposed to Zhang Ziyi, it was reported that Zhang Ziyi's brother had smashed the scene of the proposal.

Although Zhang Zinan denied it, she later sent a circle of friends to express her disgust and thought that any normal woman in the world would marry Wang Feng. Boy, I scolded my own sister. )

Although everyone around him is singing the devil's advocate, Zhang Ziyi has a tough attitude. "I want to live for myself once."

Then why can a couple who are not favored by everyone get together? Let's listen to our customers' opinions first.

First of all, Wang Feng can provide emotional value to Zhang Ziyi because of his high emotional intelligence.

Zhang Ziyi said in "The Romantic Travel of Wife" that Wang Feng gave her a psychological test on the first date, as if she had been enchanted, and this psychological test made Zhang Ziyi feel that Wang Feng knew herself very well.

It shows that in life, Wang Feng is a partner who is good at providing emotional value and creating freshness. And Zhang Ziyi obviously enjoyed the psychological game that Wang Feng prepared for her.

Secondly, with strength, Wang Feng helped her and her family out at a critical moment.

Wang Feng said in the program that before meeting Zhang Ziyi, Zhang Ziyi came to a friend's birthday party and thanked Wang Feng for helping his parents a little. Later, he was stripped naked. This little kindness is that Wang Feng won hundreds of thousands for Zhang Jia's parents in Macau casino without knowing Zhang Ziyi's parents.

Wang Feng and Zhang Ziyi met and played chess together.

Wang Feng can help with things in life, especially the professional aspects.

20 13 May, Zhang Ziyi participated in "The Strongest Sound in China" as a music tutor. Na Ying directly ridiculed in the interview: "Zhang Ziyi can't win the championship, and the interlacing is like a mountain. Zhang Ziyi can't sing, and the program group makes her just a vase. Play a demonstration role. "

Later, Zhang Ziyi found Na Ying's good friend Wang Feng as a staff officer. Wang Feng gave Zhang Ziyi a lot of ideas behind his back and successfully helped Zhang Ziyi win a championship. You said that a man who can help himself professionally, no matter how strong Zhang Ziyi is, will not regard Wang Feng with special respect. Perhaps it was this contact that Zhang Ziyi began to pay attention to Wang Feng. Two months later, they went to Hongkong to watch Eason Chan's concert.

"Play an exemplary role", hahaha, that elder sister dares to speak!

The point is, when Na Ying said this, Zhang Ziyi was taking pictures nearby. Zhang Ziyi froze at the sound of his face and kept smiling and taking pictures.

Actress's

Concept of mate selection

Finally, talk about Zhang Ziyi's concept of mate selection. It may explain why Zhang Ziyi chose Wang Feng.

There is a concept here: female stars need a continuous "peak experience".

What is the "peak experience"?

Writer Bai Bangni talked about her actress friend in Weibo the other day. When the actress said she wouldn't film, her mood was very low. Bai Bangni explained this phenomenon like this:

Therefore, it is difficult for male and female stars to enter their daily lives. If they want to be happy and keep the same hormone level as when filming, then they should either keep exercising or contact with highly exciting people and things when not filming to stimulate the hormone level in daily life. Falling in love is undoubtedly the best choice, which is why stars are happy to fall in love.

Let's go back and think about Zhang Ziyi's filming style. He is a ruthless character, who puts his emotions into filming without reservation, and the consumption is not generally large.

Without stronger stimulation in life, female stars will feel weak, depressed and depressed. And Wang Feng happens to be a rock prodigal son with rich feelings and singing life in full bloom. Such a man, in his life, will definitely give Zhang Ziyi a strong stimulus and objectively help Zhang Ziyi to narrow the hormone gap before and after filming.

Accurately speaking, Wang Feng is a person who can bring "peak experience" to women in plain life.

Therefore, Wang Feng's emotional experience of being criticized by people may not be a bad thing for those who need creativity. This may be a common problem of highly creative people, who need a lot of love to maintain hormone levels. This may be why Zhang Ziyi's family didn't understand, but Zhang Ziyi insisted on choosing Wang Feng. Because there is no Zhang family engaged in performance, it is difficult to understand Zhang Ziyi's emotional dilemma caused by the gap of "peak experience". It's too painful, too uncomfortable.

Wang Feng is a "poison" and an antidote.

Comparing Zhang Ziyi's past love history, we can see that the demands of female stars in different periods are different, which roughly represents the usual thinking of female stars.

In the first rising period, men are tall and women are low, and giants get married.

Rising actresses need to borrow and help, and giants or bosses are undoubtedly the most suitable choices for female stars.

This is usually the love between men and women.

Zhang Ziyi talked about this kind of love, but in this kind of love, the weak side needs to tolerate the strong side, and the weak side usually provides emotional value to the strong side.

There are fresh tricks and colorful material comforts in the life of the rich and powerful, but at the same time, the female star should be soft, modest and knowledgeable in this intimate relationship.

But this is impossible for Zhang Ziyi, who has a high heart. Think of the arrogant Zhang Ziyi in the movie, which is the projection of Zhang Niangniang's own temperament, and let her be a dodder flower in her life and dreams! To tell the truth, this is what I admire about Zhang Ziyi.

In 2000, Zhang Ziyi, who went to Hong Kong to shoot Rush Hour 2, was in high spirits and fell in love with the son of the old tycoon Huo. However, there are many rules in the rich and powerful families. Daughter-in-law should try to keep a low profile after marriage, dress up and wear jewelry when going out, and write IOUs. The woman should live with her head down, and enterprising Zhang Ziyi will break up decisively.

In 2004, I went to Hollywood to develop and talked with Xin Wei, a rich Jewish businessman, about my love with a big diamond ring. Jews are the smartest human beings in the world, and being a Jewish wife is also an extraordinary test. The rules are no less than those of Xiangjiang giants, and the twists and turns here are quite complicated. Zhang Ziyi is used to the feeling of being held in his hand, and can't stand the western-style love between relatives and lovers.

Finally, separation. The most interesting thing is that western-style rich people are popular in signing prenuptial agreements, and they have to take back the big jewelry they gave before divorce. Zhang Ziyi has a Chinese marriage mentality, so there is still a reason to get back the bride price. Experienced, Zhang Ziyi just know, western men are not as generous as men in the east.

Second, during the period of fame, women are taller than men, and they are "family-style" partners.

Female stars have reached the peak of fame and fortune. With money and fame, they need love, and companionship has become what women need most.

"Jiaming style" boyfriend stands out, with high education, culture, love for health, good looks and a job.

But such men are far behind them economically and have little interest in creating love experiences.

Sa Beining talked about the reasons for breaking up with Zhang Ziyi, saying that they had different ideas about life, which led to poor communication.

On Jia Ming in Yi Shu dialect: "He is a very normal person, with good looks and personality, healthy and happy."

But Jia Ming is usually bored, usually has little wealth, and is also very coquettish. Sometimes you have to coax him.

Although mistress is not short of money, it is still appropriate between lovers. If you can afford Bulgari at any time, Jia can only afford a gold ring when trying milk, and his face will be a little embarrassed when opening the gift box. The economic foundation determines the superstructure, and sometimes it is not snobbish, which will really cause visual angle errors.

It is good to have a good family, but it is not enough to have a companion in life. For a woman, it's too stable and sometimes boring.

The third kind, the platform period, is evenly matched and loves each other and kills each other.

Peter and Julie play Mr. and Mrs. Smith. As well-trained killers in the play, their feelings warmed up in the process of killing each other.

After the play, this pair of Hollywood superstars and strong partners chose each other, which can be regarded as a continuation of the "Smith couple" model in the play. In life, they can bring intense stimulation and peak experience to each other and get through the depression in daily life.

Zhang Ziyi, a big star, has experienced the excitement and glitz of the top vanity fair, and needs a lover with a little "dangerous breath", which is a bit fatal and attractive, and finally creates fetters in the "war" for the dominance of intimate relationships.

In the love between men and women, female stars will not compromise themselves in order to accommodate each other. In the relationship between men and women, female stars lack the same language because of their different wealth, interests and goals.

20 15 star income ranking shows that although Wang Feng is not as famous as Zhang Ziyi, it is actually richer than Zhang Ziyi.

Wang Feng can boast of Zhang Ziyi, which is equal to Zhang Ziyi in wealth and independence (they don't know each other's bank card number). On this basis, Wang Feng also wants to make Zhang Ziyi happy through psychological tests and love games.

For the other half who has the ability to make money, there may not be a few female stars, and many can be found among their peers. But for a successful China man, it is difficult to provide emotional value for women while making money.

Therefore, for a partner who has the ability to make money and can bring himself a continuous "peak experience", this may be the most ideal partner choice for Zhang Ziyi with a successful career and independent spirit, and Wang Feng meets these conditions.

So, sometimes, marriage is about timing, two people want stability, and then the right person appears. Wang Feng, who has weathered the storm, married a beautiful woman and a big star known to all men in China, satisfying his desire to conquer rock singers. After Zhang Ziyi became famous, he wanted to settle down, get married and have children. Wang Feng is obviously the most sincere and richest man who is willing to pay attention to her, and she hit it off with affection.

Meeting the right person at the right time is a perfect match, so marriage is really providence.