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Special training class for chasing girls

The first lesson is absolute confidence

Self-confidence is the basic condition for doing everything Chasing girls is no exception. If you want to successfully chase girls, you need to have absolute self-confidence. You must have the belief: "You must succeed, and you can never do it alone." You should adopt a "self-reliance" approach and rely on your own strength to pick up girls. Try to avoid relying on friends and family. Not only may friends and family not be able to help you, but too many people who know your partner may backfire, and girls will not like people who rely on friends to chase girls. But to fulfill your ambition, the most important thing is self-confidence. Even if you are not a "Prince of Charming Horses", you can still dress yourself up like a prince. The important thing is that confident temperament and demeanor that will make the other party It’s hard to resist, and that’s what it means in a nutshell: confidence, confidence, confidence.

Lesson 2: Men who confuse women

Most women don’t like men who are overly honest, it’s so boring! In fact, the qualities they most welcome in men are that they are popular, cheerful and lively, unable to reject others, unable to keep secrets

have no members of the opposite sex, are easy to compromise, are a little overconfident and a little honest and rash type.

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In fact, as long as you have any of the above points, it can be said that you already have the conditions to attract women, but the more of the above points, the easier it will be in the pursuit of women. It feels advantageous, and the smaller it is, the harder it is to break out of the tight siege

. But even so, even if you have many of the above conditions, there is no guarantee that you will be able to please any woman, because while you have any advantages, you cannot also have some things that are completely unacceptable to the other party

Or tolerate shortcomings, such as: bad men. Generally speaking, to attract women, you need to use your eyes, voice and body language. When you first meet, you can naturally look at her ears.

When your eyes meet, then turn your eyes to her ears, and she will naturally be deeply impressed by you. When you have the opportunity to talk, your voice should be slightly higher than hers. It should be cheerful and loud. It will attract her to continue talking with you. When listening to her words, your eyes will shift to her lips, making her feel You listen to her attentively; you can place your hands on the table with your four fingers side by side, making people feel your neatness and beauty, and they will naturally like you.

Lesson 3: Encounter

You must always remind yourself that the word "eye edge" is almost the most inexplicable concept on the road of love. It is enough to make two people fall in love. Fall in love quickly and even go to church. Therefore, when you meet the woman you have been waiting for for a long time and have a perfect match with you in any place and occasion: bus, subway, street, restaurant, banquet, work place, etc., don’t hesitate, the opportunity may be Gone never to return.

To seize the current opportunity and seize the current beauty, the only way you can do it is to go up and talk to her, so that she can get to know you and have an impression, good impression, love, longing, etc. for you. Anyway, you have to take the first step. But

There is no doubt that this requires great courage and must be done with caution. Moreover, if you say the wrong sentence, you will save yourself trouble later. Therefore, in daily life, you must Study often and you will be able to handle it when it is useful.

Below, try to give some opening remarks for your reference:

1. Look at her with attracted or uncontrollable eyes and look back from time to time. (With this trick, even if the other person is not attracted to you at all, he will feel complacent about his unstoppable charm, so he can't help but turn back to you.)

2. A smile.

(They will believe that their appearance must be lovable and make others like them, and then they may smile in return.)

3. Ask her the time in the most natural way, but you must not have a watch on your hand, but you can adjust it slower or faster first.

(She can’t find any reason to refuse to answer you.)

4. "Hello!" Smile

(If done properly, your chic attitude will definitely attract her, but most importantly, she will be convinced that you are attracted to her.) The purpose of the above is to When meeting strange girls, it is an ideal way to reduce their alertness. Since they don't know each other, if they speak too glibly and have an attitude, they may offend the other party, which may be self-defeating. In fact, any woman

believes in fate and obeys fate. They will believe that every man who appears in front of her may be her future husband. Therefore, as long as you use the method appropriately, she will I am always ready to let go and accept you.

Sincerity is always the strongest weapon to capture a woman's heart. To win her heart, she must believe that you are absolutely attracted to her, and even she is the only one who can attract you; then

she will Gradually lift the psychological alert and smile at you. However, if the other person is introduced by a friend, or you know that you have some relationship with the other person (such as school, work), then things will be much easier. 5. "He [someone] said that you are the school beauty of XX Academy, so you must be busy dealing with the pursuit of different boys every day."

(Even if she is not a real school beauty, once you tell her, she must think that her beauty has already attracted many people, but the most important thing is that she must deny it and explain it.)

6． "Your job seems very interesting. What are your daily duties?"

(She is definitely embarrassed to refuse to answer at this time, but gradually she will be attracted by your serious and candid eyes and answer attentively.)

7. "You must spend a lot of thought and time on clothes. Have you cultivated this experience since you were a child?"

(This is undoubtedly an implicit compliment, complimentary and without trace.)

8． "The real me you made up for when you went out for a date!"

(She will immediately frown and ask you impatiently, "What on earth did you say?", you might as well read it backwards, She will definitely burst into laughter and beam with joy.) Of course, no matter how clever or clever this opening is, it will be useless. Because when it comes to intelligence, women are by no means inferior to men, but they are easily deceived by sweet words and cannot maintain high alertness. However,

excessive rhetoric will only make them more vigilant and build walls to guard against you. Therefore, the simplest and most direct opening remarks are often the most effective opening remarks, because they will never think of someone showing love to her or other things without thinking at all. Therefore, the only conclusion is : "The other party must be Brother Chu, and he is really sincere. This person is not bad!" So, naturally

she will open the door wide and welcome you to join her and enter her. In life!

Lesson 4: Creating Opportunities

If you want to pursue a girl, you must have an opening statement. No matter what image you use and what effect you produce, the most important thing is always that she has reaction. Once she responds to you, everything will be much easier. Basically, she doesn’t think you started the topic and then turned around and left without continuing. In this case, she will definitely be very angry and feel that you are teasing her, and it is too easy.

Therefore, you must make a prompt decision and create a date opportunity for yourself. Even if she rejects you outright, at least you will leave a good impression on your politeness and courage. So, how to create

opportunities? Due to the different situations, venues, people and atmospheres, it is difficult to generalize. However, there are always some principles to follow:

※ Take advantage of the situation and propose a date in the shortest possible time. (In this way, she has no time to refuse and can only acquiesce.)

※Choose some more popular locations. (Only then will she feel safe and give it a try.)

※Take her to a place she is familiar with.

(She will not be confused and feel natural.)

※Discuss with her, and then you will make the decision about the program later. (Women like to be respected by others, but also like others to be authoritarian.)

※ Make appropriate arrangements for her, such as the way and time to go home. (She will think that you are a caring, mature, considerate and gentle person.) With such an arrangement, she will be happy to agree to your date, and she will also be happy to be with a person like you. People spend a romantic and unexpected night. However, women are definitely animals controlled by emotions. Even when you think you have fully grasped her mental state

, she may actually be affected by another external impact at the same time. Therefore, it is important to work with them. When getting along, you must be careful with Yiyi at all times and don't be careless.

Lesson 5: First Date

Meeting and talking can be said to be the most important step, because it is the beginning of everything. However, there is no guarantee that there will be a second step in the future. Step three. Therefore, after the first step, you still have to spend

a lot of thought and must not relax.

Of course, you must also make it clear whether you have the need and urge to continue dating her. If you are just forcing it, don't force it, so as not to cause excessive trouble and pain to everyone in the future.

Treat it with a sincere attitude, otherwise it will not only hurt others, but also insult your personal character, which is really pointless.

Therefore, you must not act carelessly on the first date, otherwise it will be hopeless. Moreover, if you cannot devote yourself to that date, pursuing it will not necessarily be a happy and joyful thing, so

So, no matter what, you have to tell yourself that you must take your date seriously. Since she agrees to your date, she will definitely dress up and have some expectations. Therefore, you must not disappoint her and take care of her psychological needs as much as possible. For example, tell her that you value her with neat and beautiful clothes, meet her in a happy mood, be prepared enough to spend a night with her,

and arrange the end of the program and send her back. Home. After a good impression is established, she will have no problem saying yes to your second proposed date. At the same time, if she really appreciates your arrangement for the whole night, she will naturally hope that you can continue to date her. At this time, you can privately calculate whether she is worthy of you continuing to date. If she is absolutely worth it, Don't hesitate to open your mouth before the first date is over

otherwise you may miss all the opportunities. Because the more nervous you are, the happier she will be.

Lesson 6 The Second Date

Why should we emphasize the second date? Because when you meet for the first time, it may be your first contact. You don’t know each other at all, and you don’t take it seriously. You rely entirely on intuition and eye contact to judge whether the other person can continue to interact.

The first date means that I really want to get to know you. We might as well give each other a chance to make a start. Therefore, strictly speaking, the first date alone is the first time to consciously and regularly

Date each other in person and make an in-depth first contact.

However, the second independent date is even more important, because it is a symbol of the sincerity of each other. The first date can be said to be purely a trial. If you feel that you are not suitable for each other, you can definitely stop there and there is no need to continue. Of course, meeting one more time does not necessarily mean that we will never marry anyone other than your beloved, but there is a bigger difference - greater sincerity. No matter how the first date goes, you have to admit that as long as you date the other person again, it means that the last date was unforgettable for you, and you also hope to see the other person again and have sex with her. *, therefore, your attitude must be more sincere

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At the very least, you must let her know that you are mentally prepared, that you and her will evolve into a couple at any time, and that you have begun to treat her as a girlfriend-a person you are fully interested in taking further

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Lesson 7 Physical Contact

Perhaps you and her have dated each other many times, or you may regard each other as boyfriend and girlfriend. The two of you talk and laugh together, but you still feel There is a gap between everyone. In fact, after you have been together for a while, she will allow some physical contact, but it does not mean that you can do whatever you want. You still need to be careful, otherwise all your efforts will be in vain. If If you put your hands on her shoulders with excessive force and exaggerated movements, you will definitely arouse resentment and think that you are too laissez-faire. The following are some correct methods, which are worth your reference:

※Hands - When she allows you to drag her hand, you should do it in a gesture that fully encompasses her hand. To make her feel protected and warm, avoid dragging only one finger or her fingertips, as this will make her feel disrespected and "contacted" The feeling of "dirty" will resist your further actions in the future.

※Wrist - This gesture is actually not worth advocating, because everyone will feel ordered and "escorted" when their wrist (or arm) is grabbed, even lovers are no exception. , but it can also be used sometimes (for example, in a hurry to cross the road). It is worth noting that the catching position is only below the elbow, and the intensity must be gentle, otherwise, she will really It feels like a criminal being caught by the police.

※Shoulder - after the stage of holding hands, it is followed by a gentle hug. The word "gently hugs", of course, is to hold her body gently with your hands and pull her body closer. , making her feel protected and safe. Don't let your whole arm hang on her shoulders, otherwise the weight of your arms will make her feel burdened and despised.

※Back--stroking her back with your hands can also make her feel pampered. However, when you do this, be sure to press it with your whole palm, not just two. Pressing with your fingers, or moving around, the former will make her feel uneasy about being "struck on the back", and the latter will make her feel that you are being played with and that you are frivolous. But keep in mind that although body language is a way of communicating with each other, it also requires considerable verbal communication. The relationship between two people must not be established by physical contact alone, which means that relationships should never be based on sex. On the contrary, if you can start with

spiritual communication, slowly cultivate each other's feelings, enhance mutual understanding, and understand the incompatibility between each other, physical contact can completely help the growth of the relationship. Otherwise, the two of them may become infatuated at any time and make big mistakes

Thinking

1. A girl wants others to praise her for her beauty. Everyone likes to hear compliments. Women are more prominent in this regard. They get the pleasure of recognition from people's compliments and compliments. Understand

female psychology. If you want to win the favor of the girl you love, you must always praise her for her beauty. For example, if your girlfriend puts on makeup in front of the mirror for a long time just for you, and wears a new outfit every time you go on a date, shouldn't you sincerely praise her when you see her?

2. Women like to give small favors to others. There are subtle differences between men and women in giving and receiving gifts. When a woman gives a valuable gift to a man, it shows that she is willing to trust her. First of all

Think of gifts as a sign of respect or as an act of attentiveness. Therefore, a woman not only likes others to give her some small souvenirs, but she also likes to give her boyfriend a small gift. If her boyfriend doesn't take the gift seriously, she will be disappointed. When a smart man accepts a gift from a girl, he must not forget to give her an affectionate kiss.

3. Respect her and understand her. A woman likes to be listened to, and she wants her feelings, even if they are childish or irrational, to work for a man.

She wants others to respect her and understand her. Women are easily hurt inside. You must protect her, care for her, and take care of her.

4. Consistent with her interests. Most women believe that a man who shares her views or interests and helps her achieve a certain goal will be a trustworthy person. Therefore, they tend to feel close to such a man

, and give your heart to him. Generally speaking, unreasonable men will make women unhappy. If a female colleague does not complete the work quota, you will definitely not get her if you criticize her directly

. You should put yourself in her position and think about it more without affecting your work and the group. At this time, her heart will be inexplicably inclined to you. Women are generally very wary. Strong, if you

have the same goal as her, for example, you are both dissatisfied with the actions of a certain colleague, etc., you will be easily accepted.

5. Pay attention to her small details desire. Women always think that men are forgetful. Therefore, if she accidentally blurts out something that interests her, you will always remember it firmly. When you mention it to her again one day, she will be moved. For women For example, if you can understand some of her small desires, she will definitely feel that you know her best and are the most reliable, so she will be closer to you.

6. Confidence to her Worry. It is true that women love men’s masculinity. Strength and bravery are the characteristics of men. But while men are strong and brave, they also have emotions and tenderness.

When a woman falls in love with a man, she often falls in love with his fragile side. The underlying reason for this phenomenon may be a woman’s natural maternal instinct. A man can easily reveal his secrets in front of a woman he likes, and it is so natural. Women have sincere sympathy for such a man. "A man will not shed tears easily". Men will not shed tears until they are sad, and they will not reveal their secrets to women until they are truly in love. Women are easily conquered by such men.

7. Pay attention to the slight changes in her clothing. For women, if someone notices the small changes in her body, she will have a sense of satisfaction in being recognized. Women like to pursue fashion, and it is their nature to love beauty. If your girlfriend changes her hairstyle or clothes today and you praise her a few words, she will definitely be very happy. She will think that you are always thinking about her and watching her, and she will feel satisfied and not

There will be a sudden "strong wind", or you will be sulking alone. An attentive man will notice the slight changes in a woman without her prompting at all. In this way, the relationship between you will be very harmonious.

A complete guide to chasing girls

1) Chasing girls who are silent and arrogant

It seems quite tricky at first. In fact, this kind of girls are cold on the outside but fanatical on the inside. They generally like boys who are a little wilder. If you are the kind of gentle boy with bad looks

, the possibility is relatively small, it is better to choose another beautiful woman. If others comment on you as "so cool!", then you have great hope! If your first invitation is not rejected, then you must not waste the opportunity

Ou! They start He may be extremely disrespectful to you. You must not be discouraged at this time.

You must persist, even to the point of shamelessness. Inviting her to watch movies, dancing, skating, and going to the study room where she often goes are all good ideas. You must find more opportunities to express yourself, a lot (of course

I love you, I have to leave it to the end, haha)... For this type of girl, it is very important for you to reveal your true feelings. Attractive.

It usually takes a long time to chase this kind of girl. If you are about to graduate or leave school now, it seems that it is better not to start. So as not to waste...hehe. But after you catch her, she will usually give up and you will think that you are the happiest BF in the world! Haha.

(2) Chasing romantic and fantasy girls

If you really fall in love with such a girl, let me remind you first - you will have to taste the ups and downs! This Breeding girls seem to pursue spirituality more than material things, but in fact it's just the opposite. Romance requires money to create. If you don't have enough financial resources, I hope you will think more carefully. Since she likes romance, flowers, and chocolates, giving her lots of gifts is the best way to tug at her heartstrings.

If you want to catch this kind of girl, don’t be stingy with your money. Except for the moon in the sky, and on the ground except... (What? I can't remember) As long as she wants it, you have to do your best to get it without hesitation.

And the usual roses, snacks, and even the subtle details show the spirit... In short, if you want to chase a girl like this, you must develop the ability to read girls' minds. Don’t forget to bribe roommates around girls.

Don’t forget to bribe them.

They will tell you a lot of useful information. As for your own dress, you must put a lot of thought into it, and don't be rustic all day long. (After you catch a girl, you can safely show your true colors

because in her eyes you are no longer a bitch. Haha)

It takes more time to play with her. Go to romantic places, such as spring outings, dance parties, watching love feature films... She will gradually become inseparable from your care and attention, haha! Although such a girl is very expensive for you

Money, but it will also bring you a lot of beautiful fun. As long as you really like it, you can still live a happy life.

(3) Pursue gentle and considerate girls

This kind of girl is a giving type. Once she becomes your GF, she will take good care of you, be gentle and approachable, and make you feel the warmth and reliability of love. If you can catch this kind of girl, theoretically you will become the most comfortable man in your life. This type of girl should be easier to chase (and suitable for all types of boys), as long as she doesn't hate you and you are worthy of her. Now let us discuss the question of means.

First of all, you should pay more attention to her in life and study. She doesn't need any material things, but needs a kind of care from the heart, which will appear in front of her when she needs help. (

A reminder: You must observe more in order to find good opportunities to take action.) Of course, if you are a romantic person, sending flowers and gifts during festivals is foolproof.

You can send some friendly things at the beginning, and wait until you feel you can express it (for example, when she starts to look at you differently from others or seems a little at a loss in front of you), then you can

Giving roses! If you don’t plan to be so extravagant, you can express some in your daily chats after self-study. When the time is right, suddenly say something like "It feels so good to be with you." , if she doesn't

avoid, you can strike while the iron is hot and say what you have wanted to say for a long time. The best time is at night: people’s defense capabilities are weaker at night. If she starts to avoid you, don't force her. You can continue to care about her silently until she is moved.

BTW: If you don’t have many opportunities to interact with her, and you have already set your sights on her when she doesn’t know you, you can pretend to be acquaintance by chance through the same friends between you and her. , and then deepen the impression through a few more "accidental encounters" in the same study room, and then you can start. Don't think that this kind of girl is honest and will be safe once you catch her. In fact, it depends on the individual. Don't let her leave you for an extended period of time. If it doesn't happen, write letters and make phone calls frequently.

(4) Chasing lively and cute girls

This kind of girl seems to like a lot of people. And in a new environment, BoyFriend is often the first one. Not because they are easy to chase, but because they often have to be in the active position.

If you like this kind of girl, it will be very easy if she also likes you. If you have more contact with her, and occasionally express your affection for her, she will move closer to your goal at the same time as you. .

Don't be discouraged if she doesn't like you (or worse, she likes someone else). As long as you still have a chance, go for it (of course you don't have to if you are just average towards her). You can

exist as a friendship with her first, and strive to develop the same hobbies as her. During this period, your humor and open-mindedness are very important, so that she will still think of you on the way back. If the person she likes

is not interested in her, then you can take your time until she takes the initiative towards you more than she does that person.

At this time you can adopt obvious strategies to make her truly become your GirlFriend. If she and he like each other, and if you think she is worthy of your charge of stealing someone's love, you can still have a final blow before they

confess to each other. At this time, opportunity is very important.

You have to observe carefully, and when they have conflicts or misunderstandings, take advantage of the situation (it doesn’t seem too... haha), be the first to win, and victory may belong to them in the end. You! (Usually girls don’t have other ideas after wooing them

haha) This kind of girl may be liked by unsuspecting people after she has a boyfriend. You have to notify her in time "Please! She has Belong to me!", the result should be relatively optimistic.

(5) Chasing hysterical girls

The typical characteristic of this kind of girl is that she displays her emotions, cries when she wants to, and laughs when she wants to, which often makes people feel a little ridiculous. Oldfriend finds it strange that there are people chasing girls like this, but I heard that love is often blind. After oldfriend saw the emotional experiences of friends around him, he understood the meaning of this sentence better. A crazy girl is like a wild horse. If you feel you don't have enough ability to control it, then you don't have to think about chasing it, just choose another one. If you feel good about yourself, you can give it a try.

First of all, you have to create an impression on her that you are awesome (it doesn’t matter if it is T or F, haha), and let her admire you. Before pursuing you, you'd better summarize your expertise and design the time to show it so that she will look up to you without even realizing it. Once you have this good start, you can launch a full-scale attack. You don’t have to be slavish at all, just go out with her a few more times (you can choose a friend who is less handsome than you but not better to escort her, haha), show her your charm and her heart It will slowly move closer to you.

Don’t chase her right away, otherwise she will go as quickly as you come. You should try to catch her in the trap and let her fall into the trap. Your job is to create as many opportunities as possible to expose and display your own talents

. Wait until she is completely convinced by you, then slowly make it clear--oh, it turns out you like her too. Haha!

(6) Chasing girls who are older than you

It is a common problem in our school that girls you like are older than you. And it is a fine tradition of our school that girls are older than boys. For newcomers to the love scene, there is no need to panic when encountering this situation.

Just keep moving forward! However, in the process of pursuit, you must pay attention to the following points:

a: Don’t act like a little boy. Even truly mature women want to be pampered rather than pampered. When you encounter difficulties or problems, you must take the lead and don't ask her to protect you. Your own subjective judgment is very important. Don't act like everyone else in front of the girl you like.

b: "I am mentally older than you" should be your mantra when she has an idea. Let her feel that this is indeed more real than biological age.