Attitude is everything! Can you believe it?

I still remember when we were at school, we always heard the teacher say that attitude is everything.

The teacher emphasized this problem especially in class. Some schools even put this slogan on the wall, or made it into a banner and put it on campus.

So does attitude really decide everything?

Let's start with the conclusion. You think I want to criticize, but I want to say, yes, that's right. Attitude is everything.

When I was a child, I didn't feel anything about this sentence at school, and even thought it was just poisonous chicken soup at school.

It took me many years to understand.

Some things, maybe you don't understand now, but as long as you listen, maybe one day in the future, you will wake up in a panic, that's what it means.

Just like you recited ancient poems when you were a child, you may not know the meaning of these poems. But one day, after experiencing something, you will suddenly realize.

This is the meaning of poetry, which is enough. Many things are the same, such as "attitude".

Attitude really determines everything.

As usual, let me tell you a story first.

For a while, within two or three months, I didn't remember the dream at all, only bits and pieces.

Not remembering dreams is a big deal for me who study dreams.

At that time, I was in a beginner's state, and I also had a general grasp of dreams, so I could go out and interpret dreams independently.

At this time, I was in a hurry. I am in a hurry. I can't see my dreams. If I can't even see my dreams clearly, how can I explain them to others?

During that time, I was miserable, because without a dream, it was like without guidance, like losing something and grasping nothing.

The problem is attitude!

It was not until I came out of that painful experience that I realized that there was something wrong with my attitude.

During that time, because I learned a little fur, I seemed to feel that I knew a lot, and I clearly saw my dream. I almost dreamed of them, and I know what they mean.

At that time, I was thinking, I am so powerful that I know what it means in my dreams. That's amazing. I look down on dreams from the bottom of my heart and think that dreams are so much.

Bang, I fell, and I fell badly.

Later, everyone saw me, and my arrogance was severely resisted by my dreams. As a result, she didn't appear.

The reason lies in my attitude towards dreams. I thought I understood him, but in fact it was just a fool's ignorance.

The world of dreams is infinite.

Coincidentally, many dreamers came to me the other day and said, I don't remember dreams very much. I only remember a few words, otherwise there will be no traces of dreams for a long time.

I'm still wondering why this happened.

Later, I found that they and I had the same thing at that time, that is, their attitude towards dreams: if you hold, despise, despise or even think that dreams are useless, then dreams will naturally not appear, and naturally you will not remember them.

There is a basic attitude towards dreams, and that is: respect.

Only when you pay enough attention to dreams and take them seriously will dreams present you with a different world.

Your attitude towards the outside world is your attitude towards your own heart.

But is this just a dream you despise? What you despise is all aspects of life.

We all say that people who love to laugh are not too bad luck, and those who have gentle words are not too bad. Your attitude is not only reflected in your dreams, but also in your attitude towards everything around you.

Later, I learned that my contempt for my dreams comes from my contempt for myself, and it is my inferiority to look down on myself.

When I haven't finished healing myself, I despise not only dreams, but also everything around me.

Until this dream gave me a heavy blow.

Until I saw my own complex, until I knew that contempt was a kind of protection against inferiority.

Since then, my attitude has changed. Only at that moment did my dream come back. I embrace my dream as if I were my own child.

People who can't see themselves clearly are not suitable for helping others. An attitude towards the outside world is an attitude towards yourself.

The following are pure dry goods. Why? Attitude is everything.

What was particularly hot a while ago was the attitude towards money. Many big V people don't like our attitude of being ashamed to talk about money, so they write articles to criticize and discuss this matter.

Encourage us not to be ashamed to talk about money, but to talk about money bravely, so that you can earn money.

I'm impressed.

In other words, your attitude towards money depends on whether you can make money.

On the other hand, subconsciously you don't want to take so much money, so you won't make money.

At this time, someone will say, I really want to make money. Why do you still say that I have a problem with money?

Maybe you don't know yourself enough. When you have a belief that I don't deserve money, then you really can't make money.

How's it going? Isn't it amazing? Attitude is everything.

From a psychological point of view, this is a hint from the subconscious and a kind of self-hypnosis.

1. Some hints are shallow, just like suggesting that I don't like studying, and one day we will really hate studying.

2. Some hints are profound, such as suggesting that I am unloved, and we may fall into the whirlpool of feelings, love and hate, and cannot extricate ourselves. But you may not know, the most fundamental thing is that you are implying that you are unloved.

3. There is a deeper meaning, which Jung called the prototype level, for example, the meaning of life and death. Everyone has the greatest fear and threat in life, and that is the fear of death. This profound hint will make you afraid of all death. Everything we do is to save us from death. This hint is also something we can't change. It is born and has a very special significance to our life.

Let's go back to attitude. We say that attitude is a self-suggestion.

Attitude determines your view of a thing, and it is the truest view of a thing in your heart. Maybe we won't admit our attitude, just as I didn't admit that I was belittling my dreams, but the facts are irrefutable. I really despised dreams at that time.

The law of attraction is also an expression of attitude.

What kind of people you like and want to get close to, the more you respect them, and gradually you will get closer to them, and these people will be attracted to you accordingly.

After all, everyone likes to associate with people who like themselves.

Similarly, we have an attitude towards success, love and all aspects of life, which have formed our three views.

It can be said that life is made up of various attitudes, and attitudes determine everything.

Grasp your attitude towards time and everything, and you will grasp your life!

Finally, we have an ultimate attitude, which is our attitude towards ourselves. I said before what position you consider yourself, so what kind of person are you?

This is a reflection of self-attitude. Self-attitude determines what kind of person we will become, what kind of behavior we will make, and finally determines our life direction.

This attitude is a kind of belief. Strengthen a belief, an attitude and a life.

So, what's your attitude towards yourself?