Dragon Boat Festival, go to your mother's house first, or go to your husband's house first?

Go to my husband's house first. China puts men first, even if you don't agree with them, but others think so, you should respect each other's ideas, even if you don't agree with this concept. So in terms of etiquette, you should go to the man's house first, and then go back to your mother's house. This is to show respect for the man.

The principle of proximity, it is best to take turns to go. I will go to my husband's house this year and my mother's house next year. Go to your mother-in-law's house first. My mother wouldn't do that. If the mother-in-law really thinks too much, it is still the husband who is difficult to do.

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The custom of returning to one's mother's family during the Dragon Boat Festival:

You can go back to your parents' home during the Dragon Boat Festival, because married daughters often go back to their parents' home at the beginning of May in the lunar calendar, so the Dragon Boat Festival is also called Daughter's Day. Before and after the Dragon Boat Festival, the climate is pleasant, and the heat and cold are suitable.

Although mosquitoes are very disturbing in summer, they are still very suitable for traveling, playing and partying. You don't have to stay at home when you go back to your parents' house during the Dragon Boat Festival. You can also travel with your family, attend festivals and so on. We can get together to eat zongzi and watch TV at night. It was fun. You don't need to bring too many things home. You can choose some suitable gifts for your parents or bring some innovative fruits to share.