Did the drama "Golden Wedding" impress you?

"Half a century of holding hands, raising children, daily necessities, suffering and loving, loving and loving, and finally not regretting; Fifty years of unity, career and family ups and downs, hard work and laughter, ups and downs are consistent. " Recently, the emotional drama "Golden Marriage", which tells the story of an ordinary couple's 50-year marriage, is being broadcasted. This TV series is not as humorous as "Country Love" or as sensational as "Going East", but its ratings remain high and it has become a hot topic. Recently, he won the annual award of "Quality List" in China TV drama list in 2008.

Golden Marriage tells the family story of factory technician Tong Zhi and primary school teacher Wen Li from 1956 to 2005. Anyone who knows something about the history of China can fully imagine what kind of waves this marriage boat has been swinging in the past 50 years. The narrative style of "Chronological Style" is unique, with one episode a year and one event a year. The biggest feature of the story is that the husband and wife have quarreled for 50 years, and there are trivial things such as marriage and children, work, friendship, mother-in-law contradiction, crisis of trust, etc ... It is actually very lively. Joke aside, there has never been a major accident in 50 years. Its charm probably lies in the truth: a poster, a slogan, a dress and a scene all restore the scene at that time in detail. No matter how old the audience is, they can find their own familiar pictures from an episode, and see the past and future from this point. The so-called "Mainland Marriage Trilogy" and 1998 "Hand in Hand" discussed the problem of "the third party", while 2004 "Chinese Divorce" discussed the internal problems of marriage, while 2007 "Golden Marriage" quietly returned to warmth and harmony. 10 development road, after the hustle and bustle, the harmonious picture scroll is precious. What is marriage? Thousands of people have thousands of answers. But obviously, mortal marriage is not so sacred as stipulated by law and morality. Sometimes it's absurd, sometimes it's boring, sometimes it's even a farce, but most of the time it's normal. Jiang said that husband and wife are the closest enemies. But this pair of "enemies" have to accompany each other for a lifetime. How to get along? When people enter marriage, they should step out of the stage of romantic love attracted by both sexes and adapt to a bunch of more complicated relationships and deal with all kinds of unexpected contradictions. As the netizen said, "Marriage is like a beautiful and fragile vase with a bunch of gaudy and ordinary flowers in it." Marriage is not religious or sacred, but you need to have persistent passion and never regret it. "In the face of this difficult social role change, people are prone to depression and helplessness. In the more boring daily life, you need to adjust and change yourself with great courage and perseverance, tolerance, tolerance, and even the spirit of giving up and sacrificing, in order to cope with one life challenge after another. The most terrible thing is that challenges are not always accompanied by drums and thunder, and flags are flying. Sometimes they melt a hundred steel with their fingers in the same rhythm as warm swallowing water. In addition to the superficial meaning of "50 years", the glittering "golden wedding" also pointed out a goal and result from the complicated chaos, suggesting an attitude and spirit. Throughout the history of literature and art, all popular works have a strong flavor of the times, satisfying people's emotional needs. In other words, only by keeping up with the needs and spirit of the times can we move people's hearts, and only by conforming to the emotional characteristics of human beings can we spread it through the ages. In front of the benchmark of human nature and history, all glitz and seaweed are eclipsed. The beauty of the golden wedding is also here: it shows the differences in values between two couples and two generations. In Tong Zhi's generation, when faced with the temptation outside marriage, whether it is a big village or a dignified Tong Zhi, the ultimate choice is to keep the family. Since society has set a norm for itself, it is necessary to follow it and even take the initiative to cater to it. The children's generation, unfortunately married, resolutely divorced; Since you can't find a lover, you might as well love yourself. Tong Zhi's son is a "successful person", and he has countless girlfriends but has never thought about getting married. When Tong Zhi discussed the standard of happiness with him, his son said: You are too serious, too responsible and too responsible for others. I think you are not only unhappy, but also miserable! He also stressed that how can a person live happily? Just don't take too much responsibility for yourself. If I had to choose between a "painful philosopher" and a "happy pig", I would undoubtedly choose the latter. But Tong Zhi said: We have different standards for happiness, but one thing will not change. After all, people are inseparable from people and feelings. " Your mother and I quarreled for more than 40 years, quarreling, but we had a good time. If we are all like you, everything revolves around responsibility and pain. Isn't life a blank sheet of paper? It has no taste! People should have a spiritual home! "Obviously, young people choose to spoof, escape or deviate from the grand narrative, and pursue the publicity and liberation of individuality, while the older generation is either sad or happy in the gap between social consciousness and social thoughts, or consciously or unconsciously adheres to and bears the tradition.

The ending of "Golden Wedding" is that Tong Zhi and Wen Li bid farewell to their children after the golden wedding celebration, embraced each other with a calm smile and drifted away in the vast snowfield. This is an allegorical ending-when you are old, grow old together, doze off by the fire, look back and count your life, you will inevitably meet many passers-by of life again. But as Ye Zhi said, "How many people love your beauty when you were young, adore you's pretence or sincerity?" . Only one person loves your pilgrim soul and the painful wrinkles on your aging face. "