Family slogan of sister-in-law in Cixian County

As the saying goes: married women pour water. When there is no family, the daughter will always be the treasure of the family, but when the daughter marries someone, the family's attitude towards her will change, because everyone thinks that the daughter married someone and became someone else's family.

Sometimes, if a brother or younger brother at home also marries a wife, it will be even more difficult for a daughter to come to her mother's house for permanent residence!

Xiao Liu is a very filial daughter and is very kind to her parents. However, Xiao Liuyuan got married three years ago. After her long marriage, it is not so easy to go back to her parents' home at ordinary times.

I seldom go back to my parents' home because of the long journey and I can't let go of my work, so I will come to my parents' home for a few days every Spring Festival.

But Liu Faxian Jr., since he married someone else, his family is not very happy every time he goes home for the New Year. After marrying my sister-in-law.

Sister-in-law's attitude towards Xiao Liu is not very good either. This year, Liu Qu's parents celebrate the New Year. As a result, the eldest sister-in-law said: Everyone has been here for a year, so it is better to go back to his home for the New Year, and she also said a word to Xiao Liu.

The meaning expressed in the words is that Xiao Liu's New Year in her home will hinder her family from doing things, and she thinks that Xiao Liu's New Year in her home will cause trouble to her family. Sister-in-law's words mean that she still has a large family to take care of, and it is even more troublesome to raise a sister-in-law. The implication is that she doesn't want Xiao Liu to spend the New Year at her house.

After listening to these words, Xiao Liu felt very sad, because every year when he went home, Xiao Liu always bought a lot of things for his family and gave money to his sister-in-law, but her sister-in-law would still say such things.

And Xiao Liu's parents have been in poor health. During the Spring Festival, Liu Can Jr. has to take care of her parents. However, everyone at home doesn't seem to see Xiao Liu's kindness. What they saw was that Xiao Liu was in conflict with his family.

0 1 You don't have to go to your parents' house for the New Year.

Xiao Liu in the article is married, but she still goes to her family for the New Year every year. In fact, everyone said, the married daughter, the spilled water.

So in any case, Liu Ye Jr. should not go to her home for the New Year. There are people in the Liu family, and there are people in the Liu family. Everyone has a year. So after Xiao Liu Qu left her home, her family thought that Xiao Liu had disturbed her family for the New Year. The people in Xiao Liu's husband's family think that Xiao Liu's family's Spring Festival is a sign of disunity.

Therefore, it's better to stay in your own home for the New Year, build good relations with people in your own home, cultivate feelings, and don't go to other people's homes to make trouble.

Sister-in-law is also very selfish.

Everyone is selfish, especially a person who is not related to himself. The sister-in-law in this article is not related to Xiao Liu, so the sister-in-law is so harsh on Xiao Liu that she thinks that Xiao Liu will disturb herself from home during the New Year.

In fact, Xiao Liu should have thought of this long ago. Sometimes my sister-in-law goes to her house for the New Year, but she doesn't like it very much, because many sisters-in-law like to speak ill of her sister-in-law in front of her mother.

This led to the contradiction between sister-in-law and family members. Although Xiao Liu may not speak ill of her sister-in-law, some women are especially wary. Maybe Xiao Liu's sister-in-law is a more defensive woman.

Although it is a bit inappropriate for Xiao Liu Qu to pay a New Year call, my sister-in-law can't talk to Xiao Liu like this. Because after all, Xiao Liu is his relative, and the former people are also a part of this family.

Your kindness may not be seen by others.

When Xiao Liu Qu goes to her parents' house, she always buys a lot of things and gives red envelopes to her sister-in-law. Although in Xiao Liu's view, Xiao Liu Qu's family spent the Spring Festival to spend a warm year with her family, she also did a lot of things for them. However, in the eyes of some people in her family, Xiao Liu is here to make trouble for her family.

Therefore, not everyone will know your goodness. Xiao Liu Qujia thinks that reunion is good for others, but we should also consider what others think of us.

Sometimes it is inconvenient for someone at home. Although the married daughter used to be a member of her family, she has been married after all.

So Xiao Liuqu left her parents' home, and some people think it is inconvenient for a person to do anything. No matter how well Xiao Liu does, my sister-in-law will feel that others will always be others, and she is already married, so why bother her home?

Sometimes when a daughter goes back to her mother's house, she always feels that her brother and wife are not friendly to her. I also feel that I used to be a part of this family, but now I can't feel the warmth of home when I come back.

There may be a gap in your mind, but you should also see the situation clearly. If we are married, don't come to our parents' house for nothing. Maybe you mean well in your own eyes. You can visit your parents or spend time with your brother and sister-in-law, but it's not necessarily good for your brother and sister-in-law.

Sometimes my sister-in-law speaks seriously to herself, so don't be sad, because after all, her sister-in-law was married by someone else. So it has nothing to do with us. Even if you say something hurtful, don't care too much, as long as mom and dad are good to us.