There is a culture that says don't speak loudly in front of parents.

It's time for Chinese New Year again. Whenever Chinese New Year comes, I always think of some topics about family education to talk about. This year I suddenly thought of such a topic. Talk about it and share it with all the children.

Don't talk loudly in front of your parents. Do you need self-cultivation? Yes, it needs training, and it is long-term training and training. This is not a simple rule, but a profound understanding from the heart of children, so that they can truly reach a realm, even nirvana. Simple preaching has little effect, and it all falls on deaf ears. In my poor book Spirit of Castle Peak, I once wrote: Young people are argumentative. As they grow older, they will think that their elders are right!

Children, not speaking loudly in front of parents is not a harsh requirement, not to mention that you are not very filial. On the contrary, many times, it is you who love your parents more that make a hasty roar. However, you should know that your filial piety has been greatly reduced in the fierce clamor. Because parents will be cold and uneasy for a while, they will be anxious about your anxiety. At this time, if parents are not included, they will quarrel. This is not only useless, but also many uncoordinated families in the world may be caused by the strength of father and son. After a long time, the father and son will regard each other as passers-by, and their affection will be put aside. 50 boards each, both father and son are responsible. The sage said, you are not a loyal minister to foreign countries, and your father is not a virtuous son who ran away from home. It is for this reason that the fearless father abandoned the kindness and the fearless son forgot the filial piety. The great man said that things in the world are never urgent and time is pressing. Ten thousand years is too long to seize the day. But there are many mortals in the world, so we can only ask ourselves to adapt to the objective environment as much as possible and do a good job of self-cultivation. Deng Gong said that no argument, no argument is one of my great inventions. This is really a wise saying, and it is useless to argue. A foreign philosopher said: You can choose to calm down immediately, which has nothing to do with what others have done. Think twice before you act, and speak softly, which will immediately ease the atmosphere and make everything better.

In recent years, there are many articles about parents and children on the Internet. There is a topic "when to make parents cautious in front of their children", which makes me feel very harsh! As a father, I am deeply saddened by the poor parents in the world. How bitter it is to raise children all my life and often hear some accusations! Of course, even so, I still think it's not entirely the children's fault. Generally speaking, it is the bad atmosphere of the whole society. Even I am not perfect on some key livelihood issues. For example, as a doctor, I deeply love my patients. I think all the examinations in hospitals are free for all, so it is impossible for the state to take care of them! ? As an NPC representative said, medical care for people over 60 years old is free! It seems that those who disagree are justified. Is it a little compromise and a little symbolic self-sacrifice to solve people's concerns? This is a top priority. People are afraid of getting sick, and if they get sick, they will be completely finished, so I even naively think that if this one is solved, maybe there will be no selfishness! Why do you think people need more money?

It's a little far, but not far. Everyone can live and work in peace and contentment. This is a day of peace, joy, friendship and happiness. The improvement of happiness index is also a good way to get rid of many bad phenomena.

Not speaking loudly in front of parents is a kind of accomplishment, because it can bring many virtuous cycles, and you will become kind and amiable wherever you go. Let everyone be happy, a good mood will bring good efficiency, and all work will become vivid, perfect and successful!

Children, let's do it. You are all excellent, shine on you is better than Blue, and my hopes are pinned on you.