I 18 years old, but my father always comes in and out of my room, never knocking at the door, and never allows me to lock the door. I am disgusted, what should I do!

Communicate with your father, explain your views scientifically and reasonably, and try to influence your father's views.

This situation stems from the long-term lack of effective communication between children and parents, or from childhood, they often express their inner thoughts and dissatisfaction to their parents correctly. So that there will be a big generation gap in the future.

In life, as a student, there is inevitably a generation gap with parents. We may be alienated from our parents, or have our own privacy and are unwilling to share it with them. We should correctly handle the relationship with parents, understand each other and be good at communication.

You should communicate with your relatives at home. Some things you think you can know without your family, but most of them have to be expressed so that your family can know what you think. If you don't say a word for a long time, you will become more and more unfamiliar, and your relatives don't know what you think.

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In practice, "strengthening communication" is neither a master key nor a panacea, because communication is also divided into two different types: "positive communication" and "negative communication". Negative communication will only make things worse.

Only by effective communication can we increase our relationship in most cases and truly express and realize our thoughts and goals in time. Negative communication will be more destructive, and sometimes even make you feel deeper resentment. It's best not to communicate.

Communicate and speak appropriately, while maintaining each other's self-esteem. We all like to talk to people who are friendly and humorous. In addition to expression and attitude, the wording of a speech always makes people feel comfortable and will not feel offended.