What should I do if the leader arranges a blind date within the system?

It is common to be introduced to blind date by leaders within the system, but such enthusiasm is rare. However, since it has been introduced, there is no need to shirk it too much. When it's convenient, you don't have to bear too much psychological burden, and it's easy for you to make a job with the leader. What should I do if I have a good impression on each other when I meet you? Of course, although there is a high probability that it will end in failure, at least:

You accept the feelings of the leader, but in the end you or the other party feel inappropriate, learn to throw the pot, so the leader can't say anything ~

Speaking of leaders introducing blind dates, to be honest, I feel the same way and have experienced it several times, but I am not as enthusiastic as your leaders. I usually make a phone call and introduce you to a colleague's child. I will send you the basic information. You can send me your information, exchange business cards and so on.

Sometimes after exchanging photos and information, there is no following, successfully avoiding blind date; Sometimes, I will add a good friend to chat, and I will meet you when appropriate. If it doesn't fit, I won't speak or refuse. It will end in failure anyway, and everyone knows it. After all, the leader's kindness, even if he doesn't want to see it, must convince himself from the heart that he must give the leader a face, even if it is inappropriate, at least the blind date task has been successfully completed.

When you first joined the work, you can say that you are still full of resistance to blind date, but after one or two years of work, when all the students around you step into the marriage hall, you will also start to think about your lifelong events, and blind date can be said to be the most direct way to solve life events. Because after work, most of your circles will be relatively fixed. If it is within the system, there are not many boys. The only thing you think is not bad, most of them are married or have the other half. Even if the mother and fetus fly alone, at a certain age, there are some things to consider. Might as well: 1. Treat blind date correctly. It's normal to resist at first, just like a partner I met during the public examination training. She said that when the blind date started, she felt very embarrassed. Generally, she will add friends to chat first and think it is appropriate to meet. He died after the last meeting, or he didn't like each other, or he didn't like each other. Anyway, it's embarrassing. But slowly, after more blind dates, I gradually have some ideas about my other half, such as what kind of person I want to find, and the outline has begun to be clear ~ps. Frankly speaking, to improve the accuracy of blind date, the more conditions, the clearer it is, and it is easier to find the right partner than not asking for it. It is really an experience ~

When I often introduce people to others,

Me: Do you have any requirements? Such as height, education, work, family and so on? The other party: Just be reliable. Nothing else is needed. Me: Sorry, this situation is the most difficult to introduce.

On the contrary, once I introduced an object to a senior, and the criteria for choosing a spouse were very clear. Sure enough, it didn't take long to get off the list smoothly ... Therefore, blind date must have standards.

2.？ Position yourself reasonably. If you're not going to be single all your life, you really need to think about how to get rid of it. Especially in big cities, there are many single older women. Take our unit for example, several post-90s are "trying to find someone", but excellent boys are really hard to find. Some were too picky and finally rejected one; Have a plenty of aimless search, and finally met many, but didn't succeed ~ ~ In fact, before dating, you have a reasonable positioning of your comprehensive situation, and the requirements for the other half are almost matched with your own, in fact, the success rate will be higher ~ And often you have high requirements for mate selection, and your conditions are average, so it is basically difficult to succeed ~

3.？ It is essential to try to meet more often. When it comes to blind date, the most direct thing is to meet. Some people chat well online, but they are embarrassed when they meet, and then they are gone. In fact, the communication between people was better and more intuitive before ~

In a word, it's lucky to be arranged by the leader on a blind date, which at least shows that the leader cares about your life. Don't be very resistant, just make more friends, and don't have too much psychological pressure ~