Because of the bride price problem, my fiancee recently ignored me and strolled in buy buy every day. Dare you marry her?

Do you still love her? Did you sit down with her, have a cup of afternoon tea and have a good chat in a quiet atmosphere? Since you call her fiancee, it means that your love has gone through many ups and downs and is about to bear fruit. Since it is your fiancee's recent impulsive consumption, is she particularly stressed in the face of the upcoming marriage and releasing these pressures?

Ask yourself if you still love her, then read more books on psychology to understand the complex psychology of women in different periods. There is an anxiety called premarital phobia. Premarital phobia refers to the feeling of fear and anxiety when facing marriage or about to enter marriage, unable to adjust their role changes, and at a loss, resulting in many behaviors and languages that are contrary to usual.

Emotional fear of marriage and uncertainty about the other half will lead people with premarital phobia to escape their emotions. Fear and anxiety caused by escaping from marriage and the other half may be manifested as neglect of the other half, or easily provoked and quarreled with each other. Life is also uncertainty and fear of future life, which will show irritability, depression, tension, haggle over every ounce, or something that must be done to escape from life. At work, fear and anxiety will definitely have an impact on the work, which may be manifested as listlessness at work, imagining what may happen after marriage all day, and ignoring the work itself, which will seriously make it difficult to continue the work.

Fear is a normal feeling that everyone has. People will be afraid of many things all their lives, and so will pre-marital phobia. We should look at all this with an understanding eye, don't be too nervous and don't fight against pre-marital phobia. You can compare these pre-marital phobias with what I told you. If your fiancee already has a serious fear before marriage, and you think that cleaning and communication will be ineffective, then you must find a special psychological institution for consultation and help. Relieve the anxiety of your fiancee, and eventually you will have a perfect marriage. Don't give up easily. It's not easy to fall in love, but it's ok and I cherish it. Especially when you want to start a family, there will be a baby like you and her in the future. Think about the beautiful picture, so in my opinion, your fiancee ignored you for the time being and kept buying from buy buy, just to relieve the pressure and release the bad mood of fear before marriage. I believe you communicate well with her. Maybe she wants to give you an unexpected surprise. After all, she is a lover, and anything is possible. Analyze my words and solve them. You can do it.