Cute and fat slogan

Some people say: respecting others means respecting yourself;

Some people say that people who respect themselves will respect others;

Some people say that people who respect others respect others.

Please take "respect" as the topic, and choose your own style (except poetry), not less than 800 words.

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respect

Respect is a sincere smile on your face; Respect is listening when others express different opinions; Respect is praising the efforts of others. Respect seems to be dedicated only to the people around you.

We have all been educated in "Let pears be in Kong Rong" since childhood, and we all know that we should give our seats to the elderly on the bus, and we should not laugh at and satirize the disabled. At first glance, this theory sometimes seems unreasonable. Why do you eat small pears when you urinate in your old age? If I am already very tired, why should I give up my seat? Why can't you say what you think?

In fact, this is the real truth: respecting others means respecting yourself.

There is a proverb that says "Give me a peach and repay it with Qiong Yao", which means that when someone gives me a peach, I will repay it with Qiong Yao. The so-called reciprocity, in human society, you will get a reward for paying one point, no more, no less, and it will come true one day. This is the rule. Rules are equal to most people most of the time, so your respect and courtesy to others will leave a good impression on others, and then they will treat you like you.

There is no such counterexample, is there? How does a cynical and arrogant crazy boy win the sincere respect of others? At most, it attracts the curious eyes of the public with its own "rebellion" and "uniqueness".

Respect is a great wisdom, because you know it, so you are compassionate. It is not difficult to respect the similarities between others and yourself. The excitement of meeting a confidant is enough to cover up the light of "respect". It is difficult to respect the differences between others and yourself. You think smoking is harmful to health and pollutes the environment, but he thinks it is an adjustment. He said that life should be positive, enterprising, fresh and strong, and you just want to spend your life quietly, calmly and comfortably. Everyone is different, and there are more than thousands of differences. Respect is to look at each other from an objective perspective with appreciation, not to ask for the same, but to face up to differences.

Therefore, people who know how to respect others have realized the great wisdom of life. Therefore, elegant posture and calm behavior are due to having enough self-confidence to support yourself and enough tolerance to look at others. Therefore, it will be respected by others, because its noble and peaceful atmosphere is really attractive.

Respect can make people feel happy and breathe smoothly. Respect can change strange or sharp relationships. If we respect each other enough, war is not inevitable.

The ancients said that those who love others will always love others, and those who value others will always value others.

Respect is not just for others.

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Know how to respect

No one does not want to be respected by others, but not everyone knows how to respect others. As we all know, only by knowing how to respect others can we win their respect.

A successful woman who became a manager told her story like this: A few years ago, she was only a temporary worker in an enterprise with a low salary, but her son asked for a football to play with her friends. The mother took great pains to explain to her son the difficulty of her lack of money. Soon her boss knew about it, gave her mother a brand-new football and said to her, "Although we can't give you a higher salary, you can understand that your position in our mind is very important." The woman was moved by this respectful remark. From then on, she devoted all her intelligence to this enterprise and finally became a manager.

Yes, any successful entrepreneur, from Kōnosuke Matsushita to Zhang Ruimin, always regards respecting employees and subordinates as the foundation of his career. They know very well that the subordinates will give the boss as much respect as the boss gives the subordinates. The same principle applies not only to running a business, but also to everything that everyone interacts with. If you show respect to others, others will think that he has a place in your heart and he is very important to you. In this case, except for a few despicable people, who is not grateful for this and does not regard him as a trustworthy friend? Parents respect their children's choices, and children can understand their parents' hard work; Students respect the teacher's work, and the teacher will sincerely teach all the knowledge to the students; Merchants respect consumers' picky, and consumers have real trust in merchants. Respect others, and gain a lot.

Some people don't know how to respect others and take what others do for themselves for granted. For these people, perhaps only when they lose the respect of others will they know how to respect the value of others. Last year, a municipal government department in the south made a decision: all sanitation workers have a two-day holiday. As a result, the usually clean appearance of the city has disappeared, and piles of rubbish are everywhere. Two days later, the amount of littering by citizens decreased significantly. They all said that they didn't respect the hard work of sanitation workers at ordinary times, but now they finally know the value of respect. Yes, if you don't know how to respect others, you can't win their respect, and finally you can't move.

When we pay the taxi fare, say thank you more; Give us a little more applause when we finish listening to the performance; When the hotel doorman opens the door for us, smile more … learn to respect it! When each of us knows how to respect others, our life will be more harmonious.

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Wende Cooney

Spring is just right. Birds and flowers are singing in God's garden. God looked down at his people from the air and couldn't help thinking, "Why not give these people some gifts to show the grace of my God?"

Soon, God chose three people from the world: one is a beggar who is homeless and begging on the roadside, the other is a disabled person who has been in bed since childhood, and the last one is President Bush who is in the White House.

The three men were called before God, and God said, "I, the merciful God, will give each of you a gift so that you can be respected by mortals ... Well, it's up to you to choose the gift! Say what you want most. " God pointed to the beggar in rags.

Beggars haven't figured out what's going on yet, but a sentence has subconsciously escaped from their mouths: "Money … a lot of money!" " "God immediately satisfied his wish. God looked at the millionaire's back in the clouds and soon merged into luxury, surrounded by a group of flattering clowns. The drugs paid by the children quickly dispersed his rich family wealth, and the children were scattered like birds and animals. The scrawny beggar squatted on the edge of the original "field" begging, muttering that the gift of God had no effect. God shook his head helplessly. "Alas, sincere respect is better than gold, where there is money to buy. "

God secretly expects the next person to choose a good gift for himself. "It's your turn!" "God looked up and saw the weak and the disabled. The disabled quickly said, "I have been disabled since I was a child. Look at my ghost, people around me treat me like a different kind! "I want a sound body!" God was filled with joy, and with a wave of his hand, the disabled ran into the crowd happily. He finally held his head high, relying on his strength and strength, he rampaged and bossed around and dominated the country. As a result, he was thrown to the ground by the angry crowd and wanted to declare death ... The merciful God gave him another chance. The disabled man pondered for a long time, exchanged his sound body for unparalleled perseverance and disappeared into the crowd. ...

At this time, Bush was impatient and patted his ass to go back. God quickly asked, "Don't you have anything you want?" Bush disdainfully said: "I am the captain of the United States, the sheriff of the world, and the hero in the eyes of the world." Will anyone still disrespect me? " I don't want anything! ""Then you can take one as a souvenir. " God pointed to a pile of boxes in front of him. Bush picked up a box and wrote "in memory of the Iraqi people", with a trace of pride on his face. As soon as Bush opened it, he saw a group of people condemning himself. His ears were full of curses: "Give it back to my relatives! "Give it back to my country!" He was overwhelmed by this avalanche of anger. He was unstable and fell into the clouds.

God was about to take a closer look when he saw the disabled praying to him from a distance. The disabled person said that he no longer despised himself and doubted himself. He used his tenacious and hard medical skills to relieve the suffering of countless people, and he also won the respect of countless people. The disabled person said, "I should thank God. With perseverance, I learned to live sincerely: love myself and love others. " . Because of self-esteem, I am self-reliant, because I love, I am loved. Now, I want to share the dignity of life and the vastness of love with you. "

God smiled knowingly.

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Talk about respect

The Book of Songs says, "Give me papaya, and I will reward Joan." This exchange of courtesy since ancient times reflects the due respect between people.

Of course, respect not only refers to gifts, but also a word, a look and an action can reflect our respect for others. It should be said that mutual respect is the basis of normal communication between people and one of the basic qualities that people should possess. Regardless of age, status and wealth, everyone has the right to be respected. Doesn't the beggar who would rather die than eat food from scratch show how important respect is to a person? The same story happened in different times and produced different results, because people gave different respect. There was an old beggar begging from a middle-aged man. The middle-aged man searched all over his body, but found no change. He held the old beggar's hand guiltily and said, "Brother, I really don't have any extra money. Sorry. " At this moment, tears have blurred the old beggar's eyes. From these clenched hands and friendly names, he felt unprecedented understanding and respect. Everyone is the same. Don't look at things with power. We should always remember that respecting others is a virtue.

Just like the interaction of forces in mechanics, respect is mutual. Respecting others means respecting yourself, and your words and deeds are the embodiment of your connotation. When you treat others with due respect, your good quality and image will be displayed in front of people, and others will certainly give you the same respect, which is particularly important at work. As a boss, the best way to keep employees is to treat employees equally except for salary increase and give your employees due respect, so that they will not feel pressure when working in your company and can work with peace of mind. Didn't Liu Bang almost lose this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity because of his insolence to Han Xin? On the contrary, Liu Bei's visit to the humble abode and worship of Zhuge Liang earned Zhuge Liang's lifelong efforts to revive the Han Dynasty, leaving a good word of "he died before he conquered". Liu Bei's ability as a good corporal is admired by the world. It can be seen how important respect is for a person and even a country.

Respecting others and being kind to others is the foundation of your foothold in society. Respect is mutual. Only when you respect others will others respect you.

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How to gain the respect of others

In life, except a few lonely or eccentric people, everyone expects to be recognized by others. And a higher level of recognition is respect. It is a wonderful process from obscurity to everyone's respect. Some people have tried their best, but they can't get it. Some people will inadvertently gain the respect of others. In fact, respect is not unattainable, but some people pursue respect in the wrong way.

The other day, I heard an advertisement made by a Japanese company for its new car. One sentence impressed me deeply, "You should respect bullying." I think this kind of car has strong horsepower and superior performance, and can cross the road. Other cars are avoiding it, so there will be such a slogan. It seems that there are not a few such people in the real society. Either you have a high position and are superior to others, or you rely on many buddies and friends to run amok. Seeing that people are afraid, shrinking and afraid to speak out, these people become complacent and think they are respected. In fact, they are the people that people hate most, and they can't be recognized by people. Have you noticed that once the "overbearing" car broke down and stopped at the roadside, the overbearing person was investigated by the public security and even imprisoned, and everyone around him was very happy. People who want to gain respect in this way will eventually be spurned by people.

Besides, there seems to be another kind of person among us. They are full of smiles every day, flattering everyone, and sometimes even grandstanding. Or punch your face and pretend to be fat, as if you know everything and have everything to do with it, and you always like to show off everywhere.

However, their evaluation in the crowd does not seem to be high.

Just like the "arrogant" people in front of them, they misinterpreted the original meaning of respect.

What people really respect is a man with real talent and learning. Only when people think that you are really good at something, better than them and better than them, will they respect you. The range that people can respect is varied. We respect the cobbler because of his exquisite skills, warm service attitude and helpful spirit. We respect a scholar because of his profound knowledge, excellent eloquence and even excellent communication skills. Respected and powerful officials, polite and hospitable students and well-informed travelers abound. As long as you don't show off your advantages or even bully others, you just face yourself with a normal heart and do what an ordinary person should do. Then it won't be long before you feel the respectful eyes of everyone around you.

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Respectful article

China is a country of etiquette, with thousands of years of cultural accumulation. "Respect" naturally has a lot of attention. Father and brother master, right respect, top respect. When you invite people to dinner, you will also pay attention to your position, and your priorities are clear. Even those who are respected when walking should walk in front, and those behind will bow and scrape. There are too many customs of "respect".

Everything pays attention to the principle of moderation, and once it passes, it is difficult to accept it. The same is true of "respect". Although thousands of years of customs in China pay attention to politeness and respect, they may go too far and distort the original intention of respect. There is such a thing that a person was promoted to assistant mayor, and everyone respected him and called him mayor. This person is uncomfortable to use, but it is not easy to refute other people's faces. Let's just say that. It's also difficult for people. Every time they go out to do business, a large group of people take the bus, and you have to push me to let me. These are all your invitations. This is very polite, and it is a waste of time. Of course, in the end, the honour person comes first. It seems that China people express their respect for others through these two words-politeness. Politeness is expressed through words and actions. What about the heart? Is it true respect? We don't know.

Many times, the superficial respect is made, but in fact, the heart is burning with jealousy. It is not difficult to understand those people who fall when they are down. They are covered in honey and swords. People use respect to make masks to paralyze others, so they laugh behind masks, stab people in the back and plot against others. So the unit is always divided into several factions, everyone has a small plan, and the leaders often change (anonymous letters), and it doesn't matter. The unit is stagnant, unable to produce, and getting worse, but it is still friendly on the surface. In this way, in a few days, they all became laid-off workers. Some people can say that they have perfected this practice of respecting you as a guest of honor and scolding you behind your back, but what's the use of this practice? Who benefits and who suffers? A clear-headed person can tell at a glance.

Regarding respect, I just want to say don't always make a fuss on the surface. Many people in China give foreigners the first impression of hospitality. Can get along for a long time, many foreigners will send out the idea that China people are not very good. What happened? It's just that things are not what they seem. Respect, China people have done a lot on the surface, but what about inside? It should also be unified!

Respect, don't be satisfied with calling the teacher hello every day, say "please" every time you do something, and don't look for plastic bags every time you praise others. Sincerely understand others, see the advantages of others, especially respect the ordinary people around them from the heart, because they have their own greatness and deserve respect.

Please sincerely respect everyone around you!