Common sense, civility and courtesy

1. Being civilized and polite is the starting point of being a human being.

Being civilized and polite is the starting point of being a human being.

Everyone comes into the world and learns to be a good person starting from being civilized and polite. When children are babbling, parents first teach them civility and politeness. When they enter school, teachers teach them civility and politeness. When they enter society, people are required to be civilized and polite everywhere.

Being civilized and polite not only brings happiness and harmony to others and society, but also creates a loving environment, bringing happiness and warmth to oneself. In modern social life, as our country strides toward the world, civility and courtesy have become an integral part of the investment environment and national image.

A city full of civility and courtesy can bring people happiness and confidence. In a city without civility and courtesy, no matter how good the facilities are, it will never be orderly and pleasing to the eye.

Civility and courtesy not only reflect personal image, city image, and citizen quality, but also reflect the degree of civilization of society to a certain extent. This point has become more and more common knowledge among everyone.

Being civilized and polite requires extensive and lasting education. Social education, school education, family education and self-education should become an organically integrated system to strengthen people's consciousness of being civilized and polite, and their awareness of public morality, cultivate and improve the moral personality of citizens, and form a system that can be used in families, schools, work units, and society. All can consciously and voluntarily practice civilized and polite habits.

Being civilized and polite requires conscious action. Some people are worried when talking about the phenomenon of being uncivilized and impolite, but they still remain uncivilized and polite when it is their turn.

To change this situation, everyone needs to start with words and deeds, not just words but no actions. Schools should start with teachers and set examples for students.

The family should start with the adults, setting an example for the children, and the children should also supervise the adults. Parents should not just focus on their children's academic performance, but also pay attention to civilized and polite education and their children's moral cultivation.

Adults especially need to set an example for their children. To be civilized and polite, management needs to be strengthened.

Being civilized and polite depends on both consciousness and rules. Perfect social management is the guarantee for the whole society to be civilized and polite.

Both leaders and people, adults and children, should abide by the rules. Rules cannot be flexible, special or exceptional.

Only by comprehensively using education, law, administration, public opinion and other means to form a strict supervision mechanism can "being civilized and polite" become a good habit for everyone and a new trend in the entire society.

2. Speak politely and be a civilized person

Knowledge of civility and courtesy (1) Daily civility and courtesy 1. As a child, when you get up early every morning and come home from school or get off work, meet for the first time When visiting your parents and elders, develop a good habit of greeting them by name. Say hello when you go out and let your elders know where you are going.

2. When guests come to your home, or you go to someone else's home, you should also greet relatives, friends or other guests who are older than you. 3. When making requests to strangers on the road, you should call them according to their gender and age: old man, old uncle, grandma, aunt, aunt or uncle, uncle, aunt, comrade, etc., and then say: "Excuse me. ..." If you meet a child, you can call: "Children, classmates, etc." Do not use "hey" as a title, and do not use a commanding tone.

4. When you encounter many people when getting on the bus or going shopping on the street, you should take the initiative to queue up and avoid crowding. 5. When meeting the elderly, weak, sick, disabled, pregnant women, or women with children on a public vehicle, you must take the initiative to give up your seat.

6. If you meet others who have difficulties on the road, take the initiative to help solve them. 7. When the elders are talking, children should develop the habit from an early age not to interrupt casually or ask questions.

8. Pay attention to hygiene, do not spit, and do not litter with paper scraps or peels. Develop good hygiene habits.

9. Do not comment loudly, make noises, or smoke while watching plays, movies, watching TV, or holding group activities. (2) Hospitality: 1. When guests knock on the door, they should answer: "Please come in" or go to the door to greet them.

When knocking on the door to a guest you do not know, you should ask before opening the door. 2. You should stand up to greet guests when they come in. Your home should be kept clean and tidy, and the windows should be clear and clean.

If an uninvited guest comes and the house is too late to tidy up and looks messy, you should tidy it up as much as possible and apologize to the guest. 3. Tea must be served with both hands and placed on the right side of the guest.

If it is very hot in summer, give a fan or turn on an electric fan or air conditioner. 4. When guests are about to eat or are eating, you should warmly invite the guests to dine with you. After the guests have finished eating, they should give hot towels or napkins and replace them with hot tea.

5. When accepting gifts from guests, you should thank them. 6. When introducing each other to the host or guest, the name must be stated clearly word for word, and the younger person must be introduced to the older person first.

7. If you happen to be in an emergency and cannot accompany the guests when they arrive, you should first say hello, apologize, and arrange for family members to accompany you, and then go about your own business. 8. Guests should insist on going back and do not force them to stay.

9. When seeing off guests, you should go outside the gate and walk behind the elderly. 10. When saying goodbye, you should say "goodbye" or "walk slowly".

(3) Being a Guest 1. When entering a room, you should knock on the door first. Do not break in without asking. Do not sit down without asking. Rain gear and other items should be left outside or at the place designated by the host. . 2. If the master has something to do, leave immediately.

3. If you haven’t seen the owner, you can leave a note. 4. When old guests leave, new guests should stand up to see them off.

5. The visit time should be chosen when it is convenient for the owner. 6. Don’t play with precious things in the room without the owner’s permission.

7. Pay attention to posture when sitting, and pay attention to appropriateness and naturalness. If you sit upright and don't dare to move, it will be restrained and the owner will be embarrassed; if you sit with no posture and your legs are crossed and shaking, it will look presumptuous and the owner will be embarrassed. Women in summer should not spread their legs when wearing skirts.

8. When you are a guest, you should not remain silent, pay no attention to the time, watch, or look upset. 9. It is not advisable to sit for a long time during the first visit.

If you are not a close friend, don’t stay too long in other people’s homes. You should control your time according to the situation so as not to affect others. 10. When visiting patients, you should pay attention to silence, the conversation time should not be too long, and you should respect the opinions of medical staff.

11. If relatives, friends, colleagues, classmates, teachers, etc. are sick, they should visit them, but it is not advisable to have long conversations. 12. People who do not know each other should not visit rashly.

13. After saying goodbye, you should stand up immediately. (4) Shaking hands with others 1. You must use your right hand to shake hands.

2. The force used when shaking hands should vary from person to person. It is not advisable to shake hands with someone you are unfamiliar with when meeting for the first time; if both parties are familiar, acquainted, and want to meet by chance, you can use appropriate force and extend the handshake time. For example, shaking hands between a man and a woman, regardless of whether they are familiar or not, It is not advisable to use too much force or for too long.

3. Pay attention to the occasion and propriety when shaking hands. 4. When shaking hands between men and women, under normal circumstances, the woman should extend her hand first and then shake hands.

5. When shaking hands with foreign guests, you should take into account the other party's customs and habits, and be warm, friendly, generous, and neither humble nor overbearing. 6. Be careful not to shake hands with others while wearing gloves.

(5) Talking with others 1. When talking, you should avoid verbal expressions, pay attention to civilized conversation, and elegant wording. 2. Don’t interrupt the other person’s conversation, and don’t interrupt easily when others are talking.

3. When talking to others, do not yawn, scratch or pick your ears, scratch your head, move your knees, or shake your head. 4. Don’t be indifferent when speaking to others.

Such as squinting, reading books, newspapers, etc. 5. When speaking to yourself, face the person you are talking to and do not brag or talk nonsense.

6. Don’t rush to ask strangers about their salary and income, and don’t rush to ask a young woman her age and address. 7. Smoking while talking, do not rub fire or spit smoke at others.

8. When coughing or sneezing, turn your head away or cover it with toilet paper or handkerchief. 9. It is not advisable to talk too much when visiting a busy person.

10. When you meet elders on the road, whether teachers or relatives, you should take the initiative to greet and greet them. (6) Communication 1. Do not use red ink or red pen to write letters, which means breaking up the relationship; do not use pencil to write letters, because the other party will think that you disrespect him and despise him.

2. When others are reading or reading a letter, they should not lean in to listen or read, nor should they ask "Whose letter is it from?"

3. Be polite

Hello.

This has something to do with our country’s education system.

At present, our education only teaches you how to make a living. There is no "preaching". The "Tao" here is not the "Tao" of Taoism, but the "Tao" of life. Today's "teachers", I think, can only be regarded as "craftsmen", because these craftsmen themselves do not have noble teaching skills. Han Yu said in "Teacher's Theory": "The ancient scholars must have a teacher. The teacher is the one who preaches the Tao, receives karma and resolves doubts." If the teacher does not preach the Tao, how can those who hear the Tao come to "Tao".

I often see "disciple rules" posted in the streets and alleys, and several officials are familiar with these "rules".

What a pity. A country with five thousand years of ancient civilization, where will the civilization go? Whose fault. Students or common people?

4. An essay about "being civilized, polite, honest and trustworthy"

If you lose today, you are not considered a failure, because you will come again tomorrow.

If you lose money, you are not a failure, because the value of life is not in the wallet.

If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a human being.

Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are, firstly, to pursue personal moral perfection, and secondly, to safeguard public interests and public order.

Speaking of civilized etiquette, I thought of a story. Once, Comrade Lenin was going downstairs. In the narrow aisle of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. When the female worker saw it was Lenin, she stepped back to make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "It doesn't have to be like this. You have already walked halfway with your things, and I am empty-handed now. Please go over first!" He said the word "please" very loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and asked the female worker to go upstairs before he went downstairs. Isn't this also a reflection of good civilized etiquette?

I don’t want to give too many examples of great people here, because this can easily lead to an illusion: thinking that civilization and etiquette are only possessed by great people and celebrities, then we will not need to pay more or less attention to ourselves. Feel guilty for uncivilized words and deeds; or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, you will not become a great person or celebrity. Not only do we need moral big shots, we also need a group of moral people.

The level of civility and civilization in a society can reflect the level of civilization in a society and a country. If a person does not abide by social civilization, it will affect his own image in a small way and the reputation of the country in a big way. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang was on a mission to Russia. In a public place, his bad habit broke out and he spat everywhere. He was exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign reporters, which embarrassed the Chinese people. This is a historical lesson about not abiding by social civilization.

Public civilization is a manifestation of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Just imagine, if someone doesn't pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good public civilization? Won't! Personal civilization and etiquette are the root and foundation. If people want to have a good public civilization, they must start with themselves and around them. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to compete in the world, its first priority is to establish people. After people are established, everything will be done." "Erecting people" means to improve people's thoughts and civilization. Human civilization is not related to It is something you are born with, but it is something you have to continuously improve upon. To improve personal cultivation, you must first devote yourself to studying and improve your cognitive level; when your cognition reaches a certain level, you will have the ability to distinguish right from wrong; when you have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, you must correct your own mentality and not violate With your own conscience, strive to make everything you say and do conform to moral standards, and your self-cultivation will be perfected. This is what the ancients said: investigation of things, knowledge, sincerity, correct mind, and self-cultivation. Improving personal moral cultivation will have the basis for promoting social fairness and civilization.

The civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great impact on its people. Why do you say this? I believe some students have experienced it personally after having been to Europe or Japan. Don’t talk about big things, just look at small things like crossing the road. As long as the red light is on, even if there is no car on the road, foreigners will never cross the road. They think this is a fair and civilized code that must be observed. Let me ask, in such an atmosphere, who would run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But think about it again, if we don’t start from ourselves, where will this social atmosphere come from?

A reporter asked a Nobel Prize-winning scientist, "Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in life?" "In kindergarten.

There, I learned things that will benefit me throughout my life, such as sharing good things with friends, being modest, and washing hands before eating..." The same is true for us to improve our own civilized cultivation. We don't necessarily have to take any great measures. , but we should start with small things like eating and washing hands around us, so that the concept of civilization can enter from the conscious level to the unconscious level, so that civilization can penetrate our every move.

We accept civilized etiquette from an early age. Many students can talk endlessly about civility and etiquette, but seeing the lunch boxes and drink bottles discarded everywhere on campus, and listening to the swear words uttered by some students, how can we not feel sad? "A giant of language, a dwarf of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar of the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowledge is the idea of ??action, action is the effort of knowledge; knowledge is the beginning of action, action is the completion of knowledge; knowledge and action are one entity and one effort." Knowing but not doing is just unknown. "We accept the education of civilized etiquette, but we are reluctant to perform it, or even do the opposite. What is the difference between this and never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must start from this "unity of knowledge and action" If we work hard and work hard on our own words and deeds, we must say goodbye to uncivilized behavior.

We don’t have to complain about the low level of civilization in this society; we don’t have to blame ourselves for being too weak and having an impact on society. Not big. Just think about it, isn’t there very little yeast in the bread? However, doesn’t this little bit of yeast alone make the bread rise? Play a due role in this society

Students, let us take action, "new century, new era, new country, new civilization". Don't let civilization disappear, don't let civilization appear only on paper. , let it be active among us, let civilization be everywhere, let us be the masters of civilization, and let "civilization walk with me"

5. Speech on the theme of "Being civilized and understanding etiquette"< /p>

Speech under the National Flag

-----Civilized etiquette accompanies me

Dear teachers and dear students, good morning:

I am very happy that we are together again on this beautiful morning! First of all, I want to share with you a true story I saw last weekend: a mother was riding a bicycle with her young daughter. The child accidentally dropped the biscuit in his hand. The mother immediately stopped the car and said softly to her daughter: "Come on, let's throw it into the trash can." Then she picked up the child and bent down to go together. This ordinary scene of picking up broken biscuits on the ground reminds people of a saying: "Quality is a habit. "Think about it carefully, don't you? No matter how civilized this mother or her future children are, the answer is already in this detail. So, today I want to say to you: Civilized etiquette must start with ourselves. .

Etiquette is a kind of cultivation, a kind of temperament, a kind of civilization, and a passport for interpersonal communication. Students who develop good civilized etiquette habits will benefit them throughout their lives.

Teachers: You should be a good student at school. Be respectful and honest with your teachers and classmates; follow disciplines in class, follow rules in class and activities; be polite and civilized in speech, behave appropriately, and dress neatly and solemnly at home. , you should be a good child. Love to work and make your parents happy; know how to be thrifty and make your parents happy; seek progress and make your parents feel at ease; be filial and make your parents happy. In society, you should be a good citizen. The place is ethical and image-oriented; interpersonal interactions are tolerant and courteous; the neighborhood is clean, orderly and caring.

Since the beginning of this semester, we have felt the beauty and cleanliness of the campus. Every detail shines with the brilliance of civilization. The students’ civilized behavior and clean and healthy appearance create a good, orderly and harmonious learning environment. Of course, we cannot ignore and condone what is happening around us. Some uncivilized behaviors, such as spitting and littering; chasing and making loud noises in the corridors of the teaching building; some students swear and swear to each other, and some even deliberately damage the school's public property. ; Some students wear jewelry and dye their hair, and male students have long hair; they do not follow classroom disciplines in class, and some even eat in class...

These bad habits have damaged the image of the school, lowered their own quality, and drifted away from civilization!

Students, you are not only the creators of campus civilization, but also the beneficiaries of campus civilization. The construction of campus civilization is a project and a career; it is also a culture and a spirit. Start now! Let civilized etiquette no longer be a pure idea, but the conscious words and deeds of every student! Let civilized etiquette no longer be an externally imposed constraint, but a kind of self-internalized happiness! Let us join hands and work hard to build a civilized and harmonious campus, so that civilized etiquette will always be with us.

6. Tell people polite stories

Tell polite stories

My mother often tells me interesting stories about her childhood, and I like to listen to them.

There was something that particularly impressed my mother when she was a child before liberation. I still remember the plot clearly, and I haven’t even forgotten what I said. My mother was seven years old at the time and her sister was nine. The two went to grandma's house to spend the summer vacation. When I was driving home after my summer vacation, I took the wrong bus. When I arrived at the station, I found that I was even further away from home. After getting out of the car, the two of them did not panic, but tried to find ways to ask strangers on the roadside. When I first got off the car and didn't know where to go, I found an uncle and asked, "Excuse me, uncle, where is this place?" The uncle said kindly, "This is Hupu." "Is Hupu far from Bixi? The uncle replied: "Well, it's not too far. Little girl, why are you two alone?" "Uncle, we took the wrong bus. We were originally going to Bixi, but we arrived at Hupu. Uncle, can you show us which way to get to Bixi? Thank you!" The uncle wrote, "What a polite little girl!" So, the uncle took you. The two of them walked to a main road and said: "Little girl, you two keep walking along this road and you will get there. If you have any questions, please ask other uncles and aunts." "Thank you very much, uncle, Then we will go along this road." Along the way, they asked a few more kind uncles and aunts. At dusk, they finally saw the familiar house and jumped home.

Whenever my mother thinks of this incident, she will always say meaningfully: "That time he brought us home with courtesy."

7. High School Composition on Dealing with People Be polite

Being civilized and polite is the starting point of being a good person. When everyone comes into the world, learning to be a good person starts with being civilized and polite. When children are babbling, parents first teach them civility and politeness. When they enter school, teachers teach them civility and politeness. When they enter society, people are required to be civilized and polite everywhere. Being civilized and polite not only brings happiness and harmony to others and society, but also creates a loving environment, brings happiness and warmth to oneself. In modern social life, as our country strides toward the world, civility and courtesy have become an integral part of the investment environment and national image.

A city full of civility and courtesy can bring people happiness and confidence. In a city without civility and courtesy, no matter how good the facilities are, it will never be orderly and pleasing to the eye. Civilization and courtesy not only reflect personal image, city image, and citizen quality, but also reflect the degree of civilization of society to a certain extent. This point has become more and more common knowledge among everyone.

Being civilized and polite requires extensive and lasting education. Social education, school education, family education and self-education should become an organically integrated system to strengthen people's consciousness of being civilized and polite, and their awareness of public ethics, cultivate and improve the moral personality of citizens, and form a system that can be used in families, schools, work units, and society. All can consciously and voluntarily practice civilized and polite habits.

Being civilized and polite requires conscious action. Some people are worried when talking about the phenomenon of being uncivilized and impolite, but they are still uncivilized and polite when it is their turn. To change this situation, everyone needs to start with words and deeds, not just words but no actions. Schools should start with teachers and set examples for students. Families should start with the adults, setting an example for the children, and the children should also supervise the adults. Parents should not just focus on their children's academic performance, but also pay attention to civilized and polite education and their children's moral cultivation. Adults especially need to set an example for children.

To be civilized and polite, management needs to be strengthened. Being civilized and polite depends on both consciousness and rules. Perfect social management is the guarantee for the whole society to be civilized and polite. Both leaders and the masses, adults and children, should abide by the rules. Rules cannot be flexible, special or exceptional.

Only by comprehensively using education, law, administration, public opinion and other means to form a strict supervision mechanism can "being civilized and polite" become a good habit for everyone and a new trend in the entire society.

8. How to be a civilized and polite middle school student

Whether you are a middle school student, an elementary school student, or a college student, being civilized and polite is the same for everyone.

I believe that a person must first be sincere. If he is not sincere and falsely polite, he will not be recognized by others;

In addition, a person must be honest and do not tell lies. To cheat, you must "act with conscience" even behind the scenes;

When it comes to politeness, it can be trained. For example, when talking to someone, you should look at the other person's eyes, and don't look wandering.

If you can't look at the other person's eyes, just look at the nose or mouth, haha!

The handshake must have appropriate strength and time, which can also be practiced;

Also, when greeting and speaking to people, call the other person's name more often, such as, thank you, Mother!

Goodbye, Teacher Chen! You draw so well, Xiao Li! Don’t begrudge what you call people!

Politeness is superficial, but it reflects a person's inner world.

There are many other aspects of speaking habits and body language that can also indicate the quality of this person.

For example, if you want to see what others have in their hands, you have to ask first. Wang Qiang, can you show me this?

Don’t grab it first (this is something Chinese people are particularly used to doing)!

Be humble, tolerant, kind, friendly, studious and diligent. .

There are many, many things that can be trained, too many to count at once. Let’s talk next time.

Anyway, I think it’s a great question you asked! Think about it and live it!

9. Information about being civilized and polite

Slogan, I hope it will be helpful to you

1. Be civilized, establish new trends, start with me< /p>

2. Abide by laws and regulations, abide by norms, and consciously maintain public order

3. Strive to be a civilized and sensible tourist, and set an example of "creating new trends and improving quality"!

4. Eliminate dirt and chaos in urban and rural areas and create a new civilization in urban and rural areas.

5. Actively participate in the governance of the "three chaos" and promote the sound and rapid development of the city's tourism.

6. It depends on you, me, and him to deal with dirty, messy, and poor things.

7. Comply with the "Ten Don'ts" code of conduct and strive to be a civilized citizen

8. Volunteer service concept: learn from Lei Feng, contribute to others, and improve yourself

9 , care for others, care for society, care for nature

10. Learn from Lei Feng’s example, practice micro-civilization, and strive to be a good citizen

11. Learn and practice the scientific concept of development and strive to create a civilized city Go first

12. Be civilized and establish new trends. I am conscious, I participate, and I contribute

13. Strive to be a civilized post in provincial transportation and create first-class industry services

14. Improve the civilized quality of citizens and enhance the level of urban civilization

15. Smile is our language and civilization is our belief

16. Be civilized, polite and create with heart

17. Speak civilized language, do civilized things, be civilized people, and perform civilized etiquette

18. Strengthen the awareness of civilization and improve the quality of civilization

19. Civilization is in my heart, Public morality accompanies me

20. I am civilized, courteous, dedicated, and happy

21. Be civilized and strive to set an example; establish new trends and start with me.

22. Everyone is a civilized person, and there is harmony everywhere

23. Be civilized in everything you say and do, and be honest in everything you do

24. Politeness Always keep your words in mind, be polite and courteous

25. Kind words are respected by others, but bad words hurt people