A short story about etiquette

15 short stories about etiquette 1

At school on Wednesday, after class, I heard a noisy quarrel. It turned out to be Zhang Xusen and Chu Wangbin There was a quarrel in the corridor because they found a toy in the corridor and they were fighting over it. Zhang Xusen said: "I got this, it's mine." Chu Wangbin said: "I saw it, it's mine." Mine." They started to fight while arguing. When they made such a noise, the students who were doing homework in the classroom couldn't hold it anymore. Many students turned their heads towards them, and some students were still whispering underneath. The students who were playing next to them also gathered around, and I also passed by. The whole class was in chaos. stand up.

In fact, this matter is not big. If they could tolerate each other, this matter would not happen. Students should live in harmony and help each other, so that we Only in this way can we have a harmonious and happy campus, and we can concentrate on learning.

Looking around, there are many disharmonious phenomena in today's society, such as many people fighting for a seat on the bus, jumping in line when queuing, loud noises in movie theaters, and inconsistency in concert halls. The ringtone of the mobile phone has stopped...

Various factors have made the image of our ancient civilization worse and worse in the minds of foreigners. As a flower that is blooming in the motherland, we have a greater responsibility to pass on this civilization, so We must lead by example and lead the people around us to be civilized, and we must walk with etiquette. It is a small step for personal civilization and a big step for collective civilization. As long as we work together, I think we will be able to change our image and our country will become a country of etiquette again. A short story about etiquette 2

Qiaoqiao and her mother went to a reunion of old classmates. During the meal, the adults toasted and exchanged glasses and chatted heartily. They stretched out their chopsticks and picked and ate which dishes were delicious, as if they didn't care. Someone made a joke and said: "This little girl is so good!" My mother was so embarrassed after hearing this. Yes, eating at home is not a big deal. Every time grandma makes good food, she eats it tightly. For a dish like three fresh shrimps, Qiaoqiao only picked the shrimps to eat, and her grandma helped her pick them. She didn't stop until she had picked out all the shrimps on the plate, leaving only a pile of cucumber slices. Even though I'm outside now, my habit has become natural, and I can't change my embarrassing eating habits for a while. A short story about etiquette 3

Galileo was a great Italian physicist and astronomer. His contribution to mechanics was the establishment of the law of falling bodies, the discovery of the law of inertia of objects and the isochronism of pendulum vibrations. , the law of parabolic motion, which determines Galileo's principle. When he was studying at the University of Pisa, he was very curious and often asked questions, such as "Why don't planets move in straight lines?" Some teachers thought he asked too many questions, but he never cared and kept asking. Once, Galileo learned that the mathematician Leach was visiting Pisa, so he prepared many questions to ask Leach. This time it was great. The teacher was tireless in teaching, and the students asked endless questions. Galileo quickly learned knowledge about plane geometry, solid geometry, etc., and deeply mastered Archimedes' theories about levers, specific gravity of floating bodies, etc. A short story about etiquette 4

　1. Once , Comrade Lenin went downstairs, and in the narrow aisle of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. When the female worker saw it was Lenin, she stepped back to make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "It doesn't have to be like this. You have already walked halfway with your things, and I am empty-handed now. Please go over first!" He said the word "please" very loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and asked the female worker to go upstairs before he went downstairs. Isn’t this also a reflection of good civility and etiquette?

2. Jiaojiao and her mother went to a reunion of old classmates. During the meal, the adults toasted and exchanged glasses and chatted heartily. Jiaojiao stretched out her chopsticks and picked at which dishes were delicious, looking like she didn't care. Someone made a joke and said, "This little girl is so good!" My mother was so embarrassed after hearing this. Yes, eating at home is not a big deal. Every time grandma makes delicious food, she clings to Jiao Jiao and eats it.

For a dish like three fresh shrimps, Jiaojiao only picked the shrimps to eat, and her grandma helped her choose. She didn't stop until all the shrimps were picked out on the plate, leaving only a pile of cucumber slices. Even though I'm outside now, my habit has become natural, and I can't change my embarrassing eating habits for a while.

3. The Liu family and the Li family live upstairs in Building 7 of a certain community. They are a pair of enemies. They often quarrel over trivial matters and make the neighbors uneasy. Liu's Dongdong was naughty. He was very naughty at the age of one or two. He would play around in the house all day long, running around in small leather shoes and throwing toys on the ground. The couple in the Li family are old, and their hearts are not afraid of noise. They can't hear the clanking on the floor, so they naturally want to express their opinions. But the Liu family's children were used to being naughty. Not only did they not change, but they became more noisy as they got older, shooting balls and skipping ropes in the room. It was so noisy that there was no peace downstairs all day long. The Li family came to the door to tell the story. The Liu family adults were protecting the children, while Xiao Dongdong was making faces on the side, and then jumped up and down to make more fun.

4. The story "Cheng Men Li Xue" tells the story of Song Dynasty scholars Yang Shi and You Zuo who sought advice from Cheng Hao and Cheng Yi. Er Cheng was a native of Yichuan, Luoyang, and a famous Confucianist in the Song Dynasty. The Ercheng theory was later inherited and developed by Zhu Xi, and was known as the "Cheng-Zhu School" in the world. Yang Shi and You Zuo studied with Er Cheng and were very respectful. Yang You and Yang You originally had Cheng Hao as their teacher. After Cheng Hao's death, they were already forty years old and had passed the Jinshi examination. However, they still had to go to Cheng Yi to continue their studies. The story happened on the day when they first arrived at Songyang Academy and paid homage to Cheng Yi.

According to legend, one day Yang Shi and You Zuo came to Songyang Academy to pay homage to Cheng Yi. They met the old gentleman with his eyes closed, sitting up and pretending to sleep. Cheng Yi knew clearly that two guests were coming, but he refused to say anything and ignored them. Yang and You were afraid of disturbing their husband's rest, so they had no choice but to stand respectfully and wait silently for him to open his eyes. After waiting for a long time, Cheng Yi suddenly woke up. When he saw Yang and You, he pretended to be surprised and said: "Ah! Ah! The sages have called here a long time ago!" It means that you two are still here and haven't left. It was a very cold day in winter. I don’t know when it started to snow. There was snow outside the door, more than a foot deep. A short story about etiquette 5

In the early days of World War II, when Roosevelt was the Secretary of the Navy of the US military, he planned to build a secret naval base on a certain island in the Pacific. One of his old friends heard about this and ran to him and asked him: "Friend, can you tell me where you plan to build this base?" Roosevelt looked at him and deliberately asked in a low voice: "You Can you keep it secret?" The other party said, "Yes." Roosevelt immediately smiled and said, "Then, so can I. A short story about etiquette 6

Marx and Jenny were good friends, but In Western cultural concepts, good friends do not mean a relationship of love. Although the relationship between them no longer requires any concealment or testing, Marx proposed to Yanni in a unique way. Marx and Jenny went on a date again and walked in the woods together. Marx deliberately pretended to be worried and sad, which made Jenny feel strange. "What's wrong with you?" What's on your mind? Can you tell me about it. "Marx said: "I do have something on my mind. I have a girlfriend. I love her very much and want to marry her, but I don't know whether she agrees or not. "You have a girlfriend." Yanni was shocked. "Yes, we have known each other for a long time." "Is this true?" "Really, of course it is true. I have a photo of her here. Do you want to see what she looks like?" Marx said, taking out An exquisite little wooden box. Yanni nodded, but felt painful and uneasy in her heart. In desperation, she took the small box and opened it with trembling hands. But the small box only contained a small mirror and no photos. When Yanni looked in the mirror, she was stunned. She suddenly understood and was pleasantly surprised. Obviously, the object of Marx's proposal was herself! Her whole body and mind were immersed in the heat wave of happiness, and she suddenly threw herself into Marx's arms. A short story about etiquette 7

1. Gaze and character

A business manager once told this story: "Once, I was talking to the manager of a sales company. Have lunch.

Whenever a pretty waitress came to our table, he always watched her walk out of the restaurant. I was angry about it and I felt insulted. I thought to myself that in his opinion, the waitress's legs were more important than what I was going to say to him. He didn't listen to me, he simply ignored me. "

2. The old lady and "spouse"

When filling out the population registration form, a census taker asked an uneducated old lady: "Do you have a spouse?" "The old lady was stunned for a long time and couldn't answer. Someone next to her explained: "He asked you if you have a wife? "The old lady suddenly realized.

3. Just because of a mouthful of phlegm?

This is a difficult negotiation.

At the end of the day, American Joseph Mr. Fan was both annoyed and admired by his opponent, the factory director of a certain medical machinery company in China. This factory director was very familiar with the market for the "large infusion tube" production line that was about to be introduced. Not only did he have high technical requirements for the equipment, but he also had very low prices. Very low. It seemed that Joseph had never encountered such a tough and powerful negotiating opponent in China. He concluded that his career would go smoothly if he cooperated with the pragmatic Factory Manager Fan in the future, so he accepted the offer from Factory Manager Fan convincingly. Low price. “OK! "The two parties agreed to formally sign the agreement the next day. It was still early, and Factory Manager Fan invited Joseph to take a look at the workshop. The workshop was in order, and Joseph nodded approvingly while looking at it. As they were walking, suddenly Factory Manager Fan Feeling a bug crawling in his throat, Joseph couldn't help but cough, and hurriedly ran to a corner of the workshop. He stared at Director Fan in surprise, only to see him spitting in the corner and then wiping it with the sole of his shoe. After wiping, there was a phlegm stain on the painted floor. Joseph walked out of the workshop quickly and insisted on going back to the hotel, despite Director Fan's efforts to stay.

The next morning, the translator opened the door of Director Fan. He opened the door and handed him a letter from Joseph: "Dear Mr. Fan, I admire your intelligence and shrewdness very much, but the scene of you spitting in the workshop gave me a sleepless night. IMHO, a factory director's hygiene habits can reflect the management quality of a factory. Besides, what we will produce in the future are infusion tubes for treating diseases. There is a proverb in your country: Human life matters! Please forgive me for leaving without saying goodbye, otherwise, God will punish me..."

Director Fan felt his head "bang", as if it was going to explode.

4. Old Frog "Retreat to the second line"

The new director of a certain bureau entertained the old director who had retired to the second line. During the dinner, a plate of fried frogs was served. The old director nodded with chopsticks and said: "Hey, brother, frogs are beneficial insects and cannot be eaten. eat. The new director blurted out without thinking: "It doesn't matter, they are all old frogs who have taken a back seat and are no longer in charge." "After hearing this, the old director's face suddenly changed, and he asked: "What did you say? What did you just say? ". The new director wanted to make a joke, but he accidentally let it slip and offended the old director's pride. He felt extremely embarrassed. The friendly atmosphere at the table was completely destroyed. Fortunately, the secretary responded quickly and quickly continued: "Old director, He said that you have taken a back seat and there is nothing wrong with eating frogs. "The atmosphere relaxed a little.

5. There are no masters here, only doctors.

A college student from a certain university ran to the infirmary, covering his left lower abdomen with his hand, and faced the doctor who was sitting in the clinic. The doctor said: "Master, I have a stomachache. The doctor who was attending the consultation said: "There are only doctors here, not masters." Ask the master to invite you to the student cafeteria. "The student's face turned red to the roots of his ears.

6. Soprano on the phone

A certain acrobatic troupe plans to perform in the United States next month. Liu Ming, the leader of the troupe, informed the city culture about this matter For instructions from the Bureau, he called the office of the Director of the Cultural Affairs Bureau.

However, the phone rang for more than half a minute, and no one answered. Liu Ming was wondering when suddenly there was a call from the other end of the phone. An impatient soprano: "What's going on? Liu Ming was stunned, thinking he dialed the wrong number: "Is this the Cultural Affairs Bureau?" "Nonsense, you don't know where you called?" "Oh, hello, I'm from the city song and dance troupe. Is Director Wang here?" "Who are you?" "The other party questioned him angrily. Liu Ming muttered in his heart: "My name is Liu Ming, and I am the leader of the acrobatic troupe.

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“Liu Ming? What is your relationship with our director? "

"Relationship? "Liu Ming was even more puzzled by Monk Zhang Er;

" Director Wang and I have no personal relationship. I just want to ask for permission about our group's overseas performance. "Perform abroad?" Director Wang is not here, please call again another day. " Before Liu Ming could say anything else, the other party hung up the phone with a bang.

Liu Ming felt as if he had been teased. He held the phone for a long time and did not come back to his senses. About etiquette Story 8

More than 20 years ago, the general manager of a well-known company wanted to recruit an assistant. This was a very good opportunity for young people who had just graduated from school, so for a while, Applicants gathered. After rigorous preliminary selection, re-examination, and interviews, the general manager finally selected an inexperienced young man.

The deputy general manager was a little confused about his decision, so he asked him: That one. What's wrong with the young man? He didn't bring a letter of introduction, nor was he recommended by anyone, and he had no experience.

The general manager told him: Indeed, he didn't bring a letter of introduction, just now. He graduated from college and had no experience at all. But he had a lot of valuable things. When he came in, he wiped the dirt from his feet at the door and closed the door after entering. This shows that he is careful in what he does. When I met an interviewer with some physical disabilities, he immediately stood up and gave up his seat, showing that he was kind-hearted and considerate. When he entered the office, he took off his hat first and answered my questions decisively, proving that he was both polite and educated. .

The general manager paused and then said: Before the interview, I threw a book on the floor. Everyone else walked over from the book, but this young man picked it up. And put it back on the table; when I talked to him, I found that he was neatly dressed, his hair was neatly combed, and his nails were neatly manicured. In my opinion, these details are the best letter of introduction. The most important brand image for people. A short story about etiquette 9

Professor

A reporter interviewed a Nobel Prize-winning scientist, “Professor, the most important thing in your life is Where did you learn it?", "In kindergarten. There, I learned things that will benefit me throughout my life, such as sharing good things with friends, being modest, and washing hands before eating..." The same is true for us to improve our own civilized cultivation. We don't necessarily have to take any great measures. , but we should start with small things like eating and washing hands around us, so that the concept of civilization can enter the unconscious level from the conscious level, so that civilization can penetrate our every move.

We have accepted civilized etiquette since childhood. With education, many students can talk endlessly about civility and etiquette, but seeing the lunch boxes and drink bottles discarded everywhere on campus, and listening to the swear words uttered by some students, how can we not make people feel sad! Are we all "" "A giant of language, a dwarf of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar of the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowledge is the idea of ??action, action is the effort of knowledge; knowledge is the beginning of action, action is the completion of knowledge; knowledge and action are one entity and one effort." Knowing but not doing is just unknown. "We accept the education of civilized etiquette, but we are reluctant to perform it, or even do the opposite. What is the difference between this and never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must start from this "unity of knowledge and action" If you work hard on your words and actions, you will say goodbye to uncivilized behavior. A short story about etiquette 10

Once, the tour guide Wang Li picked up an American tour group and looked at it in a tourist store. When an American tourist was looking at a Chinese painting of "Chang'e Flying to the Moon" and was thinking about whether to buy it, Wang Li walked up to him and introduced him to the art of Chinese painting and related background knowledge. The guest was very impressed. Finally, Wang Li told the American tourist that there is also a picture of "Chang'e flying to the moon" in the aerospace museum in Washington. The caption next to the picture is: "In the history of mankind, who was the first to go to the moon?" idea? She is Lady Chang'e in ancient China..." The American tourist was very grateful to Wang Li for his help and finally bought the Chinese painting of "Chang'e Flying to the Moon".

Wang Li’s introduction cleverly combined the cultural value and practical value of the items, which promoted the American tourist’s purchase. A short story about etiquette 11

I have a story about table manners and education on Weibo.

When I was staying in a thatched hut last fall, a monk came over early in the morning and said he wanted to live with me. Although this man was not exactly dignified and comfortable, he looked like he had lived in a big temple and he knew the rules quite well.

The master is burning a cauldron in the backyard without seeing any guests. Chasui urged him back and said, "Don't be in a hurry. Let's have lunch first." After lunch, the master said, this is the Yin and Yang Alchemy Room, and we don’t leave any Buddhist purity lists. You can take a look further. After the monk left, we asked the host why he didn’t leave a note. The master said that the prisoner observed this person eating and glanced around several times with his peripheral vision. He knew that he was not a diligent traveler, so he did not leave a ticket.

Once there was a meal in the thatched hut, and the host and guest were speechless during the dinner. Just because of a look, he was excluded from the established circle. Due to lack of education, the losses suffered by others are all collateral damage. What is really damaged is: the loss of the excellent opportunity to integrate into a higher-level circle, and therefore the loss of the opportunity to further enhance knowledge.

The same is true for the secular class's examination of etiquette. A disrespectful detail that is not noticed by oneself is enough to be a reason for being disliked by others and abandoned by the group.

The University says: Once you are calm, you will be able to be still. The aristocratic family's upbringing and training of its children penetrates into the most subtle aspects. After etiquette habits are developed, any disobedience will be significantly noticed by the trainees. At this time, etiquette is also called a tool for selecting and grouping circles. Therefore, nobility in the style of nouveau riche can never be recognized by the upper class circles. Isn't it the same reason why kids from underdeveloped areas in college can't play with kids from cities? It can be seen that the level of education is something closely related to us, and it is also an important tool for our pursuit of improvement.

For example, if ordinary people want to participate in a running meeting for lame people, they can pretend to be lame out of respect. If a lame person wants to participate in a normal running competition, can he pretend to be normal? It is the same with or without teaching. As a parent, it is not prudent to hope that your children will become dragons and phoenixes!

What basic table manners should children master?

1. Invite the elders to sit down first and serve them the meal first. Respecting the elderly is a traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. When children are young, parents should set an example by inviting the elders in the family to take a seat first and serving the meal to them first. The younger generation should not start eating before the elders have even used their chopsticks.

2. Don’t leave your seat before finishing your meal. In addition to washing hands before meals, it is best to let children develop the habit of handling toilet problems before eating, so that they can enjoy food more safely and relaxedly.

3. Sit up straight and maintain a straight posture. This not only looks good, but is also good for digestion.

4. Don’t bang the dishes or make loud noises while eating. Banging bowls and chopsticks and making loud noises are very rude behaviors and will arouse resentment and disgust from people eating at the same table.

5. Avoid tossing and turning on the plate when picking up vegetables. Don't use a spoon or chopsticks to flip around on the plate in order to choose the dishes you like. Some people even remove all the dishes they like from the plate and leave the unpalatable ones for others. This is a mistake. This is very rude behavior and appears to be selfish.

6. Try not to make any noise when eating. When eating, chew slowly and do not speak while the food is in your mouth; eat and drink soup without making a sound.

7. Don’t do other things while eating. Meal time is a time for the family to get together, and it is also the best time to strengthen parent-child communication. Children will also have many things they want to share with their parents, so please cherish this time. Remind your children not to play with toys while eating.

8. If you want to leave the table after eating, you should say hello to your elders: "I'm done eating." A short story about etiquette 12

In an official Indian delegation When they came to a certain city in my country for a goodwill visit, in order to show our sincerity, the relevant parties made careful preparations. Even the hotel where the Indian delegation stayed was specially equipped with comfortable cowhide sofas.

However, when our foreign affairs officials conducted a routine inspection in advance, these brand-new cowhide sofas were ordered to be replaced immediately. It turns out that most Indians believe in Hinduism, and Hinduism respects cows, loves cows, and regards cows as gods. Therefore, Indians should not be invited to sit on cowhide sofas under any circumstances.

This case proves that it is necessary for tourism service personnel to master some religious etiquette. A short story about etiquette 13

When Emperor Liu Zhuang of the Han Ming Dynasty was the crown prince, Dr. Huan Rong was his teacher. Later he succeeded as the emperor and "still respected Huan Rong as a teacher of etiquette." He personally went to Taichang Mansion, asked Huan Rong to sit on the east side, set up a few sticks, and listened to the teacher's instructions as he did when giving lectures. He also summoned hundreds of students who had been taught by Chaozhong Baiguan and Huan Rong to Taichang Mansion to pay homage to Huan Rong as disciples.

When Huan Rong fell ill, Emperor Ming sent people to express condolences and even visited the teacher himself. Every time he visited the teacher, Emperor Ming would get off the car and walk there as soon as he entered the street to show his respect. After entering the door, I often hold the teacher's skinny hand, weeping silently, and then leave for a long time.

The emperor at that time treated Huan Rong like this, so "nobles, generals, and officials who asked about illness did not dare to ride to the door again, and all worshiped under the bed." When Huan Rong died, Emperor Ming also changed his clothes, attended the funeral in person, and made proper arrangements for his children. A short story about etiquette 14

There is a short story. There are two hunters A and B. Each hunted two rabbits and came back. A’s wife saw it and said indifferently: "You only shot two little hares in one day." "It's really useless!" Hunter A was not very happy and complained in his heart. Did you think it was easy to hit? The next day he deliberately returned empty-handed to let his wife know that hunting is not easy. A short story about etiquette 15

At a meeting to formulate the U.S. Constitution, a congressman said: "There must be a provision in the Constitution: the number of regular troops shall not exceed 5,000 at any time." Washington said calmly : "This gentleman's suggestion is indeed very good. But I think there is one more thing to add: the number of foreign troops invading the United States must not exceed 3,000 at any time." Story 2: Once, Mi Fu asked Su Dongpo: "Everyone says "I'm crazy, what do you think?" Su Dongpo replied: "I follow the crowd."