Parents’ reflections on family traditions and mottos

Family tradition and family motto are the unique characteristics that build a family or clan. Below I have compiled some thoughts and feelings about parents’ family traditions and family mottos, for reference only!

I have some thoughts and feelings about parents’ family traditions and family mottos 1

1. About “good family traditions and good family rules” The summary of "Good Family Tradition" is as follows:

1. Good Family Tradition: Family harmony, respecting the elderly and loving the young. Pay attention to learning and advocate knowledge. I have a sunny mentality and love working. Be honest and trustworthy, and treat others with tolerance.

2. Good family rules and good family mottos: Be polite and say hello warmly and welcome guests when they arrive at home. There is a standing posture when standing, a sitting posture when sitting, and the behavior is elegant and generous. Respect your parents, respect your teachers, respect your classmates, and respect others is to respect yourself. Complete your homework carefully

Don’t procrastinate. Today's things are done today. Arrange your entertainment time scientifically and rationally, surf the Internet healthily, and don’t become a netizen.

2. Explanation of "family tradition": What is family tradition? Mr. Yang Shutong explained in his book "Family Tradition": "Family tradition is the long-term development of a family or family. A traditional custom and moral character that can influence the spirit, moral character and behavior of family members. "A family or family may not have a prominent family background and rich wealth, but it cannot have a good family tradition. A good family tradition cannot be established by one person in one moment. It must rely on the joint efforts of all members of the family to build it and carry it forward from generation to generation.

Among them, the parents and elders in the family play a decisive role. The formation of a good family tradition has nothing to do with the family's wealth or the educational level of the parents. It involves the family's moral quality.

Today, many people are busy with work and career and have no time to take care of their children. This kind of education method should be worthy of our deep thought. This is not only because of the barriers of time and distance, but also because of the barriers of time and distance. It is because we have ignored the power of family tradition. A good family tradition can help a child's life

; and this kind of edification should preferably start from childhood. You should instill in him from an early age that "a porridge and a meal, when you think about where you come from, it is not easy" < /p>

With the concept, he may develop a mindset of "half a thread, half a thread, constantly thinking about material difficulties", and a good family tradition will accompany the child's growth throughout his life. From my own growth, I deeply realized the importance of a good family tradition for the growth of the next generation, and from my son's growth, I felt even more that in a family full of family affection, Children who grow up in it will be more sunny.

Parents’ reflections on family traditions and family mottos 2

The activities of good family traditions and family mottos are summarized as vigorously advocating socialist values, deeply understanding the essential connotation of the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, and developing harmonious primary schools The activities of "good family tradition and good family training" have enabled students to be subtly influenced by excellent qualities such as "honesty, filial piety, diligence, and sincerity". The students dug out and summarized excellent family traditions and family training from their own homes, forming a good cultural atmosphere in the whole school.

All teachers and students of our school, under the leadership of the school committee, collected tutoring stories, learned excellent family traditions and family training, promoted Chinese virtues, and thoroughly implemented the General Secretary’s instructions on cultivating and practicing the core of socialism An important speech on values, strengthen the education of traditional Chinese virtues such as friendliness, filial piety, and integrity, build a trinity education network of "school, family, and society" to promote the development of students' good behaviors and habits.

A series of activities on family tradition and family training to accompany my growth were carried out in the school. By speaking under the national flag every week, holding themed class meetings, and collecting tutoring stories, the school guides students to start from small things, work hard, become participants and practitioners who speak, respect, and abide by ethics, and understand, promote and practice Expert style school motto.

They told stories about "good family tradition and good family training", which made teachers and students more aware of the importance of inheriting good family tradition, and made teachers and students clear what we need. The family tradition is: respecting the elderly and caring for the young, uniting and helping each other, being humble and courteous, putting oneself in others' shoes, being considerate, and being willing to suffer losses, etc.

Only family members who pay attention to moral self-discipline can enjoy prestige in the family and are qualified to become the mainstay of the family. With good family tradition, the whole society will be more harmonious. Through the class team meeting, we organized and launched an essay competition on the reflections after reading classic family precepts. Call on students and parents to read classic family precepts together and write their thoughts after reading them.

Guide minors to understand the profound connotation of classic family precepts. Further cultivate and practice socialist core values ??and guide teachers and students to jointly establish a good moral outlook. Organize the whole school's primary school students and parents to carry out the "Writing Letters from Home" activity, allowing parents and children to communicate in the form of letters around traditional Chinese virtues such as friendliness, filial piety, and integrity, family traditions and mottos, and confusions encountered in study and life. .

On the basis of writing family letters, we carry out a collection and evaluation activity for outstanding family letters, and widely collect outstanding family letters with positive content, in line with the core socialist values ??and traditional Chinese virtues, and with true feelings. Organize teachers and students in the school to conduct a class meeting with the theme of "Talk about Family Tradition and Talk about Family Instructions".

The students had a lively discussion. You talked about your family tradition, and I talked about my family motto. Some students also gave specific explanations of their own family tradition and family motto.

At the meeting, the students spoke freely and competed to display and share these excellent family traditions, family mottos, and tutoring stories. After the meeting, they transcribed or printed them together and posted them in the class learning area. The students unanimously stated that they will use practical actions to practice family traditions and family mottos in the future. Organize students to collect family training and tutoring stories.

Students copy and organize the family mottos of their own family or family, or the various experiences and stories of their parents and elders about their home education, inheriting civilized family traditions and school mottos, and further promoting the Chinese tradition of excellent family traditions and family mottos. Culture has cultivated a new trend of civilized tutoring, sown the seeds of civilization in the hearts of students, and has continued to sprout and develop upward and forward.

Family precepts and tutoring stories all carry the ideological continuation and civilized education of a family and even a nation, inheriting and developing the long history and culture of the Chinese nation, allowing students to subtly understand Influenced by excellent qualities such as "honesty, filial piety, thrift, and sincerity". The "Good Family Traditions and Family Training" activity has achieved gratifying results and has been highly praised by parents in the society.

Three thoughts on parents’ family tradition and family motto

Family tradition and family motto are spiritual nourishment passed down from generation to generation. For people's growth, the influence of family tradition, study style, and social atmosphere has a process of continuous advancement. Family tradition is mainly the enlightenment of life, study style is the charging of life, and social atmosphere is the tempering of life.

From the current point of view, the connection between family style and academic style is an issue that needs urgent research. Only when the two complement each other can individuals have strong spiritual accumulation to read society. A few days ago, the Xicheng District Education Union of Beijing held a family tradition talk event with the theme of "Furrying the country, guarding the family, and guarding the wind and rain" at Beijing No. 4 Middle School. Education experts and school teachers and students talked about their experiences in family education. Wind construction path. Here are a few excerpts to share with readers.

Don’t lose the ability to appreciate your children

There is a saying in "Zhu Xi’s Maxims on Family Governance": If the family is harmonious, even if the family is no longer happy, there will still be happiness. The prerequisite for family education is a good parent-child relationship. Otherwise, no matter how good the educational concept is, it will not be implemented. However, many parents slowly lose the ability to appreciate their children as their children grow up, which makes the good parent-child relationship lose its dependence.

The reasons why parents do not appreciate their children are, first, the gap between reality and expectations, and second, face. Some people always feel that their children are inferior to others. Over time, they feel that their children are worthless. Parents often say something like this: Look at you, you have passed the exam and you are still beautiful every day!

If you compare life to a marathon, the primary school or junior high school stage is equivalent to the first 5 kilometers. In a 42-kilometer race, does it matter whether you finish first or last in the first 5 kilometers?

As people who have experienced it, educators and parents actually know that a person’s future development is closely related to his or her performance in primary school or middle school. Test scores cannot be equated. But why do parents lose their minds in front of their children’s scores, let anger distort human nature, and lose the ability to appreciate their children’s progress and growth? (Li Xiong, the author is the deputy director of the Student Affairs Office and senior Chinese teacher of Beijing No. 4 Middle School. )

Teaching without saying anything with the pattern in mind

In excellent parents, we can find unique characteristics: such as the love and harmony of husband and wife, bringing a sunny mentality and safety to their children With a sense of belonging, children will become more trusting and close to others. For example, parents have a long-term vision and structure, and pay more attention to the spiritual growth of their children. They do not just look at the immediate results, nor do they only care about their children's material needs.

Parents may have pursuits in their work or interests in life, and they can teach without words. Furthermore, it is to respect the child, give the child full trust, support the child's attempts, and communicate smoothly with the child.

Families and schools should work hand in hand with the same direction: to let children have a happy life.

At the level of family education, schools can provide some positive guidance to help children understand the family and promote communication among family members. All along, I think the simplest and most moving slogan is: Go to work happily and come home safely.

We go out and come back every day. The starting point and the end point are home. It is our common wish to make home the best destination.

The family’s expectation for every member is, first of all, peace and happiness. What I want to encourage parents is: don’t give up on yourself too early, start creating life by enriching yourself, and set an example for your children.