What should parents do when they meet a man for the first time?

First: Know yourself and yourself. After knowing that you are going, you must first do a good job of collecting information. Ask about his parents' preferences, usual hobbies, specific family situation, family etiquette and habits, etc. These must be asked clearly. However, things are not that simple. It's a boyfriend. I'll tell you in 99, and I don't know what to buy. Don't worry, my parents are very nice. Anyway, even boyfriends generally don't give you appropriate advice. Because your positions are different, he just goes home when he goes back, his parents are his relatives, and we are going to meet outsiders, so the starting point is different, and there is definitely no way to think differently. So, if your boyfriend can give you reliable advice, congratulations. If not, we should be self-reliant. Second: Choose the right gift. Don't send it too expensive, or people will think you are posting it, but it shouldn't be too shabby. It is best to send it according to the preferences and needs of the other parents. Don't send RMB if you can't figure it out. If you have less money, maybe you will be accused of being a cheapskate. If you want to pay more, people will never pick it out. Have you thought about the future? You know, the more you pay for the first visit, the greater people's expectations for you in the future. Third: pay attention to the shaping of personal image, which also needs to be thought out in advance. In fact, many people know that to be decent and generous, light makeup can be used. But specifically, the suggestion is that the style can be chosen according to personal temperament, but the color matching of clothes can rely on warmer colors and simple styles. You can wear light makeup if you make up. The standard is to make people look comfortable, without deliberately concave. Fourth: Don't take everything out. Other parents will definitely ask about you and your family. At this time, you should pay attention and don't say anything. Although you can't deceive others, you should choose the good one and don't really say everything. Leave more topics, there is still plenty of time. Fifth: praise each other's parents appropriately. Everyone likes to listen to good words and sweet words. You can praise each other's parents appropriately, but don't be afraid to kiss the wrong person's ass. Talk less when chatting, and observe more first. It is safer to know whether the other parent is talkative or talkative before deciding how to deal with it. It is true that if you really don't know what to say, you should laugh and nod your head to show your agreement. If you are eating, add tea and water to your home when you have nothing to say. Or "Aunt, eat more, this is delicious" or something like that. Just don't ice it anyway. Sixth: you can't help your mother-in-law in a hurry. Some sisters will definitely say that it is not so good to watch the door for the first time. When you see your mother-in-law cooking or washing vegetables, you should naturally take the lead. This is all wet. As the saying goes, what you paved is what you paved. People's first impression is very important. If you leave an impression on your husband's family for the first time, it will be deeply rooted in their hearts. Unless you are willing to be a virtuous little daughter-in-law all your life (it is not excluded that some people have a tendency to abuse themselves), you must sit on your ass and never move without eating. Try hard for the first time, and people will ask you according to this standard in the future. If you do worse in the future, people will think you are lazy or pretentious. In order to avoid asking too much of you in the future, don't do too well for the time being. I'm not here to teach my sisters to be lazy, but to teach you when to do and when not to do it. I hope you can understand my pains. Seventh: Pay attention to the finishing work. Finish the work well, otherwise it will be anticlimactic. You can send a voice or text message to the other person's home to thank him. The main contents include: thanking each other for their hospitality or invitation; Secondly, express that you are very happy to eat and chat today; Finally, you can invite each other to dinner or go out to play next time. This is called reciprocity, reciprocity. On the one hand, let the other person know your attitude, and by the way, make an appointment for the next meeting, killing two birds with one stone and not spending any cost. Why not?