Now, we are in the most critical period of growth in our lives. What we do during this period will subtly affect our own psychological quality, and civilized behavior helps us improve our own psycholo

Now, we are in the most critical period of growth in our lives. What we do during this period will subtly affect our own psychological quality, and civilized behavior helps us improve our own psychological quality and also improve our mental quality. If we do not cultivate our own moral quality at this time, even if we have rich scientific and cultural knowledge, what use will it be to others, ourselves and society? Therefore, we should first be an upright person, a modest gentleman who understands civilization and be polite, and then we can become talents. We cannot be a machine that simply masters knowledge and skills, but a person who develops harmoniously in body and mind. Civilization is the forefront of our quality. If we have civilization, we will have the most precious spiritual wealth in the world. ] We must develop good civilized habits and be civilized primary school students. Then please each of us control our mouths, do not use foul language, do not spit; control our hands, do not litter, do not fight; control our feet, do not trample on the lawn. I believe that through the joint efforts of all our teachers and students, we will create a civilized and beautiful campus. Just imagine if every campus in the country jointly creates a civilized campus, then the overall quality of our nation will be greatly improved, the country's comprehensive strength will be greatly enhanced, and the future of the motherland will be prosperous and brilliant!

Establish a social trend of being civilized and understanding etiquette

Our country is an ancient civilized country with a long history of five thousand years. It has not only formed a splendid culture, but also has many excellent traditional virtues . The history of China can be said to be a history of etiquette. In Confucianism, etiquette is the first thing in the world, emphasizing the use of etiquette to govern the country and the family. From ancient times to the present, many people with civilized etiquette and high quality have emerged, such as Kong Rong and Zhou Enlai. With the development of market economy and social progress, people need more civility and etiquette to establish a good social image. In today's promotion of civilized etiquette to welcome the Olympics, we should inherit and carry forward traditional culture, develop civilized etiquette standards, strive to be civilized Beijing citizens, and establish a new social trend.

Etiquette is etiquette and ceremony. It has three major elements: language, behavioral expressions, and clothing and utensils. Generally speaking, any major ceremonial event requires these three elements to be completed. There are many categories of etiquette, which can be divided into personal etiquette, family etiquette, social etiquette, business etiquette, etc., as well as foreign affairs etiquette, custom etiquette, etiquette documents, etc.

From the perspective of personal cultivation, etiquette can be said to be the external expression of a person's inner cultivation and quality. From a communication point of view, etiquette can be said to be an art, a communication style or a communication method applicable in interpersonal communication. It is a customary practice in interpersonal communication to show respect and friendliness to others. From a communication perspective, etiquette can be said to be the skill of communicating with each other in interpersonal interactions.

In our daily life, work, and study, everyone's speech and behavior reflect whether his behavior is civilized and etiquette. To put it lightly, if people do not pay attention to civilized etiquette when interacting with each other, especially when interacting with foreigners, they will be laughed at. To put it more seriously, if different ethnic groups do not respect each other (respective customs or etiquette), they may provoke ethnic hatred and fights.

The main functions of etiquette, from a personal point of view, are: first, it helps to improve people’s self-cultivation; second, it helps to beautify themselves and their lives; it helps to promote people’s social interactions, Improve people's interpersonal relationships; also help purify social atmosphere.

Etiquette is the minimum moral code that people are required to abide by. It is gradually formed in people's lives and interactions with each other, and is fixed in the form of customs, habits and traditions. For a person, etiquette is an external manifestation of a person's ideological and moral level, cultural accomplishment, and communicative ability. For a society, etiquette is a reflection of a country's social civilization, moral customs, and living habits. Paying attention to and carrying out etiquette education has become an important part of moral practice.

Laws and systems belong to the bottom line of social norms. Although important, they are only some of the most basic and important norms of society and cannot cover all aspects of social life. For example, the law stipulates that when the value of theft exceeds a certain amount, criminal liability will be pursued. When the amount of theft does not reach the amount for criminal liability, public security penalties can be imposed in accordance with the provisions of the Public Security Management Regulations. However, what if the conditions for public security punishment are not enough, such as stealing someone else's clothes? What kind of society would it be if all its members committed petty theft? However, the law cannot control things like sneaking around. what to do? This depends on moral standards. In fact, not stealing or stealing is not only a moral requirement, but also a requirement of etiquette. Because petty theft is obviously not polite behavior. This is true for petty theft, but it is also true for other aspects. Therefore, there is no rule without rules, and there is no rule without etiquette.

From the perspective of the actual conditions of etiquette, we must learn etiquette knowledge. Etiquette is conditional. First of all, etiquette requires a certain material foundation. Even the basic etiquette we usually advocate is no exception. If you don't spit in the public, you need paper towels and garbage buckets; if you don't defecate in the public, you need to improve public toilet facilities. Therefore, etiquette must be realistic. Etiquette that is too complicated or advanced will become a burden. Rich people can certainly wear evening clothes and formal wear when attending parties, but there is no need for farmers to wear suits when going to the mountains to chop firewood. Secondly, etiquette has distinct regional characteristics. In most countries, it is etiquette to shake hands when friends meet, but in the Middle East, people of the opposite sex will be punished if they shake hands casually. Another example is that in Western countries, it is normal for friends to hug each other when they meet, but in our country, if ordinary friends of the opposite sex hug each other at all times, they will be ridiculed by others, and may even be considered sexual harassment by the other party. Also in China, spitting on the street is uncivilized and impolite, but if farmers are required to spit into a bowl while farming in the fields, it will become a joke. Therefore, etiquette must be in line with national conditions and cannot be copied indiscriminately. We must seek truth from facts.

The content of etiquette education covers all aspects of social life. From the content point of view, it includes appearance, manners, expressions, clothing, conversation, and dealing with others; from the object point of view, it includes personal etiquette, public place etiquette, hospitality and guest etiquette, table manners, gift etiquette, civilized interactions, etc. The behavioral norms in the process of interpersonal communication are called etiquette, and the expression of etiquette in speech and actions is called politeness. To strengthen moral practice, attention should be paid to etiquette, so that people can conduct interpersonal interactions based on the principles of "respect, self-discipline, moderation, and sincerity" and say goodbye to uncivilized words and deeds.

Advocate civilized social etiquette. Combined with social ethics education, we vigorously advocate the concept of civilized etiquette with the main content of being civilized and polite, helping others, caring for public property, protecting the environment, and observing social and public order. Enter stations, parks, communities and other places to stop uncivilized phenomena by distributing promotional materials. In view of the outstanding problems in the current public life, vigorously promote etiquette such as civilized Internet surfing, civilized dining, civilized driving, civilized riding, caring for public property, and protecting the environment, focusing on correcting illegal activities, illegal parking, littering, and spitting everywhere. We should guide people to be good citizens who understand etiquette and rules, speak civilized language, and abide by public and political order, and strive to form a social atmosphere in which the Chinese people advocate civilized etiquette and create a harmonious society. social environment. We vigorously advocate professional etiquette standards that focus on dedication, honesty and trustworthiness, fairness and enthusiasm for service, and provide high-quality services to service recipients with good service attitude, service quality, and standardized manners and language.

Etiquette, etiquette, and politeness are rich in content, but they have their own regularity. Its basic etiquette principles are: first, the principle of respecting others; second, the principle of self-discipline, which means to be self-restrained in the process of communication. , cautious, proactive, voluntary, polite to others, consistent with appearance, self-control, self-reflection, self-requirement, self-examination, self-discipline, not arrogant, duplicitous; the third is the principle of moderation, appropriateness and propriety; the fourth is the principle of sincerity , be sincere, treat others with sincerity, and do not make plays when the occasion arises, and do not match your words with your deeds.

Let us take active actions, learn etiquette knowledge, promote etiquette habits, start from me, start from the small things around us, and strive to shape the good qualities of innovative, honest, tolerant, open and civilized Beijingers. image, establish a social trend of being civilized and understanding etiquette, and make our own efforts to speed up the construction of an international city!

Celebrity etiquette story: Zhang Liang became a disciple

Zhang Liang (? - 186 BC) was the military advisor of Liu Bang, the founder of the Western Han Dynasty. His ancestors were Korean. After Qin destroyed Korea, Zhang Liang was determined to avenge Korea. Once, because he attempted to assassinate Qin Shihuang, he was hunted and took refuge in Xiapi.

Zhang Liang had nothing to do in Xiapi. One day he went for a walk on the Xiapi Bridge and met an old man wearing a coarse short coat. He walked up to Zhang Liang and deliberately dropped his shoes under the bridge. Then he turned back to Zhang Liang and said, "Child! Go down the bridge and pick up my shoes for me!" Zhang Liang was stunned for a moment and wanted to hit him, but when he saw that he was an old man, he suppressed his anger and said, Went under the bridge and picked up the shoes. The old man actually ordered again: "Put the shoes on for me!" Zhang Liang thought, since he had already picked up the shoes for him, he might as well put them on for him, so he knelt on the ground and put the shoes on for him. The old man stretched out his feet and asked Zhang Liang to dress him, and then left with a smile. Zhang Liang kept watching his whereabouts with surprise. The old man walked for a while, then turned back and said to Zhang Liang: "This child of yours can be cultivated to be talented. Five days later, at dawn, come here to meet me!" Zhang Liang knelt down. He came down and said, "Yes." At dawn on the fifth day, Zhang Liang arrived at Xiapi Bridge. Unexpectedly, the old man was already waiting there. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily: "Why are you late for a date with the old man? Come back to meet me on the morning of the fifth day!" After that, he left. On the morning of the fifth day, when the rooster crowed, Zhang Liang rushed there, but the old man was waiting there again. When he saw Zhang Liang, he said angrily: "Why are you falling behind me again? Come back earlier after five days." !" After that, he left again. On the fifth day, Zhang Liang rushed to the bridge before midnight. After waiting for a long time, the old man also came. He said happily: "This is good." Then he took out a book, pointed at it and said: "If you study this book carefully, you can become the emperor's teacher! In ten years, the world situation will change, and you will become rich. In the next 13 years, you will see me at the foot of Gucheng Mountain in Jibei County - there is The yellow stone is mine." The old man said and left.

At dawn in the morning, Zhang Liang took out the book and took a look. It turned out to be "The Art of War of Taigong" (the military book of Jiang Taigong who assisted King Wu of Zhou in defeating Zhou)! Zhang Liang cherished it very much, read it frequently, studied and studied it repeatedly.

Ten years later, Chen Sheng and others rebelled against Qin, and Zhang Liang gathered more than 100 people to respond. Peigong Liu Bang led thousands of troops and captured some places to the west of Xiapi. Zhang Liang joined him and became his subordinate. From then on, Zhang Liang often offered suggestions to Pei Gong according to "Tai Gong's Art of War". Pei Gong thought it was very good and often adopted his strategies. Later, he became Liu Bang's strategist who could strategize and win thousands of miles. After Liu Bang proclaimed himself emperor, he was granted the title of Liuhou.

Zhang Liang never forgot the old man who gave him "Tai Gong's Art of War". Thirteen years later, when he followed Liu Bang through Jibei, he saw a yellow stone at the foot of Gucheng Mountain. He took it back and called it "Huangshi Gong". He enshrined it as a treasure and offered sacrifices on time. After Zhang Liang's death, his family buried this yellow stone with him.

Poetry

Everyone starts from me

Let the earth become green,

Let the sky become blue,

Let the rivers become clear,

Let the air purify,

Let the flowers bloom,

Let the birds sing ,

To make the environment better,

Everyone starts from me.

Be civilized and polite

Although it is important to learn to be first,

Be civilized and polite.

Abide by school rules and regulations,

be polite to teachers when you see them.

Classmates are friendly to each other,

Friendship is held tightly by small hands.

Don’t worry about protecting public property,

I will do it to establish a new trend.

Civilized Bus Song

Students, please remember,

Line up when getting on and off the bus.

Get on the bus, don’t run around,

Prepare some change to buy the ticket.

No shouting in the carriage,

Quiet and orderly.

If there are seats, don’t grab them.

The elderly and children will be taken care of.

It is not crowded when you get off the bus.

It is easy to fall if you waste time.

Be civilized and polite,

Go to school happily.

Everyone praised the white rabbit for being polite

Little white rabbit, cross the bridge,

Go to the bridge and take a look,

Oops, Father Goat is coming,

Waddling onto the bridge.

Little white rabbit, run back,

Stand at the bridge and wave with your hands.

"My father-in-law, please go through first.

Go step by step."

The river laughed after hearing this,

The fish jumped up and down after hearing this.

They all praised the white rabbit for being polite.

The campus is beautiful

The teaching building is really lively.

The willows are green and the flowers are pretty.

Classmates, jump and jump.

Be civilized and polite.

Meet the teacher and say hello.

When you meet your classmates, say hello.

Love the environment and come up with new tricks.

If there is garbage, a dedicated person will take care of it.

When you see waste paper, bend down and pick it up.

It is everyone’s responsibility to protect the environment.

The campus is beautiful, everyone is laughing

Story

If you lose today, you are not considered a failure, because you will come again tomorrow.

If you lose money, you are not considered a failure, because the value of life is not in the wallet.

If you lose civilization, you are a complete failure, because you have lost the true meaning of being a human being.

Civilization covers the relationship between people, people and society, and people and nature. Its main functions are, firstly, to pursue personal moral perfection, and secondly, to safeguard public interests and public order.

Speaking of civilized etiquette, I thought of a story. Once, Comrade Lenin was going downstairs. In the narrow aisle of the stairs, he met a female worker carrying a basin of water upstairs. When the female worker saw it was Lenin, she stepped back to make way. Lenin stopped her and said, "It doesn't have to be like this. You have already walked halfway with your things, and I am empty-handed now. Please go over first!" He said the word "please" very loudly and kindly. Then he leaned against the wall and asked the female worker to go upstairs before he went downstairs. Isn't this also a reflection of good civilized etiquette?

I don’t want to give too many examples of great people here, because this can easily lead to an illusion: thinking that civilization and etiquette are only possessed by great people and celebrities, then we will not need to pay more or less attention to ourselves. Feel guilty for uncivilized words and deeds; or think that even if you practice the requirements of civilization, you will not become a great person or celebrity. Not only do we need moral big shots, we also need a group of moral people.

The level of civility in a society can reflect the level of civilization in a society and a country. If a person does not abide by social civilization, it will affect his own image in a small way and the reputation of the country in a big way. During the Qing Dynasty, Minister Li Hongzhang was on a mission to Russia. In a public place, his bad habit broke out and he spat everywhere. He was exaggerated and ridiculed by foreign reporters, which embarrassed the Chinese people. This is a historical lesson about not abiding by social civilization.

Public civilization is a manifestation of social consciousness, and public civilization is based on the level of personal moral cultivation. Just imagine, if someone doesn't pay attention to his own civilization, will he have a good public civilization? Won't! Personal civilization and etiquette are the root and foundation. If people want to have a good public civilization, they must start with themselves and around them. Therefore, Mr. Lu Xun said: "If China wants to compete in the world, its first priority is to establish people, and then everything will be done after people are established."

"The meaning of "establishing people" is to improve people's thoughts and civilized cultivation. People's civilized cultivation is not innate, but depends on continuous improvement. To improve personal cultivation, we must first devote ourselves to reading and studying. Improve your own cognitive level; when your cognition reaches a certain level, you will have the ability to distinguish right from wrong; once you have the ability to distinguish right from wrong, good and evil, you must correct your own mentality, do not violate your own conscience, and strive to make everything you say and do be consistent. If you meet the moral standards, your self-cultivation will be perfected. This is what the ancients said: improving personal moral cultivation will have the foundation to promote social fairness and civilization. p>

The civilized atmosphere of a society also has a great impact on its people. Why do you say this? I believe that some students have experienced it firsthand, let’s not talk about it. For such a small matter as crossing the road, as long as the red light is on, even if there is no car on the road, foreigners will never cross the road. They think this is a civilized and civilized thing that must be observed. In such an atmosphere, Who would run a red light unscrupulously? This is the power of social atmosphere. But if we don’t start from ourselves, where will this social atmosphere come from?

A reporter visited. A Nobel Prize-winning scientist asked, “Professor, where did you learn the most important thing in your life? ", "In kindergarten. There, I learned things that will benefit me throughout my life, such as sharing good things with friends, being modest, and washing hands before eating..." The same is true for us to improve our own civilized cultivation. We don't necessarily have to take any great measures. , but we should start from small things such as eating and washing hands around us, so that the concept of civilization can enter from the conscious level to the unconscious level, so that civilization can penetrate our every move.

We accept civilized etiquette from an early age. Many students can talk endlessly about civility and etiquette, but seeing the lunch boxes and drink bottles discarded everywhere on campus, and listening to the swear words uttered by some students, how can we not feel sad? "A giant of language, a dwarf of action"? Wang Shouren, a great scholar of the Ming Dynasty, said, "Knowledge is the idea of ??action, action is the effort of knowledge; knowledge is the beginning of action, action is the completion of knowledge; knowledge and action are one entity and one effort." Knowing but not doing is just unknown. "We accept the education of civilized etiquette, but we are reluctant to perform it, or even do the opposite. What is the difference between this and never receiving social education! Therefore, if we want to practice social civilization, we must start from this "unity of knowledge and action" If you work hard and work hard on your own words and actions, you must say goodbye to uncivilized behavior.

Civilized etiquette will accompany me.

Students. : When you see the elderly, weak, sick or disabled on the bus, do you give up your seat to them? When you get help, do you say: "Thank you!" "There are many etiquettes in life, have you done it?

Etiquette is a code of conduct and moral code that people universally abide by. It tells us that people who pay attention to etiquette should start with how to treat others and start with It starts with small things, bit by bit.

Zhou Enlai once went to a certain place to inspect the work. He shook hands with the crew members one by one and thanked them. At this time, the mechanics were squatting on the ground working, and the Prime Minister shook hands with others. He stood behind the mechanic, waiting for him, and signaled people not to disturb him. After the mechanic finished his work, he turned around and found the Prime Minister behind him, and said hurriedly: "I'm sorry, Prime Minister, I didn't know you were waiting for me. The Prime Minister smiled and said: "I didn't affect your work!" ”

The Prime Minister’s every move fully illustrates his upbringing, his demeanor, and his virtue.

It is said that a certain star drove through a red light, but when the police stopped him, he shouted There are countless examples of yelling and scolding, and a certain star getting into a fight because of a trivial matter...

Celebrities see their spirit in trivial matters, and people's behavior will change under different circumstances. Some celebrities have also become "celebrities" ”, but often lack the celebrity behavior of Premier Zhou. The contrast between the two examples is so stark.

Premier Zhou is approachable and has great respect for other people’s work. On weekdays, when the waiter brings something to him, he does not put down his hand. Take the work here with both hands and greet with a smile.

Sometimes, when the staff around the Prime Minister meet him, they immediately stop and let the Prime Minister go first, but the Prime Minister stands there, smiling and letting the staff go first...

Every word and deed of the Prime Minister, every move, Set a shining example of how we should behave.

Confucius, a great scholar in the Spring and Autumn Period, once said: "If you don't learn etiquette, you can't stand up." And Mencius in the Spring and Autumn Period also said: "Those who are polite respect others, and... those who respect others will always respect them." "It can be seen how important it is for a person to be polite. Our country is known as the "Land of Etiquette". Through study and hard work, we will become good young people who respect etiquette, understand civilization and observe discipline.

3.

Civilized etiquette accompanies me

In a country, individuals are the subject. What is most important to an individual? I think the first thing is to have civilized qualities. Only when everyone has civilized qualities can the overall quality of the country be improved.

Good behavioral habits are the prerequisite for ensuring our smooth learning and the basis for establishing a healthy personality. Students who do not have good behavioral habits in school may be undisciplined, unhygienic, and disrupt the learning environment of the class. On the contrary, if we develop civilized behavioral habits, the learning environment must be good and orderly. We know that only when students in a school have good civilized behavior habits can they build an excellent learning environment and create an excellent learning atmosphere. Now, we are in the most critical period of growth in our lives. What we do during this period will subtly affect our own psychological quality, and civilized behavior helps us improve our own psychological quality and also improve our mental quality. If we do not cultivate our own moral quality at this time, even if we have rich scientific and cultural knowledge, what use will it be to others, ourselves and society? Therefore, we should first be an upright person, a modest gentleman who understands civilization and be polite, and then we can become talents. We cannot be a machine that simply masters knowledge and skills, but a person who develops harmoniously in body and mind. Civilization is the forefront of our quality. If we have civilization, we will have the most precious spiritual wealth in the world.

I remember a famous person once said: The realization of virtue is composed of actions, not words. Countless examples show that the key to a brilliant career and a successful life is noble sentiment. However, the most basic question is: What kind of spiritual outlook, what kind of ideological quality and what kind of moral standards should we adopt to take over the baton of human civilization.

The president of Nankai University wrote a motto on the mirror: "The face must be straight, the hair must be trimmed, the clothes must be neat, the buttons must be knotted, the head should be straight, the shoulders should be flat, the chest should be broad, and the back should be straight "Don't be arrogant and don't be lazy. The color should be harmonious and quiet." As a middle school student, we must understand that our appearance must at least conform to the atmosphere of the school and the identity of the students. Maintaining a generous and decent appearance is a courtesy to teachers and classmates. kind of respect.

Students, civilized etiquette is the most basic moral code of human society. It is an external manifestation of a person's ideological realm, academic level, moral quality, cultural accomplishment, and communicative ability. The famous Russian educationist Ushinsky said: "Good behavioral habits are a kind of capital." The formation of good etiquette habits can be transformed into a person's inner character and sentiment. Image etiquette not only involves the individual's own image, but also It is related to the overall image of the school society and even the country and nation

Civilization is the wind, which can blow the heart of every student; image and etiquette are flowers, which can make the campus more beautiful. Fierce social competition does not allow us to stay in self-pity. Let "image and etiquette remain in our hearts", let us "learn etiquette well, beautify our image", and strive to build our own life building with both arms.

Civilized etiquette is the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth.

Without civilization, there would be no basic moral bottom line. Then even if we have profound scientific and cultural knowledge, what use would it be to people, ourselves, and society? Learning to be a real person means that when learning, you should first learn to be a human being, learn to be a civilized person, learn to be a social person, clean the environment and civilized campus, start from me, start from every little thing, let civilized etiquette Flowers are blooming everywhere on campus.

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A mother was riding a bicycle with her young daughter. The child accidentally dropped the biscuit in his hand to the ground. The mother immediately stopped the car and said softly to her daughter: "Come on, let's throw it into the trash can." Then she took the child down and the two of them bent down to pick up the broken biscuits on the ground. Just this ordinary scene reminds people of a saying: Quality is a habit. Think about it, don't you? No matter how civilized the mother or her future children are, the answer is already in this detail. In reality, there are many behaviors that are consistent with "low quality", which are inadvertently exposed in every gesture after forming a habit because of not paying attention or not caring. When it comes to civilized qualities, in fact, everyone has an innate desire for kindness and beauty in their hearts. However, day after day, due to different attitudes and strengths of self-discipline, there is a clear difference. This gradual change is not only related to ideological understanding, but also a process of developing behavioral habits. I really hope that in the process of building a civilized and harmonious society, everyone can put away bad habits and develop good habits. We will not tolerate "little evils" and "little kindnesses", and let uncivilized pictures and disharmonious notes be less common. Some, and some less. Civilized etiquette is the foundation of our study and life, and the arm of our healthy growth. Without civilization, there would be no basic moral bottom line. Then even if we have profound scientific and cultural knowledge, what use would it be to people, ourselves, and society? Learning to be a real person means that when learning, you should first learn to be a human being, learn to be a civilized person, learn to be a social person, clean the environment and civilized campus, start from me, start from every little thing, let civilized etiquette Flowers are blooming everywhere on campus. Liuzhou wants to build a civilized and harmonious society. What should we do as students? This is a reading material that No. 8 Middle School recently organized for all students in the school to discuss this topic. The school requires every student in each class to identify practices that are contrary to campus civility and etiquette regarding themselves, others, and the class. Use the pen in your hand to describe it and use Your voice encourages everyone to consciously practice civilized etiquette and use your good ideas to improve our civilized regulations. This is an epitome of the moral education activities full of humanistic atmosphere in No. 8 Middle School. There is no preaching, no criticism and accusation of students, no orders and mandatory requirements, but reflection, attention, and listening to different opinions and suggestions. After the activity, the students submitted commendable rectification measures and the little changes in the school's appearance, which shows that moral education can only be effective if it is deeply rooted in the hearts of the people.