How do people fail?

How people fail-addiction, laziness, shortness, numbness, fear

1. Addiction

Indulge in [easy to get a high sense of accomplishment], which is easy to get, basically requires no brains, and can get timely satisfaction and pleasure feedback. After long-term high-frequency stimulation, people's pleasure threshold is getting higher and higher, and they become more and more depressed in repeated indulgence. Beware of things that can be easily obtained, such as playing mobile phones and brushing short videos, which will bring pleasure and will always take more from you in the end. Anything that makes you addicted will definitely make you miserable.

be afraid

If you want to take action, you will always be swayed by considerations of gain and loss, always looking ahead and looking back, always complaining, complaining about yourself, family and society, but never taking a step, always waiting, waiting for everything to be ready, waiting for the best opportunity, and even waiting for someone to help you. Because I am used to staying in the comfort zone, I don't have the courage to change. Afraid of hard work, always immersed in the past, or fantasizing about the future, but not living in the present.

lazy

There is a kind of laziness, that is, always procrastinating in action, always trying to put off what you haven't finished today until tomorrow. Another kind of laziness is more subtle: I am used to the laziness of my brain, never think independently, and the sources of information and knowledge are provided by others. Accepting fragmented information, I think I have gained a lot. In fact, it is a lot of low-density meaningless information, and my knowledge level and vision pattern are closed in a small circle.

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Too much self-deception and self-satisfaction, knowing that they are lax, always find excuses to excuse themselves. In order to paralyze myself psychologically, I always like to compare myself with others and give myself a sense of superiority and accomplishment. Or fall into a false effort, spend a lot of time doing meaningless things, whitewash your lazy heart with the appearance of hard work, think about playing when you work hard, and worry about nothing in the end if you don't work hard when you play.

brief

Eager for success, I hope that short-term efforts can bring excess returns, such as 1 month to master xx skills quickly and get rich overnight. And always overestimate the effect I achieved in 1 day and underestimate the return I can bring in 1 year. Once the short-term efforts fail to achieve what you want, you are unwilling to pay any more. After working for three minutes, it is difficult to calm down and concentrate on things, and finally nothing can be done.

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