Asking someone to do something means giving money.

Commission implies that there are three excuses for giving money.

1, family excuses.

In order to relieve the face pressure of the object, it should be said that you are welcome. It's none of your business whether I bought this for my children or for the elderly. Even if I don't do anything, I will bring them something when I come over. This is my heart. Because everyone accepts gifts directly, it will make people feel that they have never seen the world. If you use words to a third party, you won't be embarrassed.

2, an excuse from a friend.

In A Dream of Red Mansions, Jia Yun used this excuse when giving gifts to Wang Xifeng. Generally speaking, a friend of mine, who works in a drugstore, developed in other places and gave me some borneol. I won't use these high-end things either. I'd better be filial to you. Such high-grade borneol, in the process of giving gifts, has become a human relationship, and there is no cost, so that the object will not feel too expensive to accept.

3. An excuse to make up for the loss.

You took the trouble to do things for me. Can you still spend money? Take these first, and I'll give them if they're not enough. In this case, the potential preset goal is that there must be a loss in doing things, and money is used to make up for the loss, not to make the goal profitable, so don't refuse, so the goal is to accept these gifts on the pretext of avoiding losses.

Is entrusting others to do things a gift before or after?

Entrustment is an early gift.

When it comes to gifts, we must not worry about them first, but consider them comprehensively. For example, if the gift is heavy and the other party doesn't accept it, even if it is sent out, the risk is greater than the sky. If something really happens, the loss will be too great.

Moreover, the most important thing in giving gifts is to surprise each other. I don't want to always let the other person guess what gift you want to give, but give them a surprise, and often the other person will remember it better.

When giving gifts, you should talk well, at least make superficial efforts. You can't just go up and tell the other person what you want to do with the gift. This will be the most annoying thing, and the friendship with each other will be exhausted.