How to bid farewell to the pain of lovelorn?

How can I get rid of being single in the first stage? What are the skills of taking off the order? Facing unrealistic feelings. People are often insensitive, deny any feelings and believe that the other party has not really left. Everyone finds that the cycle of lovelorn love is different. Whether those who return to normal overnight and those who haven't come out after two years can get rid of the pain of lovelorn as soon as possible depends to a great extent. It depends on whether you can admit the fact that the other party has left. In the second stage, people gradually begin to accept the fact of parting, and there are also angry emotions, but before that, the direction of anger suits them. For example, I said to myself, "You are such a failure that you don't deserve to be loved. This practice encourages depression, but in the second stage, anger erupts on others, and you scold your predecessor's "damn guy" in your heart and even want to get back at him. Although the third stage begins to face the fact of parting, it is still possible to start negotiations without giving up. For example, if there is special dog blood in the novel, I will do whatever I want when you come back. This kind of reunion is not to establish a relationship with the ex, but to escape the loneliness and happiness brought by the breakup. The emotional model tower experienced after breaking up is bottom-up and step by step. The fourth stage puts love last. In a sense, this is the darkness before dawn. Obviously, this stage is particularly painful, and it will produce a series of painful emotions. The pain at this stage will not make you die, but if you can face the pain and find yourself, you will not only fall in love, but also find a deeper goal in life. The fifth stage admitted the fact of breaking up from the bottom of my heart. It's like climbing to the top of the mountain, putting up a flag, saying "swim here" and carving this slogan on yourself, which means that the trip is over and then enjoying the scenery on the top of the mountain. How to bid farewell to the pain of lovelorn II? If you are willing to bid farewell to being single, the first thing to do is to get rid of the pain of every emotion in the world. No matter how deeply you are hurt by every relationship in the past, when you look back, these are just clouds in the past, and times have changed. After all, you don't have to stay in the past and pay more attention to the changes in the personnel department around you. You can gradually discover that I think the universe is always spinning, and everyone's food, clothing, housing and transportation will be carried out in an orderly manner, including yourself. Often always nostalgic for the past, it is because you shut up your heart, reluctant to wave with the past, and dare not turn around and take a step forward. Try to open your mind, and you will find that your ex-girlfriend has changed girlfriends several times. Maybe she has established 1 a happy family, but as long as 1 is still standing still. But you are not alone, because there must be new friends and a better life around you, but you hardly realize this happiness. Looking at the problem with a changed logical thinking, you will find that the boyfriend is no longer the original boyfriend, and perhaps not the original childish girl. The personal experience of separation will make the separation successful and develop in different directions. No one wants to live in a world without the other side. What I have to do now is to recognize the objective facts, not to linger in the past, to find the beauty around me, and to find people who should work harder for him. Some people, every new relationship is a way to forget the past, which is really necessary. However, it should be noted that you don't just look for someone else because you forget the past. On the contrary, find 1 person you should love most to help you learn to let go of the past. After every emotional failure in the world, sum up the experience and lessons and know who is more suitable for you. This is the correct attitude after breaking up. After experiencing every relationship in the past, adjusting your mate selection criteria again will make your next relationship develop more satisfactorily. So how to adjust the mate selection criteria? It is necessary to analyze the reasons why each relationship is unsuccessful, re-evaluate its own reasons, and contact the actual situation, so as to set the overall goal of finding a partner.