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Junior high school students correctly understand the theme class meeting of puppy love: puppy love, I'm sorry

The background of a class meeting

According to the statistics of physiological medical experts, there is a problem of "early". Today's children not only think earlier and deeper than the previous generation, but also show a precocious trend in physiology. Some people say that there are many hormones in food, which promotes early flowering. Some people say that this is the inevitable result of the progress of the times and human evolution. In any case, the early blooming flowers are already in sight, which is the reality that we must deal with. The purpose of class two meeting

1. Let the students know the word "puppy love". 2. Analyze the disadvantages of puppy love and make it clear that middle school students should not have puppy love. 3. Learn to get along with the opposite sex correctly. 4. Treat puppy love rationally and calmly. Lesson 3 Meeting Preparation

1. Each student writes a short composition "I said puppy love". 2. Collect the tragic stories of puppy love.

3. Invite the parents of two students to express their views on their children's puppy love. Class 4 meeting process A program 1. The class teacher speaks.

2. Tell the tragic story of puppy love and listen to the story to talk about feelings. 3. Discuss clearly that "middle school students should not fall in love early". 4. Listening to music further clarifies that middle school students should not fall in love early.

5. The class teacher analyzes the reasons of puppy love among middle school students and makes a concluding speech. B activity record

[Class teacher's speech]: Hello, dear students. Today, the teacher will talk to you about a sensitive topic-puppy love. Many students quietly looked away when they saw the word on the blackboard. I know your mind must be saying, "Teacher, I know what you are going to say." That thing is not good. "I don't deny it. With the emergence and popularization of various mass media, people really know more. However, the teacher still has a few platitudes here. Let's put the shy rose of puppy love on the table and comment, shall we?

[Moderator] (Male) First, please listen to a true story. (Music "Butterfly Lovers")

Although more than a week has passed since February of 14, a pair of parents in Xicheng are still immersed in the pain brought to them by Valentine's Day-because their only son's courtship was rejected on Valentine's Day, he could not help but commit suicide on campus in February of 15, and died forever five days later.

According to Jiangnan Times, 16-year-old male students studying in a middle school in Xicheng, like all suitors, courted their lovers with roses on Valentine's Day in February. Who knows, this time it was rejected by the other party. He thought about it all night, but still couldn't figure out why he was rejected, so he drew his sword on campus the next day and committed suicide. Five days later, he closed his eyes forever and went to another world with a trace of regret. When the boy's parents learned the bad news, they cried their eyes out on the spot, and the mother fainted on the spot. However, it is too late. It was not until their son died that they realized that his psychology was too fragile. How can this little setback take away his precious life?

Coincidentally, a middle school student who was only 14 years old in a middle school in Xicheng recently was also troubled by emotion for a long time. In desperation, he chose to commit suicide by jumping off a building and died on the spot. Within a week, two teenagers in Xicheng chose to commit suicide because their emotional problems could not be solved.

[Moderator] I have heard the story. Now please discuss two issues actively. In order to stimulate students' enthusiasm in speaking, we adopt the method of marking, and each speech is marked as 100. This class is divided into two teams, men's team and women's team. Let's compare, which team scored the highest? Please listen to the question 1. Do you think it is worthwhile for these two middle school students to end their lives by suicide when their feelings are frustrated? (Students speak briefly)

[Moderator] The students' speeches were wonderful. I also want to hear more wonderful speeches from my classmates. Please listen to question 2. What would you do if you were in this situation? (Students speak briefly)

[Moderator] Thank you for your wonderful speeches. Now let's listen to the stories about puppy love collected by our classmates. (Students simply tell stories)

[Moderator] After listening to so many stories that shouldn't have happened, I couldn't be calm for a long time. I think my classmates must have the same feelings as me. Some people say that puppy love is a meteor shower, beautiful, but it will bring you pain; Some people say that puppy love is a green olive, bitter; Others say that puppy love will come sooner or later, and it is normal to come late and early. Who is right and who is wrong? Please listen to your comments. Now, please have a heated discussion. Do you think it is normal for junior high school students to fall in love? Should I? (Students discuss and then speak. Students speak)

I think it is normal for middle school students to fall in love. Generally speaking, I think I can accept it. The reason why teachers and parents disagree is that they don't understand us, and their thoughts are a little backward and not open. Another way of saying it: I think it is normal for middle school students to fall in love, which exists in our class, but it should not. We are in the best period of long knowledge and long body, and the main task now is to study. Besides, our self-control ability is very weak, and once we are distracted, we will bear it.

It is easy to delay learning. We don't have the conditions, the economic foundation and the ability to undertake this relationship. Therefore, I think middle school students should not fall in love. )

[Moderator] What the students said is very reasonable. Let's listen to experts' views on "middle school students should not fall in love early"

Puppy love among middle school students has five characteristics. That is blindness: middle school students' puppy love has no clear purpose, and their love is only the embodiment of turbulent emotions. Short-term: Puppy love among middle school students generally does not last long, ranging from one to two weeks to no more than two years. Vague: The love between boys and girls is very romantic, and sometimes they fall in love because they are quite frivolous. Fantasy: They fantasize that their love partner has concentrated an incredible quality, and even regard each other's shortcomings as advantages, and often exaggerate these shortcomings. Concealment: Puppy love among middle school students often takes more covert ways, such as sending letters and dating quietly. Although middle school students try to find several solutions to puppy love, the reality is that there is only one solution to puppy love-failure. Investigate its reasons; First, the economy is not yet independent, and there is no direction in career; Second, the ideology has not yet been finalized and the psychology is not yet mature. Maybe people want to know how to treat puppy love correctly. Puppy love is inappropriate, but once it happens, it is not a bad thing or a wrong thing. It is a very happy thing for one to love others and be loved. It's just that middle school students who are in adolescence don't have all the conditions to deal with love and marriage because they are immature physically and psychologically. If a person really loves another person, he should strive to improve himself in all aspects, make himself a career, create various conditions for another person and make him happy. Get along with the opposite sex properly, make friends with the opposite sex, keep a certain distance, help each other, and progress should not be criticized.

[Moderator] Yes, we middle school students have the impulse to fall in love, which is normal. Not all teachers and parents do not understand us. They stopped us mainly for fear that we had no self-control ability and that we would go astray. Just now, our classmates talked about the inadvisability of puppy love. Let's listen to experts' views on this. So, is there a better way to express our feelings? Next, please enjoy the boy chorus "Outside the Window". Lyrics: I came out of your window again tonight. How lovely your shadow is on the curtain. I have loved you silently for so many years, and I will leave tomorrow. How many times have I come out of your window and tried to call you out? Think of your beauty, my ordinary, and walk away silently again and again. Goodbye to my beloved dream girl, I will go far away to find the future. If one day I go back to my hometown,

Then say what you feel outside the window. Goodbye my beloved dream girl, and say goodbye to your shadow. If I don't come back, let the moon stay outside your window.