Netizen: I really feel sorry for this groom. How messy can a wedding be?

I had nothing to brush my circle of friends a few days ago. I saw a primary school classmate send a video of getting married in the countryside. The wedding scene was a mess, as if someone had just smashed it. The title is: Happy event turns into tragedy, and the bride's personality is too difficult.

Out of the curiosity and keen intuition of emotional bloggers, I think it is definitely not that simple. Since the wedding scene was smashed, there must be some insoluble contradictions, so I asked him what happened.

He was probably still at the scene, and before he could type, he made a long speech, which probably said: different places have different wedding customs, and hometown has always had the habit of getting married. Everyone has always adhered to the principle of "the more lively, the more auspicious", thinking about making fun of the bride and groom.

It's another holiday, and many young people come back from work in other places, which is even more interesting.

They not only sprinkled flour from the second floor when the bride got off the bus and was taken to the yard, but also directly taped the groom to the tree. I thought it was just a joke, but the bride got angry directly because she drove too far.

When she was sprinkled with flour, the bride lost her temper on the spot, not only dropping the bouquet in her hand, but also kicking over several stools beside her. People who are engaged may not expect the bride to be so grumpy, but it is a happy event after all. Seeing that she is not easy to mess with, she dare not joke any more.

But what I didn't expect was that just because they let the bride go doesn't mean they let the groom go.

Most of those young boys are brothers who grew up playing with the groom. Some of them are classmates in junior high school and high school, and their relationship is particularly close. Now that he is getting married, people naturally want to play a joke on him. Although it was said in advance that one was almost enough, don't go too far, but those people still went too far in a joke.

According to my primary school classmates, in fact, long before marriage, the bride strictly emphasized that no one could get married, which was her bottom line. For a girl, the wedding may be the most important ceremony in her life. She wants to leave some good memories and doesn't want to be ruined by some vulgar wedding.

It turned out that the bride didn't want to hold a wedding in her hometown in the countryside. At least she had to go to a hotel in the county, but the two families didn't talk about it beforehand. The man's parents said that relatives and friends are mostly in surrounding villages, so it is inconvenient to enter the city. Not every family has a car, and holidays are the peak of marriage, so many hotels have no place, so they have to give up.

But in fact, where is there no bus to the county seat? They just don't want to spend the money in vain, which shows that they don't pay enough attention to the bride.

The bride and groom met on a blind date, and they have no deep emotional foundation. But the bride is an extremely independent girl. In addition, there are few rural girls now, so it is really not easy to find a marriage partner through blind date. Therefore, the bride has her own pride. It can even be said that she is a little arrogant and can't rub sand in her eyes.

When she repeatedly stressed to the groom that the wedding scene should not be noisy, the groom promised well, but somehow, the people attending the wedding still had a good time during the wedding.

When she saw the groom surrounded by a group of people, taped to a tree, and coated with red liquid on her face and neck, the bride couldn't help it any longer and shouted directly at the crowd: "Stop it, I'm not getting married. What kind of quality can such a wedding scene have? " I'd rather be single than married in this kind of family. "

Hearing her say this, the crowd suddenly quieted down. Obviously, everyone didn't expect her reaction to be so fierce. When several elderly aunts next to her tried to persuade her, she had torn off her veil and dragged her wedding dress away without looking back.

And where is the groom at this time? In the tree. Seeing that the situation was wrong, he was also anxious. He cursed the people around him and told them to untie themselves quickly. Then he rushed out to find the bride and told her that relatives and friends were present. Can you stop? If you can't get off the stage, everyone will be ugly.

He obviously didn't realize the seriousness of the problem, thinking that the bride was just angry and would be fine if she was coaxed, but in fact, getting married often reflected the family style. If friends around us don't have this sense of respecting people, but regard this vulgar marriage as a lively thing, then it shows that the overall quality of their group is not high.

The bride's unwillingness to get married just proves that she has her own requirements and pursuits for marriage. It's not that she can't accept the "marriage quarrel" itself, but that she can't accept such a lifestyle.

So in the end, the bride was not persuaded to come back. She told the groom directly: I didn't ask for a penny of the bride price, but I brought it all back. In the box I brought when I came, two people should never have any contact again.

Marriage was originally a happy event. It is inevitable to be gossiped in front of many relatives and friends, and your face is always ugly. But from another perspective, it takes a lot of courage to divorce in public. If I hadn't touched the bottom line, I wouldn't have been so impulsive.

The bride knows very well that neither the groom nor the family behind him, nor the circle of friends around him, are far from what she imagined. From the various vulgar marriages at the wedding scene, we can see that they have no respect for women in their bones and their overall quality is not high.

Many people say that marriage is just a form to make it look lively. This is nothing in itself, there is no need to make a mountain out of a molehill. Moreover, marriage is not directly related to family style.

But in fact, the more detailed the matter, the more telling the problem. Marriage is also divided into specific ways. It's nothing to make a joke or simply play some small games to liven up the atmosphere. However, if the marital conflict rises to personal injury, it is a crime under the guise of marital conflict.

In real life, because there is no restriction on marriage, are there few cases where bridesmaids and brides have conflicts? From some angles, marriage is no different from the dross of feudal culture. As long as it exists, it will always cause different harm to people.

I still remember when Bao Beier and Bao Wenjing got married, Ada, the bridesmaid of the Best Man Group, held her directly and threw her into the swimming pool. At that time, Ada screamed with fear. If Jia Ling didn't show up in time, he would closely protect Ada behind him and tactfully disband the best man group in the form of a red envelope. I don't know how to end this matter.

At that time, this matter was also on the hot search. Although the parties apologized to Ada afterwards, Ada also expressed forgiveness, but many netizens still said that this marriage was really too much and inappropriate. Especially public figures, will have a bad influence.

Both public figures and ordinary people should be responsible for their words and deeds. Marriage is a once-in-a-lifetime event. Who doesn't want to leave some good memories?

But anyone who goes to your wedding is a friend who is very important to you or values you very much. There is really no need to spoil the wedding atmosphere because of some so-called old customs.

Just like the story mentioned above, the bride broke off her marriage in public and said that she broke up with the groom. Who is to blame? Marriage is not a personal matter, everyone has a responsibility, and they are all familiar friends, afraid of what is not good to pursue.

This incident also reminded unmarried girls that marriage is a lifelong thing. Please be sure to find the right person and family, not only by looking at each other's personality, but also by looking at the family style behind them. If they don't respect you from the beginning, even if they get married, they may not be able to live well.

Can you accept others getting married at your wedding site? Have you ever heard of accidents caused by marriage? Let's leave a message and say what you think.