I remember when I was working in a village, I often went to the homes of poor households assisted by my unit. This was my job. I said it was a walk, but actually I wanted to see them busy making mone

I remember when I was working in a village, I often went to the homes of poor households assisted by my unit. This was my job. I said it was a walk, but actually I wanted to see them busy making money, going out, running a farmhouse, and doing housework. However, a few times, their behavior particularly left me disappointed and angry. Their family did not work or earn money during the day. At noon, everyone would wrap themselves in a worn-out wool felt and lie on the grass to sleep in the sun. The deputy village chief who went with him was also very angry. He felt that he had lost the dignity of working in the village, so he kicked the man's buttocks hard with his feet wearing pointed leather shoes. The man opened one eye and saw us. He smiled first and then pointed to the room, meaning that there was tea, naan, and cigarettes in the house, and we were allowed to receive it ourselves. Before he finished speaking, he fell asleep soundly. I really don't know how they could have so much sleep in this world. That day, we found all the milk tea, cheese, sugar cubes and milk wine that were left in his house, drank them all and ate them all, and even smoked all the cigarettes. We just didn’t leave any for them and let them sleep well. .

Within two days, the man happily rode his horse to see us again. This guy actually didn't remember anything and didn't hold grudges. He came back to visit us with a smile and brought a jug of thick milk skin, golden butter and a white cheese bag. It turns out that he continues to live a happier life than us.

Later, as time passed, they influenced me and I changed. I don’t know from whom I learned to be lazy and forgetful, learn to let go and give up, and learn not to scrutinize and pursue; only then did I realize that I no longer cared about promotions and salary increases, inspections and acceptances, and reporting of advanced quotas in the unit. , no longer worry about who published a book, who received royalties and bonuses, who became popular in the cultural world, and no longer care too much about the grades of my children, or other people’s living conditions that are better or worse than mine. I don't know when I started to imitate the villagers. As long as I was not in a hurry, I would step out of the depressing office filled with all kinds of slogans and portraits, and hold a soft roll of new paper in my arms. For a felt, find a place with trees, grass, shade and the sound of water to spread out and lie down, or simply sit on a piece of dried pine wood; then, think about nothing, think about nothing, and the world will start from now on. From the beginning there was nothing. Look at the flowing clouds in the sky, look at the birds in the sky, look at the wings of the eagle in the sky flapping for a while, listen to the crackling and cracking sounds of the pine trees, listen to the insects whispering among the grass trees, and listen to the tiny sounds of love. The calls of cattle, horses and sheep communicate, and you can smell the strong smell of wild flowers blooming, grass being broken, and rosin overflowing.

I will suddenly think of my past, along with my father, my friends, my workplace, my boss, my career, my wealth, and my many lazy habits. village friends. In fact, we all have the wrong understanding of happiness. Sometimes we regard happiness as light or heavy. Light as if happiness comes by itself with a handful of money, heavy as if happiness is hard-won without everything.

A few days ago, I was still laughing at a small article on WeChat, titled "Living in a Daze", which was about some young people in the Mainland who deliberately gave up on the things that everyone envied. With jobs, salaries and bonuses, choose a way to release yourself away from the bustling metropolis, go to Kanas, Lhasa, Nepal and other places without the interference of modern civilization, and live a life without thinking about anything or asking for anything for a few days. . Only then did I understand the meaning and no longer laughed at them. In fact, these young people are much smarter than our generation and can appreciate the differences in the world. Regardless of whether you have money or not, whether you have power or not, whether you have the security of life or not, if you can live a good day, it is a day when you enjoy happiness.

It seems that there are still many paths in life that can lead to the garden of happiness. Moreover, happiness is the goal of life.

So, I began to think, when and where, I would also go to the place where they wanted to stay for a few days, bask in the sun, listen to the wind, smell the wild wind, and stand still There, sit on the ground and look there; eat when you are hungry, sleep when you are lazy, and then be in a daze. Such days will bring you a good enjoyment.

In many small things in life, there are many great principles worth learning, including these young people who want to live in a daze. They are all in different areas of life and have naturally become my life. mentor.