Introduction to reading in scholarly families

Whenever I finish work, return to my warm home, and pick up a copy of my favorite "Romance of the Three Kingdoms", my daughter will obediently serve a cup of steaming fragrant tea, and then look at the happy Fairy tale novels, my wife is reading her favorite clothing magazine aside, and the scholarly family is enjoying themselves happily. This is really the happiest moment in life. I am ashamed to say that all the wonderful things today are related to my daughter's mahjong throw.

The Lost Home

I don’t know when it became popular to play mahjong in the society. One weekend, my colleagues at work invited me to come over. I thought it would be okay anyway. To save face, I agreed, but this time I almost ruined the harmony between father and daughter, husband and wife, and ruined a beautiful home. Since then, people have been asking me to play mahjong every once in a while, and my addiction has become stronger and stronger. I build squares whenever I can. In the past, every day when my daughter came home from school, I would always ask her about her performance in school that day. If there is something she doesn’t understand in her studies, she urges her to review and read books. However, since she got into playing mahjong, her daughter’s studies have been neglected. My wife and daughter had warned me many times not to come, but I didn’t listen at all. Sometimes I would go home and get angry when I lost. The laughter and laughter at home were drowned in complaints and quarrels. My wife went back to her parents’ home for a month because of this. When my daughter sees her father, she calls her a gambler. She doesn't behave as coquettishly as before. Her studies are greatly affected and her mood is very low. She, who was cheerful, has become taciturn. It has reached the point where I feel like I am possessed by a ghost. Without repentance, a happy family is about to be destroyed in the hands of the father it once loved so much. The family has lost its way forward in gambling.

I suddenly woke up

There is no way out and there is no way out, but there is another village with dark willows and bright flowers. Just when family conflicts were at stake like a volcano erupting, an unexpected incident changed everything. It was another smoke-filled night. I was having a heated fight with a few of my friends. My daughter came in at some point. She looked at me with angry eyes and yelled at me with almost all her strength: "Dad, you know Is mom sick? She is in the hospital. Are you a competent father? Like a pair of sharp swords piercing my selfish chest, like a thunderbolt in the clear sky, I was greatly shocked, how could it become like this, where is my good daughter, where is his good father, I looked up at the long night sky outside the window and kept questioning my conscience. Since then, I have no intention of playing mahjong anymore. A few days later, my daughter came home with a form and asked me to sign it. It turned out that the Hutang Central Primary School where my daughter was attending was conducting a selection activity for reading families. Based on the above requirements, especially when I saw how much time parents spent reading every day, I felt ashamed. It’s hard to accept. I feel that I really shouldn’t have done it. My failure to study has also affected my children and my family. I am filled with deep regret in my heart. Yes, a father is a child’s first teacher and has a lifelong impact on the child. Yes, today's society is an era full of competition and challenges. Not only will my children have bad consequences, my family will suffer, but I may also be in danger of being laid off. The happy scenes from the past come to mind like a movie. It's time to wake up.

The whole family mobilized

After a sincere confession and apology, my wife and daughter forgave me and agreed with me that no matter who asked me to play mahjong in the future, we would go home after get off work. I read with my daughter for two hours. On weekends, the whole family goes to the bookstore to read and buy books. I order five study magazines and three study newspapers for my daughter a year. The daughter said she would study hard to live up to the expectations of her father and mother and strive for the school's five-star award. Her wife also signed up to take the college correspondence examination.

Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, it is the winter vacation at the end of the year. My daughter went home happily holding the five-star award, my wife passed the correspondence college, and I also won the annual assessment of my unit. The warmth and joy of the past have returned. Arriving at this once-broken home, my daughter gave me a sweet kiss during the Chinese New Year. I jokingly said, "Daughter, don't call me Gambler Dad anymore." My wife joked at the side, "You want to call me Shu instead." Crazy dad.

"My daughter listened and laughed loudly, showing her snow-white little tiger teeth, and her two sweet dimples were filled with intoxicating happiness.

Nowadays, studying is the top priority in my family. Sometimes, in order to argue about a study The whole family mobilized to discuss the issue, and we argued with red-faced faces. I was in the minority, and my daughter always stood on the side of my wife. But the truth is often in the hands of a few people. I always won the final victory, and my wife and daughter were even more confident. They love me, respect me, and call me the master of the family. Isn’t this the change that reading has brought to my family?

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Family education plays an important role in the growth of children? It plays a very important role. In order to better cultivate children's reading, expression and other abilities, parents have provided suggestions to help their children create a warm and harmonious reading atmosphere. Here is a summary of everyone's methods: (*^__^*)

1. Carry out family reading clubs

Family reading clubs can be held regularly to cultivate children's organizational skills and overall awareness, enhance children's self-confidence and the courage to express themselves, Pomegranate Family Weekend The book club is a role model. (*^__^*)

1) Moderator: It is recommended that family members take turns taking responsibility.

2) Other members: parents, other relatives, classmates or others. Teacher.

3) Classic reading: learn an ancient poem every week. The choice of this poem is often consistent with the season. 4) Essay *** Award: This is the most popular part of the reading club. The important part is for everyone to recommend a book or article they have recently read to other family members, such as classics, new influential works in newspapers or online, picture books, etc.

5) Comment: comment, communicate with each other, and improve together

6) Same song: learn a new song

The above content can be adjusted appropriately according to different situations. Oh, it’s best to create what suits you best (*^__^*)

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2. Establish a family book corner

Children’s interest in reading largely comes from their parents’ role models and the role books play in family life. It is advocated to “open up a space, clear a desk, and organize things at home.” "Some old books, add some new books, post a reading list" and set up a "family reading corner".

1) Give a bookish name: Xingguang Pavilion, Xinxiang Room, Puzzle Room, Bookworm House …

2) Let children actively participate, such as letting them serve as librarians in the book corner, etc.

3) The content of the family book corner should preferably cover history, culture, and technology. and other fields.

3. Parent-child reading

Parents and children reading a book not only strengthens communication and discussion between parents and children, but also cultivates children’s Listening, guide children's learning and thinking habits (applicable grade: before the fourth grade of primary school)

1) Parents read aloud, provide timely guidance: When reading aloud, parents ask questions based on the plot of the story and provide targeted guidance. Children’s thinking and expression skills.

2) Read aloud by role: experience the story and improve children’s ability to express and feel.

3) Carry out family performances: Families edit the play together according to the story, and can invite classmates and relatives to participate.

Warm reminder: When your child is uncomfortable in bed or can’t sleep at night, reading to your child can make your child feel valued and more confident.

4. Make a reading resume:

Many bloggers have their own unique reading note format. The table includes good words and sentences, personal reflections, learning gains, etc. Parents are advised to Guide children to create an overall reading resume to facilitate analysis of the quantity, quality and category of children's reading, and provide more targeted guidance.

1) Let the children write the titles of the books they have spent so far on paper

2) Write the author’s name next to the title

3 ) Summarize the main content of the book in one sentence

5. Visit the bookstore with your children

Books are nutrients for children’s growth. Many of our bloggers are aware of the importance of books. Sex, as one party said, "The daughter who studies is so beautiful!". Children who frequent bookstores are smarter. (*^__^*)

1) Go to bookstores with your children regularly, at least once a month.

2) Read with your children and lead by example

3) Children choose the books they like to read.

Warm reminder: At the beginning, you can take your children to some nearby children's bookstores. The environment should not be noisy, so that the children can form a better impression of books. After they enter elementary school, you can go to a slightly larger bookstore. For grades 5 and 6, it is recommended to go to a large bookstore.

6. Launch a family reading competition

Parents can design competition questions based on recent reading gains. Fully mobilize the reading atmosphere in the family.

1) Select a host and create topics.

2) Competition, answering questions, and scoring

3) Analyze the reasons and reward excellence. Designate the host for the next period.