A collection of quotations related to focus!

Every item is very useful. Some are what Teacher Liu said in class, and some were added by partners during the learning process. I would like to thank the focus master Zhu Jinfeng for his initial hard work in organizing them (from the "Focus Quotations" of Xinyang Focus Team "Limited time solitaire), there are 115 original manuscripts. I have proofread them one by one. I have retained some, and also made many deletions, additions, and changes. I will add and update them from time to time in the future!

1. I believe that everyone is an expert in solving their own problems.

2. Only by not aiming at change can you have the opportunity to change.

3. Whoever you want to change, first become a partner with him.

4. The family is a system. When you change, everything will change.

5. Sixteen-word policy: If it is not broken, do not repair it; if it is not broken, do not replace it; if it is effective, continue, if it is invalid, change it.

6. Only by never forgetting your original intention can you achieve success.

7. A person can be affected by the past, but he will not be determined by the past.

8. Under the solid ice, there must be warmth surging.

9. Growth is a slow motion. If you don’t see growth in a day, you will see growth in months. If you don’t see growth in months, you will see growth in years.

10. I am excited during class, moved after class, and motionless after returning home. (This is not a focus quotation, it mostly refers to previous classes, not focus classes, because we have a platform for continuous growth and partners to grow together.)

11. Small changes can bring big results different.

12. The ultimate of education is the influence of behavior.

13. Focus allows us to develop a pair of eyes that discover beauty.

14. Psychology can be used to analyze yourself, but never use it to analyze others.

15. Only through acceptance can there be communication, only through communication can there be cooperation, and only through cooperation can there be the possibility (opportunity) of change.

16. Do not explore the problem of chicken and egg.

17. Believe in the power of belief!

18. The less cute the child is, the more he needs love.

19. Speak with your heart rather than your mouth (***love, praise).

19. Do you think what you think is what you think?

18. The Focus House is a growth workshop, not an arena.

19. The more involved, the greater the harvest.

20. The problem itself is not the problem, the improper solution is the problem.

21. Existence is a kind of resource. Look at resources in a positive light.

22. Mother’s stability is the anchor of stability in the family. (Parents’ stability is the anchor of change for children)

23. Enlightenment will not bring about action, but action will bring about enlightenment.

24. Slow is fast, fast is slow; the faster, the slower, the slower, the faster!

25. Only when you change yourself will you bring about changes in the people around you.

26. Your world is constructed by you using language.

27. Stick to rather than push.

28. We grow together and move forward together.

29. Discussing problems will only bring problems, but discussing and solving them will bring about solutions.

30. Don’t bully your children when they are young, we will eventually grow old!

31. Where the heart is, there is the harvest!

32. People avoid pain and pursue happiness.

33. Who you are is not important, what is important is who you think you are.

34. Don’t put labels. If you want to put labels, put labels on them.

35. Life is everywhere a training ground.

36. Focus three: Borrowing strength from the past, borrowing strength from the future, and borrowing strength from important others.

37. Internalize in the heart and externalize in actions.

38. Behind every complaint there is a positive expectation.

39. If there is a relationship, it doesn’t matter. If it doesn’t matter, there is a relationship. Relationship is greater than anything else!

40. Things may not happen for a reason, and knowing the reasons may not change them.

41. Only by being close to the teacher can you believe in the way.

42. Even if the person’s answer is ready to come out, let him say it himself.

43. The more children use it, the more useful it becomes! If you want to destroy your child's ability, do it for him.

44. Worry is the worst curse, not as good as a blessing.

45. Mother’s mouth is open. (From Pingdingshan Focus Team)

46. Focus your limited energy on important things.

47. No matter how fancy the technology is, it cannot compare to true love. (If people are right, the world will be right.)

48. It’s not that you persist because you have hope, but that you have hope only if you persist.

49. When things happen, ask less why and more what you want.

50. Miracle questions are the clouds in the sky, and evaluation questions are the ladder to the sky.

51. Rules must be formulated by both parties and written down.

52. Treat others how you want others to treat you. (Golden Rule)

53. I don’t ask, you said it, it’s dependence!

? I asked, you said, it’s trust!

? I don’t ask, you don’t tell, it’s the distance!

? I asked, but you didn’t tell me, it’s because of the estrangement!

54. Three no’s principles: no guidance, no evaluation, no presupposition.

55. See through but don’t tell.

56. Eight-character policy: Leverage your strength and follow the trend!

57. Repetition is great, and the leftover is king!

58. Every visitor is unique!

59. Children are not always unreasonable, they just want a hug.

60. You think you explained it clearly, but in fact you didn’t. He thought he understood it, but in fact he didn’t understand it either. Hengpi: You didn’t explain clearly, and he didn’t understand either!

61. Focus on life, focus on life.

62. There are no shoulds in life, only rares (more rares, less shoulds).

63. Don’t ask about the past, only ask about the future.

64. The biggest shortcut is that there is no shortcut.

65. Focus is a school of hope and respect.

66. Ability is developed through practice, and feeling is acquired through exposure.

67. Focus on knowing is easier than doing, emphasizing the unity of knowing and doing.

68. Focused learning is like cooking porridge, simmering over low heat until the aroma fills the room.

69. Traveling alone is fast, but traveling together is far!

70. You have your wonderfulness, and I have my dullness.

71. There are no uncooperative children, only parents who don’t know how to adapt.

72. Parents are independent individuals and accept that their children are independent individuals.

73. Don’t make casual judgments about other people’s lives.

74. If your child is often unreasonable, it may be that you often do not keep your words.

75. Ideas come first, technology comes later (Tao is greater than technique).

76. If parents study hard, their children can make progress every day.

77. If there is more white, there will be less black (one decreases and the other increases).

78. Children are born to be focus experts.

79. It doesn’t matter how much you know. What matters is how much you have done. If you don’t know how to move, just move and you will know.

80. Parents’ trust and encouragement are the magic weapon for children’s growth.

81. Four attitudes toward children: acceptance, unknown, appreciation, and curiosity.

82. Parents are role models for their children. They should imitate others and be exactly the same.

83. Everyone has a glass heart, everyone wants to be seen, and everyone needs to be praised.

84. Prefer subjects and teachers, and hate learning and parents.

85. Begin with the end in mind and be goal-oriented.

86. Perfection is always on the way!

87. Teachers are humans, not gods. Teachers also need to be empowered.

88. The truth needs to be found and waited.

89. Wait for him to change and give him time to change.

90. Three-word policy: Don’t mess around.

91. We are humans, not gods, and it is normal to have emotions.

92. If mountains don’t change, water will turn. If this road doesn’t work, take a detour.

93. Sing whatever song you go to.

94. No change is normal, but some change is rare.

95. Three steps of focus: goals, resources, and one small step.

96. Be a good "water attractor".

97. Details, details, details.

98. Hold back for three seconds when something happens and let the truth (emotion) fly for a while! ("Let the emotions fly for a while" comes from Wugang Focus Room)

99. You can express your anger, but not in anger.

100. Don’t use yourself as a trap for others.

101. Complaints are a wall, go around and look at the expectations behind them.

102. The problem of success is solved by growth, and the problem of growth is solved by learning.

103. If the direction is wrong, efforts will be in vain.

104. Pay attention to the positive and firm rules at the same time.

105. Knock on the door before helping.

106. Repeatedly, the effect will be more consolidated.

107. Change the language and change the world.

108. Enthusiasm is more important than ability.

109. There are many reasons to give up, but there is only one reason to persist: that is, I want to persist!

110. The length of life is limited, but we can increase its width and expand its dimensions.

111. Being gregarious is the beginning of mediocrity.

112. What else? What else? What else? ...

113. Participation will bring rewards, speech will bring touching, actions will bring insights, and persistence will make a difference.

114. Every mistake (setback) is an opportunity for growth. 115. Whatever you pay attention to, you will get. ? 116. Relationship is greater than method, and method is greater than content. ? 117. Pick up whichever pot is opened. (That is, focus on successful experiences) (from Pingdingshan teacher Lu Suying) 118. The communication between you and me is equivalent to a conversation between six people. (The real me, who I think I am, who you think I am; the real you, who you think you are, who I think you are.) ? 119. Don’t be the person who steals the voice of the person involved. 120. If you have a problem, you must have a goal. If you have a goal, you don't necessarily have a problem. ? 121. You can say or not, say less or not at all; you can ask or not, ask less or not at all. ? 122. You clipped my wings, but you blamed me for not being able to fly! ? 123. Don’t talk full of love but look ferocious! 124. The environment affects vision, and vision determines the way out! 125. Don’t cry over spilled milk, focus on the solution. 126. Talk about love first and then talk about things. The more reason you have, the less emotion you have. Don’t win by reason and lose the relationship.

? 127. Cooperation and communication are the keys to solving problems. ? 128. Stopping doing wrong is the first step to starting doing right. 129. Having a goal does not necessarily mean there is a problem. If there is a problem, there must be a goal. ? 130. Continue if valid, give up if invalid. (From Teacher Li Junli in Wugang Focus Room)