"Hurry and ask your mother to go back to the countryside, or you will get divorced if you don't leave!" How to live in peace between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Filial piety should be an essential quality for everyone. The criterion to judge whether a person has a conscience is whether he is filial to his parents. An unfilial person can't be respected by anyone. Even the education in our country has always taught people that all virtues of filial piety are the first. This is enough to show the importance of filial piety to everyone.

There is a definition in psychology. There is a kind of behavior in modern people's communication called "non-loving behavior", which is to rob the closest person in the name of love. This kind of behavior often happens between father and daughter, between mother and child, between lovers, that is, between the closest people in the world. It is a kind of compulsory control in the name of love to achieve one's own goals. Let others do what they want. As children, we should be careful not to control our parents in the name of love.

But when filial piety and married life conflict, what should we do? Is it to protect marriage or to be filial to parents? This is a difficult decision to make.

After three years of long-distance love, Liu Xin and Wang Juan finally entered the marriage hall. This was originally a good thing to make them laugh in their dreams, but what happened six months later put their marriage life in crisis.

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The reason is that Liu Xin's mother in her hometown in the countryside misses her son and wants to live in the city for a while. As a son, Liu Xin agreed to his mother's request without hesitation and took her home.

My mother has just arrived in this city, and her body is very stiff. She stays in the wedding rooms in Liu Xin and Wang Juan, and dares not move anything. Sometimes I don't even dare to go to the toilet for fear of damaging things at home. Liu Xin felt very distressed to see her mother so formal, so she always enlightened her. This corrected the old man's mentality.

So stay for a period of time, Liu Xin's mother took good care of Wang Juan, the daughter-in-law. On weekdays, at dawn, the old man gets up to make breakfast for his son and daughter-in-law. During the day, he will help clean the house and keep it clean and tidy. Even Wang Juan couldn't find fault with her mother-in-law.

Liu Xin is a dutiful son. He originally wanted to take his mother to the city to enjoy life, but he found that her mother had become a nanny at home. This makes Liu Xin feel very uneasy, so she often buys some nutrition for her mother.

The old man was elated to see his son buy so many good things for himself. But he still complains that he spends money recklessly. The relationship between mother and son is getting better and better.

But Wang Juan has some opinions. She watched Liu Xin buy this and that for her mother-in-law, all of which were very expensive supplements. I feel a little unbalanced: you just want to sell supplements to your mother, why not buy some for my mother? So because of this, I talked to Liu Xin about it.

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Liu Xin replied directly: "Did your mother come to wait on us? I bought some supplements for my mother, because she was like our nanny when she came over. How can I stand it as a son? I bought this thing just to make up for my guilt. "

Wang Juan suddenly wasn't so happy, and Liu Xin had a big fight. Liu Xin's mother heard these words, so she took out those supplements and gave them to her daughter-in-law for Wang Juan to take back to her mother.

But Wang Juan didn't appreciate it, because she was bitter about it and was critical of her mother-in-law in the following days. Either she is not a good cook, or her house is not clean. Liu Xin's mother didn't want the young couple to quarrel, but she always put up with it.

Later, when Liu Xin found that Wang Juan was critical of his mother, he immediately became very angry and scolded Wang Juan many times. And told her that if she was found disrespectful to her mother in the future, he would never spare her.

The relationship between husband and wife is in crisis. The more Wang Juan looks at her mother-in-law, the less likable she is. She often makes things difficult for her mother-in-law behind Liu Xin's back. In order not to let her son quarrel with her daughter-in-law, Liu Xin's mother has been silently enduring her daughter-in-law's difficulties.

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Finally, the conflict broke out. That day, Liu Xin's mother wanted to please her daughter-in-law, so she washed her new clothes. For fear of wasting electricity, the old man never uses the washing machine, but washes it by hand. I didn't expect to wash Wang Juan's new clothes.

When Wang Juan came home, she saw that her new dress was torn and thought it was her mother-in-law's intention. So I yelled at my mother-in-law.

When Liu Xin's mother saw her daughter-in-law angry, she knew she was in trouble. I sat silently on the sofa and secretly wiped my tears after a while.

It happened that Liu Xin came home from work and saw this scene. He immediately asked what was going on.

Wang Juan still stubbornly insisted that her mother-in-law deliberately washed her new clothes. Liu Xin's mother has been silent, just crying.

Liu Xin suddenly knew what was going on, so he said, "Obviously, mom was kind enough to do your laundry, but she was kind enough to do something bad. Don't be so stubborn, just buy another one when the clothes are broken. "

I didn't expect Wang Juan to quit: "This is my new skirt, and your mother broke it on purpose. I tell you, tell your mother to go back to the countryside at once, or I will divorce you! "

On hearing the divorce, Liu Xin's mother panicked. She begged Wang Juan not to divorce her son and said that she would go home tomorrow. Liu Xin saw her mother's crying eyes, and her anger was suddenly ignited. He helped his mother up and shouted at Wang Juan, "Divorce is divorce! Get out! "

Wang Juan also silly, she doesn't want to divorce, just want to force Liu Xin to send her mother-in-law back. I'm in a panic now, begging Liu Xin not to get a divorce.

Liu Xin told her word for word: "This is my mother, even if it is not your biological mother, but it is also your elder." If you are not filial to her in the future, I will divorce you immediately. I am serious! "

This matter has finally subsided. From then on, Wang Juan never dared to disrespect her mother-in-law again, because she was afraid of divorce.