My girlfriend asked me for a bride price of 20 thousand. How can I refuse?

Every place has different customs, so the amount of bride price is different. Some places want more while others want less. At present, it is not too much to ask for a bride price of 20 thousand yuan. So, if you really refuse her, it's really not an easy thing.

Bride price is a sensitive topic before marriage. Before marriage, many people broke up because of the bride price. Therefore, in the face of the bride price, if you have real feelings with her, don't let everyone break up because of the bride price.

Of course, if you really don't want to, or you really can't afford to pay the bride price of 20 thousand yuan, but you can't let go of each other, you can try the following methods:

1. Giving more love to her can be all-encompassing. So, if you really can't pay back the money and want to marry her, I think you just need to pay more love and impress her with your heart. You can't afford a bride price of 20 thousand. If you want to marry her, you must impress her with practical actions. A woman can't stand men being nice to her. You try your best to be kind to her, she sees it in her eyes and keeps it in her heart. If a woman is really touched by you, what can she do if she doesn't want a bride price? She married you, not a bride price.

2, soft grinding hard foam women are actually soft-hearted, can not stand you for her soft grinding hard foam. If you can't find a good excuse, you can stick to her and show that you don't want to get 20 thousand bride price. You talk too much. She knows what you mean. If you want you to have an emotional foundation, I'm sure she won't embarrass you. But if you can really come up with the money, you'd better not hesitate. Bridal gifts are an important part of our wedding custom. What's wrong with paying for your lover?

It is reasonable to make it clear that it is reasonable to travel all over the world, and it is difficult to move without reason. ? Although some women are unreasonable, most women are reasonable. You just need to convince people that you don't want to take the money, and I'm sure she will agree with your proposal. If you don't want to take the money without any reason, you shouldn't use this method. But I think that if you are such a man, people will make the right choice even if they don't marry you. What can a person who can't even afford the bride price of 20 thousand yuan and still cares about it in every way do to make others happy in the future?

Explain that being poor for a while is nothing, but being poor for a lifetime is terrible. Show your sincere attitude towards marriage, even if you have no money, you are willing to try to change the status quo. You know, many successful people started from scratch. Women follow men not for evil, but for his future achievements, and they can change the current situation through their own efforts. If you don't want to accept the bride price of 20,000 yuan, and you don't show your attitude of struggle in the future, then it's hard for you to touch the other person's heart, and it's even harder for her to walk hand in hand with you for a lifetime.

The above four points are the reasons why you refused your girlfriend's 20 thousand bride price marriage.