Couples born after 60 and 70 have only one child. Do you regret it?

I regret it now, so does my wife and my mother. I wish I had a second child. However, some things are very contradictory. At that time, when his son was four or five years old, that is, around 2002, he struggled about whether to have a second child, but the reason for giving up was that he had no money. He has always felt that earning that little money is not enough, and consumption is not proportional to income. He always feels that money is earned slowly, which is not proportional to the pace of the development of the times. He spends what he earns, but he can't save money. At that time, interest was not good, so in the late 1990s and early 2000s, those who had the opportunity to make a fortune at that time, and those who had saved 1.2 million yuan at home, all started to speculate in real estate. By buying a house in the city, they made a fortune, like snowballing. We also thought about it, but our brains were in place and the money was not in place. So I am worried that if I have another son, where will I have the money to buy a house in the future? There was already pressure to buy a house. I remember telling my wife at that time, well, if I had money, I would welcome another son and two brothers would be my companions, but now I have no money and I can't guarantee a daughter. If I can, I must have another daughter. I didn't feel it when I was young, but when I grew up, I felt it was a pity that I didn't have a daughter, because my parents cried when I saw someone else with a daughter and dressed beautifully.

I believe there were many people like me in those years, that is to say, everything should be considered, such as having a second child and buying a house, but they were short of money. I always feel that it is more difficult to earn some money than to ascend to heaven, so I want to settle down and cultivate this one with all my heart, so that the good wish of having a second child will be stillborn. Twenty years have passed in an instant. I didn't expect many families not to have a second child because of money. Money doesn't make many heroes, but no money really doesn't curse.

I only gave birth to one child. I don't regret it now, I won't regret it in the future, and I'm complacent! [yi tooth]

At that time, we responded to the national call for family planning and only gave birth to one child. We respond positively and enjoy the treatment of only child. On Sundays and holidays, we go fishing, having fun, playing computer games, traveling, planting flowers and plants, and living a happy and free life. Why not?

It is said that many children are blessed, but I don't think so.

Looking back at the couple, catching up with the era of money first, how much does the boss's wedding room and car cost, and where is the second child? How much does it cost? Without business, people will be exhausted. When they are old and can't get away, they will be in debt no matter how hard they try. If the children don't return, how can the old man return? What should I do when I get old? What about unfilial? What if they don't unite? I will worry for a lifetime and be tired for a lifetime. In the end, I will only regret it!

I can't cope with high consumption now. How can I take care of you? I still have to stand on my own feet and take care of myself, so I always think it's good to have only one child and I won't regret it.

Regret is necessary, but regret is useless.

Time will not go backwards, nor will history go backwards. At that time, the country enforced the one-child policy, probably out of helplessness, in order to control the total population. As post-60 s and post-70 s, we couldn't figure out the same meaning at that time and strictly followed the policy. To tell the truth, there were few students who didn't feel anything at that time, and everyone was the same. Today, we have all reached or passed the age of destiny, and it is only a matter of time before we meet Marx. The author thinks that the most regrettable thing is not ourselves, but our descendants, who are only children, have no brothers and sisters, and have few relatives, with "four mountains" above their heads. How difficult their life is and how to inherit the courtesy of their loved ones.

I regret it very much I know I will lose my job now, and I have to pay social security myself. I should have divorced at the beginning, which added a net burden to my children. I miss Chairman Mao very much.

Just wait for the national goods to get old! ! A young couple and four old people can't count on it anyway, so they can only rely on the state to provide for the elderly! !

Couples born after 60 and 70 have only one child. Do you regret it? Carrying out family planning is our national policy. In the 1970s, in order to control population growth, the state advocated one child and controlled the second child, resulting in multiple births. Many couples responded to the call of the state, gave birth to children and got the one-child certificate.

The state has adopted the corresponding family planning subsidy policy. Anyone who has reached the age of 60 can enjoy family planning parents' incentive subsidies, and the situation varies from place to place. Fuping county stipulates that both parents can receive a bonus of 2400 yuan every year from the date of receiving the certificate.

Parents of one-child families can enjoy relief subsidies, and parents of one-child families over 60 years old in rural poor families can receive 960 yuan relief subsidies with annual tickets.

Only-child families can enjoy disability allowance. One-child families, if disabled, can receive a monthly disability allowance 270 yuan.

The only child can enjoy death allowance. There are unexpected events in the sky, and people have unexpected events. If the only child is unfortunately killed, for whatever reason, every family member can receive 340 yuan's pension subsidy every month.

Only children can enjoy education subsidies. For the one-child family, the state also gives certain education subsidies, which mainly reflect two aspects. 1 you can enjoy the preferential policy of extra points for the college entrance examination, and all localities can add points appropriately according to the actual situation. 2. Each household can enjoy 1 1,000-3,000 yuan in direct cash subsidy.

In Fuping County, one-child families, two-daughter families and poor families can enjoy the annual rural cooperative medical subsidy in 20 yuan.

In today's society, the competition for ten books is fierce and the cost is very high. From the time a magical child enters the magical children's park, the annual tuition fee of the three-year magical children's hospital (small class, middle class and large class) is 5,000 yuan (about 2,400 yuan per semester, calculated by two semesters), and the children's day is about 1000 yuan, and the three-year magical children's park is about 654,438 yuan.

A six-year primary school costs 2000 yuan a year, which is about 12000 yuan.

The total cost is about 12000 yuan, calculated at 4000 yuan per year in the third grade.

Three-year high school is about 6000 yuan per year, * * * 18000 yuan.

Four-year university, about 1 10,000 yuan per year, and the cost of * * * is about 40,000 yuan.

The minimum cost for a child from entering school to graduating from college is about 654.38+10,000 yuan, plus a lot of investment is needed to get married, buy a car and buy a house, at least 1 10,000 yuan. It can be seen that it is really not easy for parents to raise a child from birth to marriage, so for the only child born after 60 s and 70 s,

After I got married, the country's family planning policy was very strict at that time, and it was clearly stipulated that both husband and wife were allowed to have only one child at work, otherwise they would be punished for having more children. At that time, it was really a fine for rural hukou, and government workers involved in super-life were expelled from public office.

Under such a policy, we really accepted and got used to the family planning policy of "having only one good child" for more than 30 years. Now children have the policy conditions of "having a second child", but their thoughts have also changed, and most of them still insist on "having only one good child".

Careful analysis shows that one child is enough for parents to worry about now. From kindergarten, the comparison of schools, the choice of primary school to junior high school, extracurricular counseling of related courses, college entrance examination to employment after graduation from university and so on. A series of urgent tasks are worrying and spending money. It's really a big problem for parents to worry about.

Of course, although I am about to retire, I still feel that only one child is quite good and full of happiness!

What's the use of regret? Who dared to have a second child when there was a work unit? That is "illegal" and will be punished and expelled by the unit. In order to live, there is no way but to accept it against one's will.

Sometimes regret: children are too lonely, and when they grow up, they don't have a close relative; Sometimes I don't regret it: in response to national policies, everyone is one! Besides, if you fall into the predicament of being laid off again, you can't afford it even if you are born!

At that time, the country advocated: just have one child! The country comes to support the elderly! People around the age of 60 love their country, love the party and love the people! Believe in supporting the policy of the * * * production party! They are also honest. However, then again, family planning was really strict, and the punishment for violating super-life was particularly heavy. In some places, there is even a saying that nine families are involved. Some generations of families who prefer sons to daughters really risk their lives and want a son at all costs. One of my classmates is equivalent to marrying a senior official. The husband is an only child, and the mother-in-law insists on grandchildren. My classmate was pregnant for eight months, and someone secretly did a B-ultrasound, saying it was a girl, and her mother-in-law strongly demanded it, otherwise her son would get divorced. At that time, there were not many divorces, and the students were also honest and had to listen. As a result, it was bleeding heavily, and it took many days to save his life in the hospital. After recovering, she gave birth to a son for her husband's family. There are really too many such examples!

Now, we are old and used to the life of children, and we have no regrets! I always worry: we are all very old, how can we afford children?

I am a post-60 s generation. I've never had a baby and regretted it. On the contrary, I am glad that I only gave birth to one child. If I have a second child, how can I live such a relaxed and leisurely retirement life every day and run my own hobbies freely? Again: it's good to have only one child!

As we all know, in China in the early 1980s, due to the needs of the national conditions, the country implemented family planning, so a large number of one-child families appeared in the city, especially the employees of government agencies, institutions and state-owned enterprises, all of whom had only one child.

The traditional concept of China people is that many children are blessed. Many old people have given birth to several children by themselves. However, in their later years, their lives are still a mess and they need to worry about all kinds of things. Because there are no worried parents in the world, even small things in the eyes of children are always safe and worry-free for parents. Old people with many children always have endless hearts. After this child's heart was fucked, there was another one. In short, the more children there are, the more worried the elderly are. How can they have time to enjoy their leisurely old age?

There are many advantages to having only one child. When children are young, life is relatively easy and economic pressure is small. To be sure, he doesn't have so many troubles when he is old. When children are young, they have more time and energy to accompany and educate. When the child grows up, he is only worried about this child. Naturally, when they are old, they don't have so much mind to fuck, and life is easy when they are old. In their later years, they can have more time to do things they like, such as growing flowers, dancing, practicing swords, taking their wives out to play and so on. There are also some old people who have no time to cultivate their hobbies and interests when they are young for various reasons. After retirement in their later years, they can also spend a lot of time on things they are interested in. After all, there is only one child, and the old man need not worry too much.

These are not as good as those old people with many children. After all, there are many children and many things to worry about. Any child who has a bad life will worry the elderly. Some families with many children are constantly in conflict, and each child is planning for his own small family. It is inevitable that there will be such contradictions, or children will be resentful because of their parents' partiality, and the old man will be caught in the middle. In the one-child family, this situation does not exist at all. After all, there is only one child, and the old man's mind is also spent on this child. There is no such thing as favoritism.

Therefore, don't use this reason to persuade young people to have more children. Young people have more children if they like it, and no children if they don't like it. Don't impose their wishes on them. They can live as they please. After all, this is the best and most open era. "I am the master of my life!" That is, whose life is in charge! No matter parents or others, they should have less leisure, live their own lives and live happily every day. Who wants what kind of life, as long as they don't violate the law and discipline and lose their morality.

Go your own way and be free to embrace a happy future.

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