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Pay equal attention to incentives and constraints. Strict management of love means careful management is a manifestation of love.

Forms of parental love:

1, create a loving family.

Parents' good personality and healthy mood are prerequisites for building a loving family. A child can not only get what he needs in life at home, but also get real and concentrated care at home. If parents are indifferent to their children at home, children will feel inferior and become withdrawn.

Excellent parents will give their children meticulous and concentrated care through words and actions at home to ensure the balance of their emotional needs.

2. Be good at controlling your emotions

When children encounter difficulties or do something wrong, they always have a "love expectation" for their parents. Children usually judge their parents' love at "critical moments". So parents should learn to control themselves, find good countermeasures in calmness, and let their children feel your love.

Losing your temper is a taboo. Maybe your parents are well-intentioned, and they hate iron to produce steel. They are really angry, but learn to restrain themselves anyway. Because losing your temper hurts the feelings between parents and children the most, and with the growth of children, this kind of damage is even greater.

3. Don't punish children.

Punishing children often doesn't get the expected effect, but it will increase hostility in children's hearts and make them feel wronged and angry. Children already feel guilty about their mistakes, and punishment is extremely harmful to children who feel guilty. Letting children kneel, starve and be beaten in front of angry parents will make children oppose their parents in mind and character.