How to save yourself when your parents raise a giant baby?

If you want to change the status quo of the giant baby, you must first find a job and be self-reliant. Where is the way? The road is under your feet.

Dependence on parents is a process that each of us must go through in the growth stage, but this process cannot be extended indefinitely. If people still depend on their parents after middle age, they will lose their independent personality, which will be looked down upon, denied or even despised by people. This is what we call the neet people who depend on their parents and the giant babies who don't grow up.

Don't be such a person, you will regret your mediocrity one day. It's never too late to mend. Go out and become independent.

Why did it become a giant baby?

Sometimes our parents protect us too well. They are always afraid that we can't make a living in society, so they have come up with various ways to retreat and paved the way for us. This is because they are too worried. A child is like a young eagle. When his wings are hard, he should be allowed to fly alone. Society is where everyone grows up, and no one can live under the protection of their parents all their lives. The control of leaving parents is 65438.

The main reason for this situation is also from parents.

Self-help begins with self-reliance.

I used to be a person who was infinitely dependent on my parents. My college life was spent on my parents' living expenses, and I didn't earn a penny in the process. I'm ashamed to think about it now. Later, I was really independent, because I had a job of my own, so I hope that those young people who want to get rid of this situation, no matter how much money they have, must find a job first. When you integrate into the society, you will find that the sea is wide and the sea is jumping forward.

A person's independence often begins with economic independence. When you don't need anyone to support you, you will gradually become independent. Maybe you didn't achieve much, but you supported yourself with your own hands. For a young man, this is something worthy of respect.